Debbie was born on September 30, 1949, in Watonga, Oklahoma, to Daniel Henry Crider and Bethena Kerley (Johnson) Crider. She grew up in various towns across Oklahoma but had called Norman home since high school. She graduated from the University of Oklahoma with a bachelor’s degree in Education and went on to make a lasting impact as a 3rd-grade teacher at Fairview Elementary in Moore, where she educated and enriched the lives of hundreds of children over a career that spanned more than 25 years.
On December 28, 1970, Debbie married the love of her life, Donald “Bud” Pittman. Together they built a beautiful life grounded in family, laughter, and love. Debbie found pure joy in being with those she loved most, her daughter, her grandson, and her many nieces and nephews. Her favorite days were simple ones: filled with family, stories, dancing, and maybe a little too much delicious chicken from Eischen's.
Debbie had a deep love for music, especially anything with a good beat that she could dance to; favorites included Adele, Michael Bublé, Ike and Tina Turner’s “Proud Mary.” She lit up any room she entered, with laughter never far behind. Her favorite color was crimson, a true Sooner through and through, and her love for OU football and softball ran deep.
Despite facing many medical challenges, Debbie never once asked “Why me?” Her strength, grace, and positivity were an inspiration to all who knew her. What she most wanted was to be remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother, family member, and friend, and is exactly who she was. A friend to all, her warmth and kindness will live on in the hearts of many.
Debbie is survived by her devoted husband of 54 years, Bud, of the home; her daughter, Darci, and son-in-law Michael and beloved grandson, Wyatt Christopher Potts of Arvada, Colorado; three brothers-in-law, two sisters-in-law, five nieces, five nephews, and many extended family and friends who will miss her dearly.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Daniel and Bethena Crider, and her sister, Dana McDade.
Debbie’s life was a testament to joy, resilience, and unconditional love. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered always.
