We love you sweetheart.  We talk and think about you all the time.  We're watching and waiting for you.  I so miss the phone conversations.  I can still hear " hey dad, how are you?" 
Closer now than yesterday.

Hi, Mom. It's me again. I haven't been here in awhile. I miss you Mom. I'm struggling. I don't know why I'm still here. What's the point of life? Especially now that you're gone. I'm tired Mom. I don't know how much longer I can hold on. My heart aches, I'm in pain all the time. I want you here. I want you to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want you to pull me in and hug me and tell me everything's going to be okay. I'm never going to see you again am I? Even if heaven is real I won't go. I've spent my whole life resenting God. I've prayed my whole life for him to end my pain and all I got in turn was more pain and nows he's taken you from me. I just want it to end. I don't want to feel this way anymore, Mom. I want you with me. You were supposed to watch me grow. You were supposed to be here with me. I just want my Mom.

Hi, Mom. I never even knew this whole site existed until my bsf googled your name and she found this. You would have liked her. She is kind and smart and really funny. I looked through all the sweet messages that people have put for you. It made me cry. I miss you mom. I'm 17 now! Whoo hoo! I never thought I'd make it to 17, but here I am! Ethan is 13, a teenager, I know🙄 he's gotten even more annoying if that's even possible 🫤 Charlie had a baby! His name is Jasper. You would have loved this little guy! He flaps his hands and vibrates when he's excited, you would have laughed so hard at him. I've noticed he likes to imitate me a lot. Whenever I'm talking to him and I'm excited, I open my mouth real wide for some reason. He's started doing it now too. It's so cute. Remember how I always take a blanket or my shirt around my neck or over my chin? Yeah, I still do it. I've noticed Jasper likes to do the same thing, in his own baby way😂 I miss you, mom. I wish you were here. I'm a senior now! I graduate next year in 2025!! I thought I'd go before you! I never thought I'd have to greive you for the rest of my life. You don't understand how much pain I'm in. My whole life has been so much pain. When you were coming home, I texted ALL my friends about how happy and excited I was. They were happy for me! It hurt to see you go. I never knew someone could be in so much pain and still have to keep living every single second of every single day, until you died. I promised I would live, for my family, and my friends. But it's so hard, mom. If they could only understand the amount of pain I'm in, then maybe, just maybe, they'd be okay to let me go. I want to see you. I want the peace that comes with dying. I won't have to feel anything. I just miss you, Mom. I love you🫶

Happy birthday sweetheart! 
..........Every day

Happy birthday sweetheart! We love and miss you so much! We are all watching for you.

I miss and love you mama! everything is so different without you but I know you are always watching over us. 

I love you sweetheart! Watching for you every day!!

To my baby daughter.I miss you very much.I know you are in a beautiful place, some day we will see you again.I hated to see you go but I know you are free as a dove and no more suffering. Save a place for me and your Dad cause we will see you again LOVE MOM. AND BY THE WAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

Your mother and I are watching for you sweetheart! Even while not present, your life is affecting others positively.
"All is well".
"Blessed be the name of the Lord".  
We love you sweetheart. 

I will miss Amy very much. She had away of making everyone feel special. She was a blessing to everyone who knew her. I am looking forward to seeing her when I pass. I love you very much Amy and I will miss you so much. Till we meet again.

I'll never forget you. I loved you very much! I remember the first time we met. In this world, so many things happen for whatever reason. This was never meant to be our home. I missed so much of your life, it hurts. We're all human.. all needing Jesus... So, sorry for things the way it went. This life is s vapor thank God!! I'm truly looking forward to seeing you in heaven where nothing can go wrong and nothing can be said wrong. There won't be any unanswered questions. All will be perfect! You we're a good sister in law to me. I remember all the fun times. I'm so sorry you was so sick. I know, it was your time.. to your family.. I'm very sad for y'all.. your mom would want y'all to carry on with Jesus till he returns. I wish your family the very best.. Love y'all very much!!

Amy was the most caring person I have ever met. Her and I share so many memories...and plenty of secrets. I loved my cousin with my whole heart. My world will never be the same. I know she is watching over me. I love you to the moon Amy and I know you are waiting for me on the other side. Until I see you again I’ll keep our memories close to my heart. 

I am Amy's Aunt Karen. I remember Amy as such a sweet little girl with a big tender heart just like my son Jesse.  As a young woman she was so pleasant to converse with. Always an amazing listener with a smile and a word of encouragement. Amy always loved coming to see my mom and going on their little adventure to the swinging bridge in Galax, VA.  She loved my son Jesse who also had a big tender heart like hers.  I lost him last year in a car accident so now they are together where their sweet hearts will never break again. Only praise, peace and happiness forever.  I pray that God will grant mercy and bring peace to Charlotte, Bethany, Ethan, Dillon, Chris, Victor, Pam, Christy and the entire extended family. 

OBITUARY

Amy Marie (Cox) Surbaugh

12 July, 1983 – 14 June, 2021

Willis-Reynolds Funeral Home

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