Its been a whole 10 years since you left us.  Thats almost impossible to believe. 
You are still thought about everyday, if not by us, then one of your many friends or family members.  
We miss you Jessi and know that we love you and always feel your presence is around us and looking after all of us. 


I love and miss you so much Babylette <3 Not a day goes by that you are not in my heart. 

Hey Jessi - just wanted to let you know that we are all thinking about you again, as we remember that is has been 7 years ago today that we lost you.  Continue to watch over all of us and let us know that you are near. We love you and miss you.

Hello Jess - thinking about you today, as we usually do, but today is been 6 years since you left us. It seems like living in a time machine. One moment is like it was just yesterday, then another moment it like "it can't be 6 years already", its kinda weird how time and memories work that way. We feel you around us all the time though, we really do, and thats a good feeling. Miss you Skittles, think of you often and love you always and always. 

Thinking of you especially more today than usual. You would have been 26 today.  Happy heavenly birthday Jessi from both of us.  Friends still write and send you messages on your Facebook page, you are still in the hearts of so many. We love you and miss you and send you thoughts and love out to you.   

Its been 5 years today that you left us.  That is so very hard to believe.  We miss you so very much and think about you everyday.  You brightened up and touched so many lives.  Love you honey

Missing you a lot Jess.. sometimes I just pray you'll send me some signs. You were my big sister and my best friend growing up. I love you lots, hope you reconnected with dad up there in heaven. ❤

Just wanted to visit this page to see if anyone looks at it anymore.  I do quite often, even though I don't write anything.  Miss you a whole bunch, as always.

Just wanted to tell you that you were on my mind today.  Its Halloween today and I know this was always your absolute favorite holiday.  Love you so much and miss you always.

Well honey - its October 11th again.  4 years already and it feels just like it was yesterday that you were here with us.  We think of you so often, but especially on certain dates, like today.  We focus on the good memories, and there were a lot of them, and that helps us get through the days.  Love you, miss you bunches.

Happy birthday jess! I wish so bad that you were here so we could talk..  Rest peacefully!

Jessi today is the day you turn 24. A beautiful Angel looking over everyone. You are very missed.

It seems like yesterday we were just talking about ITT,how missed you are,always in our prayers,we love you Jesse

Happy Birthday Jessi - you would have been 24 today.  Can't help but wonder just what your life would have been like by now.  Many of your friends are posting messages to you today, somehow I hope you know that and know just how loved and missed you are.  Add PapaDew and I to the top of that list please.  Sometimes we both feel your presence around us, thank you for that.  It helps us. Thinking of you today more than usual honey.  Love you so very much.

Another Christmas and New Years have passed.  Think about you so often but especially this time of year.  We went to Florida and spent the holidays with your daddy and julie and uncle mike.  I really felt you there with us.  Its not the same of course, but it felt good to feel you near by.  Love you

Beautiful Jessi.....I miss you so much. I try and be strong for your father.But the loss of you is just too much. You were our everything and we will never be the same without you. I miss your laugh the most and the times we spent together laughing and happy. Those are precious memories I will always carry on. Watch over us all...may we always feel your beautiful presence with us. Love you Jessi girl<3<3<3

Just thinking about you today. I hop on this sight now and then just to see your pictures and think about you a little more than I usually do. Papa Dew and I  went to the zoo last week and the little elephant is still there.  Made us smile remembering how little you were when you first posed by it, and made us sad, well you know why. Love you Jessi, always, and then some.

Happy "23rd" honey.  Your are truly missed and thought about, especially today.  Pictures and messages are being written all over your facebook page and being sent to heaven as well.  Just little reminders of just how much you meant to everyone that knew you in this world.  What a huge impression you made on people.  Love and miss you bunches.

Christmas and now New Years 2014 has come and gone.  Your picture is near the door and tree, makes me smile everyday.  We set up a little corner of your Christmas things you made us when you were little, the silly candy Christmas tree that you always said "I can't believe you still have that!", among other things that I will cherish for always.  Miss you Jessi, just wanted to say hello and that we love you always.

Been thinking a lot lately... Some weird questions and thoughts im having.. Wish i could just have some answers! Love and miss you Jess! <3

I love you so much boo. Id give anything to have you here with us still.  Miss you and think about you all the time im sure you know already. Loving and missing you everyday.  Happy Halloween My Boo love always and forever, 
your momma

Well - Its been 2 years ago today.  Hard to believe.  Everyone is writing so much about you today on facebook and different places on the internet. Pictures are just popping up all over.  You would have liked that.  You loved posing for pictures thats for sure.   You are in the hearts of many.  Especially today.  You certainly left a mark on so very many people.  I have been trying to get ahold of your sister and brother but none of my letters have had any response.  Maybe they will see this I want them to know that I have pictures and some things that we think they would like of yours.  Maybe they can contact us someday.  I will always keep the box for them, no matter how long.  Love you Jessi, miss you very much and hope that you know that, wherever you are.

Thinking of you so very much this weekend.  Think of you often but sometimes more than others.  Your favorite time of year is probably why.  Everytime they show a commercial for halloween or something about a haunted house, can't help but remember.  Love and miss you baby.

Hi my boo, wanted to say have a great birthday up there, we know you are. Baby girl it hurts so bad, i still can't explain nor do i understand WHY!!?? I love and miss you soooo much. However i must say ur doing awsome work, you are the perfect Angel. I cant wait to be reunited.  Keep your wings around jon an jen, they love you an miss their big sis especially jen. So baby girl, wishing an knowing you have a HAPPY BIRTHDAY.  I'll. See you again soon my boo.. I LOVE YOU

Merry Christmas honey, we made it thru another one without you.  It don't get any easier.  You are missed an awful lot.  Hope you can see us and know that you are thought about, talked about, and remembered a lot.  We miss you a lot and love you a bunch more.

Boo, I miss you soooo much. I'd give anything to be with you. I know your in heaven watching over us all. Keep your brother and sister in your sight PLEASE. Merry CHRISTmas. Wish you were here. I love you

I miss you so much. Why did you have to leave? :'( Love u sis

Jess, i miss our talks, especially when it would turn into crying then laughing and i felt like we got closer... I miss you gorgeous.... Yesterday was hard... I miss you... Return if possible? I tried to come b with you as of march 22nd, but the doctors wouldn't let me..... Im kinda glad i didn't yet... This just gives me more time to miss you...

Yesterday was a day to remember you even more than we usually do.  Daddy is here with us to help us and for us to help him get thru this day.  There was a lot of messages sent off via balloons to you last night.  It was very impressive to see all of them set off last night, in all of your special colors.  Then there was a candlelight vigil.  We told and heard some stories about you and smiled.  You still have so many people that love you .  Always.

It does not matter how much time passes I will never get over the fact that you are gone.I miss you each and everyday and constantly think of things I want to share with you.You meant so much to so many people.To me you were a wonderful step daughter and one of my closest friends.It hurts so much that I can't see your beautiful face again,or be silly with you.You will never be far from our hearts and our minds.You will always be remembered as the special soul you are.I love you so very much Jessi.I will see you again one day baby girl.

I MISS And LOVE YOU SO MUCH....  BOO I STILL DON'T BELIEVE IT. .  I CAN'T. . I'M STILL at a COMPLETE LOSS.  I Miss you Baby Girl..

We have fond memories of you as a young girl growing up! You were only 9 months away from our son Justin. We will never forget you!

I love and miss you Jessi. You were the best big sister ever. All the memories from when we would spend time together and you came down here to Florida. I would tell you all my secrets and my most recent crush and you would tell me stories. I remember jumpin on the trampoline with you at nana's house and all we have been through together. I love and miss you so much. I can't believe it has almost been a whole year! I wish i could have been at your funeral but i couldnt. I love you so much jess!<3

Jessi I miss you so much... It still doesn't feel real that you are gone... Well I love you and miss you always <3 Panda

Jessi -
It was a bittersweet trip we just got back from.  We took our bikes and went down to Florida to see your Dad and Julie and Uncle Mike.  We have been trying to get down there since you left us but just have not been able too.  Either the weather wouldnt allow it, or holidays we didn't want to, or just things in our daily lives just wouldnt let us, or the fact that we just didn't want to.  You see honey, Papa Dew took you for your last bike ride on the back of his harley.  We took your ashes down to Daddy and left you there with them.  We talked a lot about you and as always, you will never ever be far from our hearts.  We talked about how every year when you would come up to visit us on vacations, one of the first things you would do would was to jump on the back of the bike to see if your legs were long enough to reach the pegs.  Papa always told you that you could ride once you grew tall enough to reach the pegs.  Then one year we heard this yelp and holler.  You stretched and stretched but you were able to reach them.  Told papa you were ready to ride.  Which of course, he willingly took you.  He was always secretly waiting for the moment as well.  You guys put on a lot of miles over the years, with you on his back seat. Thats why it was so important to him to take you for this last ride.  We are back home now.  Safe and sound, all went well, but you already knew that honey, cause I think you were watching over us and asking God to keep us safe.  Miss you a bunch.

I know its not till tomorrow the "9th" but I wanted to be the first to wish you Happy Birthday honey.  Sadly you never made it to the big "21" but we were looking at the pictures of birthdays past and remembering.  Sixteen was great.  Eighteen was great.  Wish you were here for this one.  Thinking about you not just today, but everyday, and missing you so much.  Still hear you popping in and out of the doors around here, so I know you are watching over us.  Got your message LOL via the new Skittles candy.  "From the other side of the Rainbow".  How bazaar is that?  Even a purple bag, and lime green colors, and the gothic (or Darkside). Don't know how you pulled it off, but somehow I know you did.  Happy Birthday baby.  We both love you and miss you always.

Dear Jessi, 
First and for most. I just want to apologize to you that i couldn't be at your funeral. You were a really amazing friend to me. You made my life partly what it is now, i wouldn't have nearly as much experience with life, and i wouldn't be half as wise as i am now, if it weren't for you and all the things we did together. You where my true family. Took me to my first Twiztid concert, and the last one i have been to.(Which in the future, any psychopathic concert would be in your honor.) I remember all the nights i came over to stay the night, and we would hang out with all your friends who are now my friends. You made me a better person, and as I sit here everyday I will always think about you, and I will always miss you. And one day it will be me and you together up there, not just you. Your the best baby girl.... and I love you very much from the bottom of my heart to the utmost peak of it. There will never be a time when i talk to our fam, without thinking about you first. I know you will never forget me, as i will never forget you, And all the wonderful memories we have together. 

Miss you and love you,
Love always,
Toxic Lyssa. 
(as you inspired that name) ? 

And to grandma and grandpa, My thoughts and my prayers are with both you and Jessi. Ily guys ?
I'll be coming to see you soon Jessi!

Christmas is just a couple of days away. Whereever you are I hope that you know you are being thought about and missed a lot.  Merry Christmas to my beautiful baby girl, I love you so very much.

Someone told me yesterday that this memorial page was made available by someone for a whole year.  I do not know who paid for it to be extended but I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  That was a wonderful thing you did and it is truly appreciated.  Thank you whoever you are. We all miss her and think about her often.  Jessi - we love you so very much.

Jessi, 

I was on larchmont today.. I couldnt wait to tell you we will be living close again. I kept thinking in my head how excited you will be, and we could make a day just special for us girls and watch all of those videos we made. But, i couldnt help to feel empty inside. I knew someone thing was wrong. I took a breath, looked down to Gramma Linda and Dew's house. I realized that this is reality not just a dream anymore. You are gone Jess, but there is no way for anyone to forget you,babylette. You have left us all with so much to remember, i just want to hug you one more time. I dont think id ever let go. 

Love you babygirl. Watch over me, and everyone Jessi. We need it. Miss you. Until we meet again.<33

My prayers and love to family and friends. Words cannot convey my sadness knowing of this loss. Having read the messages posted, it is clear how much joy Jessi brought to all of you. God bless you  with the strength to go on.

I have this feeling everyday that something is off or missing. Then I realized my heart is missing you. I miss you so much jess.

Today is November 9th.  I know the memorial guest book will only be open until the 11th for people to write in.  I guess it will be available to look at and read, but thats all. A whole lot of people think about you everyday day honey.  Specially me and Papa, Daddy, Julie and Uncle Mike.  Just because I won't be able to write on this page anymore, I just want you to know that I still think about you and love you but.  Hope that made you smile.

I love u my lil sis ur allways in our hearts and mind and the great times we had sis will never be forgoten u were a great friend and i know ur lookin down frome heven i love and miss u Jessi rip

Rest in peace now...you are with the Lord.

We sure miss you Skittles. 
You were always the first light we saw when we'd arrive at a gathering of any sort.
Keep an eye on your Grandparents & the rest of your family for us. OKAY???
Love Ya Girlie.
Til We Meet Again...........

Its been 3 weeks today that we lost you. Can't believe it.  We think about you all the time - but we are taking one day at a time.  Thats all any of us can do. There is no way that you will ever be forgotten by us - or a whole lot of people.  Miss you baby.

I will always think of you, I LOVE YOU, I will never forget you.

Rest in Peace Jessi. My prayers are with your family. Bernice Golze

To our beautiful granddaughter.  We miss you so very much.  You have left such a large empty hole in our hearts.  I pray that you knew how very much you were loved by so many people.  You touched the lives and hearts of many.  A very wide variety of friends and family. We certainly will think of you often and know that we will see you again someday.  In the meantime, watch over all of us and know we love you.

I met you when you were a little girl. You were always so happy and cheerful. I watched as you became an adult and even though you went through hard times you never lost that special glisten in your eyes or that beautiful smile that would light up the darkest room. Even though you are no longer with us, you will always live on in my heart. The song "Only the good die young" definately makes sense to me now, though I pray it didnt. RIP my Jessi. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends but I know you are watching over all of us. Xoxoxo

Jessi,
I don't really remember you very well because when you were down In flordia  I was really little. Bu I still love you! :D 
And when my mom and dad told me what happend I was really sad  R.I.P jessi 
We will keep you and the family in our prayers!

Rest in peace god sister I hope you are having a good rest we will me again in heaven your my one and only god sister I still believe your alive your just an angle I see you in my heart.

Rest in peace Jessie my one and only god sister I hope you are having fun up in heaven with god I love you Jessie sleep well

Our hearts are broken.
We will always remember Jessi.   
Love to all, 
Clare & Tessa Weyh, So Calif

Skittles (Jelly Bean) My heart just breaks thinking I will never see you again and watching your Grandparents going through so much pain. I will always remember going to pick up your Grandma and you were sitting on your porch all painted up in your Halloween makeup and wondering who in the heck was that sitting on the porch and as I approached closer I said Jess is that you ? and you said who else and we just bursted out laughing. I will miss you so much and speaking for Jim you will always be his Jelly Bean. RIP Baby Girl ! 

Love Always,
Scooter

Jesse my boys are gonna miss you so much,your friendship to them was so unconditional,such a sweet loving girl,jesse we will all miss you,who will hug Austin all the time no matter what and your kisses he loved so,I love Jesse,

Now, I will just have to believe that we have another Anglel looking out for us on this side - do your best Jessi, I need alot of support now!  Until we meet again my friend, God Speed!

Jessi, You had a hard start when you were younger but Papadew and Linda took you to be with them. They lovingly did this with open arms and hearts to show you the way and helped you to shine. The love that was shared between the three of you could never be measured. I hope you are at peace now. I am so glad we got to visit when I came to town. I treasure the memories we have especially the ones up north. I will miss you...your laugh,your smile and just the person you grew up to be. You rest now and watch over all of us. I will see you again some day and we can then start to make new memories. 
Love,
Aunt Mick 

Dewy and Linda,
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Jessi. Remember she is at peace now and will live forever in our hearts and our memories. If I can be there for you in anyway please call on me as I am there for you always.
Love,
Mickey

R.I.P JESSI YOU WILL BE MISSED BY EVERONE YOU KNEW YOUR SMILE LITE UP THE ROOM WHEN EVER YOU WALK IN YOU WERE SUCH A GREAT YOUNG LADY YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN ARE HEARTS WE LOVE YOU JESSI 
LOOV DANIEL DENISE ERIC ANK KAYLA

R.I.P. Jessi, my deepest condolences to Gene,Mike,Linda and Dew and everyone else in the family and to all the friends of this special angel that left us all to soon

Linda and Dewy.. So so sorry for your loss, All we can do is remember what a sweetheart she was and all the wonderful memories she left us to remember forever.  XOXXO

Tell someone today that you love them ... tomorrow may be too late!
To my sister Linda and Dewman ... I love you both and am proud of the sacrifices and love you both gave to Jessi to make her life better.

Jessi I cant believe that ur really gone. The last time that I seen u was when I still lived in Kingston. I love and miss u. And u will always be remembered, Never forgotten.

Jessi, I remember when we met. Cameron introduced us, and we immediately liked you. You seemed to be a genuine and caring person. When you  came over this summer, appearing so happy and care free, you said you would come to see us again soon, and we were looking forward to that. A beautiful girl with a beautiful smile and personality. I imagined you doing great things in this life. Jessi, you may not have realized how many lives you touched, I know you touched ours. The world has lost a bright light way to soon, and heaven has gained an angel. May we meet again one day, until then may God bless and keep you and your family. You will always be in our heart. With deepest sympathy.
Jeff, Judy, and Cameron Taylor

Jessi,
I cant believe this has happened. i keep wishing it wasnt true, that you werent gone. you will always be loved and missed more than you could ever know. prayers and condolences to all of jessi's friends and family...we all miss and love you but you will never be forgotten..love ya girl..rest in peace

Jessi, My prayers are with you and your family. You are truly loved. Rest with the Angels girl.

R.I.P. Jessi Dudley u left this world way to soon!
U are loved & missed more than words could ever say!!  MaMa Taz

May you rest in paradise, babylette. I love you.
-JennyJoker

Jessi, we have had our shares of ups and downs, but we always got over it. You were my "step-mom" and those who know our friends will understand that. You were more than that. A sister, a friend. It hurts me to know this is all real, but it isn't goodbye, it's a see you later. You were and are forever an amazing gal and always so strong. I'm going to miss every fun moment with you. You are lost, but never forgotten. You're forever in my heart. I hope your pain is no more. May you rest in paradise, baby girl. I love you!-JennyJoker<3

ahh jessi, how u will be missed. its been a while. and you were always there for me. but at least your in no pain any more. ill see you there one day ? love ya chick. RIP whoop whoop. mcl hunn.

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.

Our love to all,
Roy & Jackie Costello

Jessi I want to start off by saying I love you and that wont ever change. I miss you so much. Ill never forget you. You were once my girlfriend..Then you became one of the closest people to me in my entire life. We've known each other for many years now and I know how much I meant to you as well. I can't believe your gone. I know you will be watching over us all. Rest in Peace Beautiful..You were always a angel in my eyes. I love you Jessi.

I will miss you Jessi. This hurts more than I can express into words. I love you and party hard in paradise baby girl....

Jessi im going to miss u so much i still cant believe your gone i dont want it to be true you were the only one there for all of my very important days and im going to miss you untill the day i die girl along with so many other people rip jessi i love you <3

Jessi I am so sorry this happened to you I hope you are in paradise now I will always love and miss you. My heart and prayers go out to the family and friends of Jessi Babylette Dudley.

Jessi, I love you babygirl. I hope you're at rest now. I hate that this had to happen and i love you like crazy. I was going to ask you to stand up in my wedding. Just make sure you're watching me from heaven. 
Rest.In.Paradise BabyLette. Gone but never forgottten.

you were my strength and my sanity. i love you very much. rest in paradise baby girl

jessi..... i love you sis and you will b missed more than u know ur lil yodamater and i will keep u in our hearts always.... i just hope wherever u are you have found the peace you were seeking...save a place for me sis bc i will see you again.... you touched the lives of many and will be missed by us all hunni... i just hope u can see us from wherever u are and know how much love and happiness you brought to us all... and i hope the love we all feel for u reaches u whereever u are and that you can carry that love with you... i know the love you had for each of us will live forever in our hearts. please be safe my angel sister i will see you again i love you RIP Jessi Dudley

Jessi..
You were my best friend way back in the day.. A sister to me at that. So many memories over the years.. Can't believe this.. I love and will miss you.... Forever.

I'm not one to ever open up, but its time i said something. I got the news and honestly i didn't want to believe it. I loved that girl with all my heart. Tho i will not make it to the funeral, I'm trying to remember her as she was and i don't want that memorie to be my last of her. But i do want to say my deepest sympathy to her family and friends. I know she will always be with us and looking down on us.

Our prayers are with you and your family. You will be missed dearly.

Jessi, I'm so sorry this had to happen to you, I'll miss you so very much.I LOVE YOU.

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God give you strength and comfort during this hard time...

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Your family is in my prayers.

Jessi,

Im sorry for what had happen. I truly wish Id stayed.connected with you. I will never forget you, nor will you ever be forgotten. I love you girl.

My deepest sympathy to the Dudley Family.There are no words I could say that would ease your pain at this time. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel.

OBITUARY

Jessi "Skittles" Dudley

9 March, 1992 – 11 October, 2012

Kaul Funeral Home

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