

He was predeceased by his wife Martha Ruth Douglass; they enjoyed 58 years of a beautiful life together. His progeny includes daughters Cathy Talcott (Tom) and Carol Bissett (Oran). Grandchildren Douglass Bissett (Sarah), Laura Bissett Marks (Ian), and Cristina Talcott Caraway (Clayton). Great grandchildren are Abbigail and Addyson Bissett, Collin Marks, and Cord and Collins Caraway. He is survived by his special lady, LaRue Blackwell.
Jay was a lover of Jesus and singer of songs. He demonstrated an infectious philosophy of living, which included these tenets:
1. Have Happy Hour as often as possible.
2. Go to some trouble to ensure that others are having a good time.
3. Do what you say you will.
4. Find a lifetime partner to love, care for, and have fun with.
5. Bring joy to dogs by carrying treats.
6. Enjoy your food with gusto – leave pickiness to the sour-faced.
7. Tend your soul and learn to live in love by attending church regularly.
8. Spiff yourself up; you’ll feel and act better when you know you look sharp.
9. Take care of your money and your money will take care of you.
10. Support civilization by visiting the public library nearest you. Enjoy reading daily.
Jay retired from providing drilling supplies to the Texas oil industry. He entertained his customers in the Petroleum Clubs and on the golf courses of San Antonio and Corpus Christi for 42 years. He was a Mason for 77 years and a Shriner for over 50 years - a member of the Scottish Rite Temple and the Alzafar Shrine. Jay was an active member in First United Methodist Church, Club Des Amies, and he ferried Meals on Wheels. He served as a B-29 airplane mechanic in the Philippines and Guam in the Army Air Corps during WWII. Jay is remembered as always giving an uplifting word and putting others first, while giving voice daily to a grateful heart.
The family would like to thank Eden Hill and Hope Hospice for their care. Memorial gifts may be given to First United Methodist Church, Shrine Children’s Hospital Fund, or Hope Hospice.
A memorial service will be held on February 14th at 10:00 at Eden Hill Chapel, 631 Lakeview Blvd. Overflow parking with additional chapel entrance at The Pinnacle apartments.
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