The good ole beach days at Torrey Pines with Brian Brown and Tom. Always in my thoughts and memories <3 

Rest in peace my old friend.
Many memories of the great times we had growing up in Clairemont.
Riding motorcycles, catching snakes, general mischief.
Just doing all the things kids like us did.
I visited you often after you moved to University City.
You were certainly one of my life's best friends.
Peace be with you Tom.
Until we meet again.
Rob McLennan




I knew Tom for 40 years. We were young 24 and 25 year old truck mechanics. I worked at Jim's Air, on FedEx vans, and Tom at Kib motors.He would deliver, parts to me. When Tom moved on, I went to work at Kib. In 1983, I got the job at FedEx. I told Tom to apply. He should have gotten in, with FedEx in 1986, however, he had to wait until the early 90s. Tom was always funny and hard-working. He and I worked together in 2007, on two large projects, for FedEx, and got it done, with  a little help  from my black Labrador Retriever, who supervised. I will miss him, and wished, I had spend more time with him. I was glad that he was able to retire from FedEx a while back. From all the FedEx team, and the old Kib motors family, our condolences to his daughter, Lisa and family. God bless, love you, Tom. Your friend Bob Rocket Mangum

My condolences to Lisa and the Lefebvre family.  My heart is saddened at Tom's passing.  Tom and I sat next to each other for three years in Band class at Marston Jr. High.  Tom always had great one liner's and keep us all laughing.  Tom had a caring personality.  He also called 'em as he saw them.  In the last few years we often discussed the similar meds we took.  Always admired Tom for his math skills.  He helped me get through 8th grade Electronics class.  
Tom, rest in peace, and know that your were loved and admired.  

M.A. Tenney

Tommy, your passing saddens my heart. I'm so grateful that God put you into my life.  I will always treasure my memories of the great times we shared  all together.  No one has ever made me laugh like you. I will miss your heart of gold. You will always be missed. Rest in peace my friend.  God Bless.

I deeply send my condolences to Tom's family and friends.  I met Tom  many years ago through my friend Kim.  H e was always welcoming to having me come by to his house and chat for a while and play with his dogs.  There was a few times he would pick me up when i didn't have a car and he would pick up some food for Kim, me and himself.  I really enjoyed hanging out with Tom and Kim and sang some karaoke songs and make them laugh especially Tom.   There were times he'd want to share some of songs and ask to join in on the singing even though I didn't know some of them.  It was fun.  I am very blessed to know that I got to know Tom and how kind he was and for allowing me to be a friend to him..  I will always remember Tom.  May you rest in peace.  Miss you dear friend.

I'm deeply saddened by the loss of this old friend. Although our lives after high school took us in different directions, I'll always fondly remember endless days and nights at the Lefebvre home. Tommy was a great guy, loved to laugh and had a kind heart. Rest in Peace old friend, God bless.

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Thomas Mark Lefebvre

3 August, 1955 – 29 February, 2020

El Camino Memorial - Sorrento Valley & Memorial Park

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