We started a friend ship in the 1980. You married my best friend and sister. She was I'll most of the years you were together. She was my sister always. When she felt she wasn't going to be here much longer, she asked me to watch over you and take care of you. I promised her I would. But you said no way if we are to fulfill her wish I could not stay  with you or you with me unless we were married. So we went to the court house had a simple ceremony. My kids were our witness. People kept showing up at the court house. How they knew. We couldn't figure it out. After the ceremony  everyone came to where I lived and now you did. Funny know one knew he was going back to work he was a tow truck driver after and so was I worked as a property manager so low and be hold my office didn't reopen that day.  My boss just laughed and said closeup and enjoy everyone. So he was working and were got all kinds of foods from deli. And when he got home  from work we all had a wonderful evening with family and friends.we got married Sept 1 ,2006 so we would always have a 3 day weekend for our anniversary.  That was the begining of our lives. Fun don't you think. We had many ups and downs. Then you got Lymphoma from using round up. On the most part you beat the cancer. But weren't  well that was 2013 but he fought and we were happy on the most part. We were in Love  another great surprise.  Here it is over a year since you have passed. It's time  for me to pack up your personal belongings.  To let you be free in heaven . I  love you and always will. Until we see each other again. I know you are still watching over me. Thank You Gur. I MISS YOU  I LOVE YOU .  Give my love to you and every one there. Bye  Honey.

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Gary Decarlo

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Gary Lee Decarlo

25 May, 1957 – 21 November, 2020

Lawncrest Chapel & Memorial Park

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