Robert Andrew Herold

Robert Andrew Herold, age 83, joined our Heavenly Father just before sunrise on Sunday, October 26th. Robert, known to most as Bob, was born on September 14, 1942, in New York City. He was the cherished son of Hungarian immigrants Elizabeth Kurucz Herold and Andrew Antal Herold, and a beloved father, brother, friend, and partner.

Bob grew up a city boy, attending Stuyvesant High School, and had countless stories about the mischief and adventures of life on the streets of New York in the ’40s and ’50s. He developed a love of music early on and, in his twenties, played rhythm guitar in a rock ‘n’ roll band.

A proud patriot, Bob answered the call to serve and enlisted in the United States Air Force, where he worked as an aircraft mechanic. He often credited his time in the service with shaping his character and helping him become the man he was.

Following his military service, Bob attended Brooklyn Poly Tech—where he earned a degree in Industrial Engineering—while driving a taxicab in Manhattan. Those who ever rode with Bob could attest that his taxi-driving instincts never quite left him.

In 1968, Bob married Dorothy Ann Leonard (Hutensky). Shortly afterward, he accepted a position at Pratt & Whitney, and the young couple moved to Connecticut to start their family. They put down roots in Tolland and welcomed three children: Jennifer Renee, Erin Elizabeth, and Timothy Robert. During his tenure at Pratt & Whitney, Bob earned his MBA from Penn State and built a successful career marked by innovation and leadership. Of notable distinction, he received five U.S. patents for jet engine tools that he invented while leading several prominent military engine programs. He developed lifelong friendships and earned deep respect from colleagues along the way.

The city boy came to love the countryside of Connecticut. He enjoyed gardening and found great peace in nature. New England fed his soul, and Bob loved to hike—especially Mount Washington, which he climbed for many years with his children. Those annual trips became a cherished family tradition filled with laughter and memories. His passion for music endured, and he learned to play the violin. Bob performed with local symphonies, and classical music often filled his family’s home in Tolland.

Bob later moved to Vernon, CT, and turned his energy toward a new passion: winemaking. On ten acres in Vernon, he built his own vineyard and produced wines that went on to win numerous prestigious awards. His expertise led him to teach winemaking in the horticulture program at Naugatuck Valley Community College. He also served on the Board of Directors as Director of Education for the American Wine Society. Bob mentored many Connecticut winemakers and judged both privately made and commercial wines across the country.

Bob was fortunate to retire in his mid-fifties, which allowed him more time to travel. He loved the open road and exploring our great nation. He visited many of America’s national parks, delighted in quirky destinations—like the SPAM Museum—and never passed up a stop at his favorite fast-food spots along the way.

A talented cook, Bob was known for making and sharing delicious meals, wine, and artisan treats with friends. His quick wit and infectious sense of humor were second only to his culinary skills. Known to quote The Princess Bride or Monty Python at any opportunity, Bob loved to laugh and make others laugh too. He had a deep love for animals and a soft spot for all of God’s creatures—especially his sweet Doberman, Brixie, his feline friend, Ollie, and the birds that frequented his yard in his later years.

Bob eventually became a full-time Florida resident, settling in Jupiter Farms after years of splitting his time between the North and South. His lifelong passion for music continued, and he took up the banjo—especially drawn to old-time and bluegrass music. He joined jam sessions and musical groups across the country, building friendships wherever he went.

A man of steadfast faith, Bob was a longtime member of the Congregational Church in Tolland, where he served as both Deacon and Trustee. After moving to Florida, he became a Trustee at Union Congregational Church in West Palm Beach and later joined the First Presbyterian Church in North Palm Beach. There he found a vibrant community and deep fellowship, actively participating in many groups. His church involvement brought him immense joy and spiritual fulfillment.

Eight years ago, Bob met Alice Payne at Union Congregational Church, and together they shared a beautiful relationship filled with love, adventure, and laughter. They traveled often, and Bob even convinced Alice to take up the mandolin so they could enjoy music and jam sessions together. United by their faith and music, they found deep happiness and purpose in their shared life. Bob’s faith remained a guiding force throughout his journey—he lived God’s word through generosity, kindness, and service, often donating to local food pantries and helping those in need.

Bob is survived by his children, Jennifer (and beloved son-in-law, Michael) Arsenault, Erin Herold (Ronald Delaney), and Timothy Herold; his “better half,” as he fondly called her, Alice Payne; and his sister, Elizabeth Herold Martin. He is also survived by his adoring grandchildren, Jenelle, Ashley, and Julius.

Bob will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. His legacy of love, laughter, music, and faith will live on forever in the hearts of those he touched.

A memorial service will be held at 9:30 a.m. on Saturday, November 1st, at the First Presbyterian Church in North Palm Beach, FL. A reception with the family will immediately follow in the First Pres Fellowship Hall. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Busch Wildlife Sanctuary in Bob’s name.

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