

Kay was born in Peace River Alberta in 1938. His parents Harry and May moved the family to farm in Kenton Manitoba when he was a child. He was an active participant playing baseball, hockey and working on the family farm. In 1955 he was the catcher for the Midget Manitoba Champs who brought honour to the small community of Kenton.
He married Marlene Baily in 1961, and together they shared 65 wonderful years and raised their son, Alan. Kay joined the Canadian Armed Forces at just 17 years old, embarking on a decorated 30-year career with postings in Moose Jaw, Comox, and Trenton. An avid curler, he deeply cherished the lifelong friendships made throughout his years of service.
In 1986, they moved to Parksville, BC, settling into a home in the beautiful seaside community of San Pareil. Kay remained close with many of his service friends, several of whom also retired to BC and kept their strong camaraderie alive. A special group of friends enjoyed 20 wonderful years together as "snowbirds" in Palm Springs. Kay was loved and respected by all who knew him, especially his son, Alan, who relocated to Parksville with his family in 1994. The two spent precious time together over the years—fishing, lending a hand with home projects, and catching Blue Jays and Canucks games with a martini in hand. Kay was a kind man who treasured his dogs: Sparky, Jack, and Missy. He loved genuine country music and always left the stereo playing for his dogs when heading out so they wouldn't feel alone. Among his fondest memories were with his 2 grandchildren including the many camping trips spent with Sarah, Marlene & Jack and fun times in the hot tub with Josh.
He will be forever and lovingly missed by his wife Marlene. He will also be deeply missed by his beloved family, including son Alan (Shelley), grandchildren Sarah, Josh (Tanya) and great grandchildren Nathaniel, Quintin, Everett, brother-in-law’s
Donald (Janice) and Larry (Deb). Kay was predeceased by his sister June and his brother Glenn.
In has last few years, Kay spent 3 days a week travelling to Nanaimo to receive dialysis treatment. He rarely complained about the process. He was so thankful that he was able to extend his life with so much help from his loving wife Marlene and support from caring nurses, doctors and his wonderful driver Irene.
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