One of the things I loved most about Cesar was his honesty, he was a man of few words but always spoke his mind, even when the truth hurt. I always admired how comfortable he was in his own skin, never caring about the judgement of others.
He was one of those guys you would meet and instantly like, always making others laugh and feel welcomed. He had a gift for bringing joy into the lives of those he loved, I believe that is what brought him happiness.
To our kids, daddy was a super hero. I remember one time I was cleaning and listening to music with the kids and he had come home after a long day at work and started dancing. The Kids joined in with their dad and it was a moment of pure joy and happiness. I stood watching and laughing, living in the moment, I will cherish that memory for the rest of my life.
We were far from the perfect couple, and I know our relationship was complex at times, love is complicated after all. I had spent the last 11 years of my life with him and although there was some rough patches, but regardless of all of the bad times, there were more good times, and I wouldn’t change a single moment of it.
There are so many stories I could share but one stands out in particular, we were rushing to get to the auto parts store cause Cesar loved working on his cars and I grabbed some socks that I thought were mine and put them on in a hurry. As we were driving, we smelt something funky and we couldn’t figure out what it was. Well I had grabbed the socks he worn to work the day before and when I realized what I done I turned to him and said “omg Cesar I’m wearing your dirty socks” we stayed quite for a moment before we busted into laughter I tore the socks off and threw them out the window, he would never let me live that down. It was moments like this that made life with him worthwhile even if it was at my expense.
They say you get three great loves in your lifetime I think who ever said that underestimated Cesar. The love we shared was unconditional meaning it didn’t matter what condition our marriage was in we still loved each other. He was my best friend my partner in crime and my husband. So to you honey bunny this isn’t good bye it’s till I see you again. I love you.
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