Well it's been 5 years now since you parted from this earth.   I miss you more than ever.  I remember the night before you passed.  We were laughing and joking about you turning 55, and all the Senior discounts that  you would be eligible for.  I remember you walking out the door the next morning, without knowing I would never see you again.   Nobody knows how much and what I would give to see you just one more time.  You're forever on my mind and in my soul.  I know God had different plans for us, but I sure do wish we could have fulfilled the ones we had together.  You are, and always will be my one and only true love.

Well Stacy, on Saturday May 7, we will be gathering for a memorial for your mom.  I know you were there for her during her passing.  You left a hole in my heart when you passed, and now there's another one for your mom.

I wish I could see you one more time, come walking through the door.  But I know that is impossible, I will hear your voice no more.  I know you can feel my tears, and you don't want me to cry.   Yet my heart is broken, because I can't understand why, someone so precious had to die.  I pray that God will give me strength, and somehow get me through.  As I struggle with this heartache, that came the day that I lost you.

Well my love, today is the 2 yr anniversary of your journey to the other side.  I miss you more than ever.  They say it gets better with time, well I don't find it getting easier at all.  For me, every second of every day I miss you more than words can say.  Reni is doing good and she misses you, but she knows your watching over us. We both would rather have you back, than spend the rest of our lives missing you.  I Love You 
Stacy, you still hold my heart and soul.

Well it's been a year today since you passed.  It doesn't seem that long.  I love you and miss you more than ever.  We went to see Rick today and it really helped Serenity to be able to hear the things you used to do with her.  I hope it helped Dawn too, but she is just as stubborn as you were so only time will tell on that one.  This year has been hard, but I survived it.  Although at times I don't know how I did it without you by my side.  I know your always with me and Serenity, and that alone is very comforting to me.  Always know you were my life, my love and my best friend, and always and forever will be.  I love you Stacy.

I miss you so much every day dad. I hear your laugh sometimes and still brings tears to my eyes. Not a day has gone past that I dont shed a tear for you.I miss you so. I got your picture tattooed on my arm today by the dragon you liked im sure you'd love it. There was a couple times getting it done I'd tear up but then smile cause I knew you were sitting with me watching. I love you dad and miss you even more. But I know your in a better place now. Rip my amazing father.

Well my love I made it through another first.  It was our wedding anniversary yesterday, and I know I could not have made it through it without Rick Woods help.  I'm glad I picked him too and didn't listen to my friends.  I know and have known that you are always with me, but it was nice to get some confirmation on that.  I will take what you told me and do the things you said when I'm feeling lonely.  I will think of that grass field, and us sitting together looking up at the castle.  I love you, and miss you, and always will.  I know we will be together someday!!

Well my love, the kids and I went to the rim and per your request set some of the ashes upon your favorite rock.  I hope it was the right one, things have changed up there so much since we were last there.  The whole thing was very touching and beautiful.  When the last of the ashes I took up were spread there were 3 hawks that came flying up and started to circle around us!  I hope you were pleased.  I Love you and miss you with all my heart every passing day.

i'll miss you very much dad I love you and i'll miss every thing we did while I was going up

Well It's Valentines day, and it just seems like yesterday that you were here with me.  Another first to go through.  New Years was tough, but today is even harder.  You were never the romantic type but you made me happy every day with your smile and laugh, and just loving me!!  I love you, and miss you now and forever!! Your Loving wife, LuAnn

Well my love, it's 2 days till Christmas now.  The closer it gets the harder it gets with the realization that your not here to share it with us.  I think about you always and know you're watching over us.  I love you so much and miss you even more!!  I pray every night that you will come into my dreams so I can be with you one more time, even if it is a dream.

I was trying to teach Reni how to wish on a star the other night, and her wish was that you would come back to us!  I started crying, cause that would be my wish too!  We both miss you very much!!  With all our love, Serenity and LuAnn

Well first Thanksgiving without you my love.  I missed sitting next to you at dinner. I'm truly thankful that we had 33 wonderful years together, I just wish it would have been more!  I'm also thankful for Serenity, she's been the glue holding me together these past 10 weeks.  She misses you a lot too!!  She draws pictures for you all the time and places them by your ashes.  I know in my heart your still with us.  I may not see you but I can feel you!

Today would've been your 55th birthday!  I remember you sitting on the couch the day before you were taken away from me, telling me that you'll be an official senior citizen!  Oh how I wish you would've made it.  I miss you so, so much it hurts!!  I will always love you, and remember the 33 wonderful years we had together.  Your loving wife, LuAnn

Sunday, we put my brother to rest and said our goodbyes.  As we all try to move on without you, Stacy, I take the time to look back on our lives.  Camping every summer, fishing from the rowboat, and the dumb cluck incident.  Nana and Pops and sleeping on the porch.  Climbing those huge mulberry trees across the street and dropping water balloons on cars.  Volleyball in the backyard, freeze tag and football in the front.  Mashing potatoes for Thanksgiving dinner.  Going with Dad to check the store.  Playing outside until Mom whistled to call us all home.  You grew up to be a lot like Dad, in appearance and how you lived your life.  You worked every day, cared for your family, raised your kids, and knew right from wrong.  You enjoyed life and laughed with gusto.  You will be missed by so many people who's lives you have touched.  Even though it wasn't said, I hope you knew how much you were loved.  Rest well, little brother.

We will miss your laugh, your face and your kindness. You always lit up the room with your since of humor. My heart goes out to our entire family as we find the strength to move forward, cherish the memories and remember the life you lived so bright. Heaven has gained a special angel. You will be missed Stacy, rest in peace.

I will miss your humor most of all and that laugh, I could always tell where you were at a get together.  LuAnn, know that you all are in our hearts.  Wish we could have been there, our thoughts and prayers go to our family.  Stacy you will be missed, know you will always be in my family and my hearts. Rest in Peace.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. One last salute to you. Rest in peace my friend.

My fondest memories of him have always been his ever-smiling face and his jovial laughter. It is true the kind and gentle person my brother in law Stacy was, I'm sure the one who made him, realized how special he was, to be left in the midst of this cruel world. He belongs to a place that is kind, a place that is away from all.

My little brother has been called away from us by the Lord and we will all miss you so very much. The times we spent together were not enough, but I have you and the many memories in my heart and they cannot be taken away. The husband,father,son and brother that you were to all of us just makes me so proud. Please let me hear that laugh from the heavens so I know you are with us and watching. For now I will miss you but I will see you again. I love you brother.

To a coworker that will be missed, but not forgotten. Stacy as I speak for some of us,  we will miss your good morning's,  your smiles, and even your laugh. You are a great man, coworker,  and friend. Now the lord has called upon you as one of his angels. This is not a good bye,  because I will see you again in another lifetime. Many prayers go out to your wife and family.

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

God needed a good man at his right side. Stacy, there are no words to express how I feel, but you know in your heart we didn't need words. Rest in peace and my love to you and all your family.

Perfectly matched couples are a rare thing to find.  Stacy and LuAnn fit that bill.  They demonstrated total and complete love, understanding and deep affection for each other in everything they did.  Never have I known anyone with as much movie knowledge as Stacy.  Ask him anything and if he didn't have the answer right then, he would have it the next time you saw him!  His smile brightened any day and his laugh filled your soul.    Stacy is one of a kind who will be so greatly missed by many.  But by no one more than his loving wife and best friend, LuAnn.  I love you friend.  I would trade my life in a heartbeat, if it meant many more years for you two.  I miss you when I am not here.  Times like this are when it's so very hard to be so far away.  You already know that you can pick IP that phone anytime day or night.  Love you LuAnn and Stacy.

Our condolences to you and your family. May he R.I.P. Love from Irene Tessensohn and family.O:(

Thank you for all that you did for me while I lived out in Arizona. I'm sorry I didn't call more often but it was always since to hear you voice and your laugh when ever I got the chance to call Dawn or Mama. You will always be in my heart and you memory will stay alive. May you rest in Paradise till we meet again Dad I don't think I ever said this do you but I know that you knew that I love you. Watch over all of us from up above.

Sending my condolences, thoughts, prayers for the family in the difficult time.. Lord plz give my friend and her family the strength to get thru this.. May he forever remain in our hearts and never be forgotten.. <3

You were such a GOOD man. You were the stars in so many eyes. I will see ya on the other side. Love you! You will be in my heart always.

I lost not only the love of my life, but my best friend too.  There won't be a day pass by that I won't miss you.  I miss your smile, and the loving look in your eyes, but most of all your laugh.  It was very contagious!  Rest in Peace my love, you will forever be in my heart, and I'll see you in my dreams.  Forever Yours, LuAnn

OBITUARY

Stacy Mark Shaver

22 October, 1958 – 23 September, 2013

A.L. Moore-Grimshaw Mortuaries Bethany Chapel

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