Ursula E. Dahlerup

Living of Brewster surrounded by family on November 11, 2011.

Born on April 6, 1928 she was raised in Quincey. After marrying, Ursula

and her family followed husband, Myles', career traveling the East. They

settled on the Cape in 1970.

Owner operator of The Country Inn in Harwich Port and the Dennis House, she

was an innkeeper with a passion for hospitality. A hostess with class.

She later became concierge at Chatham Bars Inn and Oceans Edge.

Ursula founded and was president of Cape and Islands Concierge Association,

still going strong today. She volunteered with Big Brothers Big Sisters and

the first night Chatham committee, with much enthusiasm.

She encouraged and taught everyone around her with kindness, strength, love

for life and never ending dreams. Her happiest times were spent gathering

family and friends, sharing life stories, cooking, traveling and

gardening. She cherished her family and brought all close to her together.

Ursula is survived by son, Douglas McTernan and wife, Mary McGuire, of

Newburyport, MA, daughter Amy Costa and husband, Jim, of Orleans,

granddaughter Kirsten Deschamps and great grandson, Tyler, of Harwich

grandson Dillon McTernan and wife Mandy and great grandson, Dillon Gavri,

of Hammond, LA, as well as loved friends, close extended family and many Danish relatives.

She will be missed and always loved, she was truly a lady.

A memorial service will be held on December 3, 2011 at 1:00pm at the Chapel in the Pines, 220 Samoset Rd, Eastham, MA. Donations in Ursula's memory can be sent to VNA Hospice & Palliative Care of Cape Cod, 434 Rt. 134, suite D3, S. Dennis, MA 02660.