OBITUARY

Liv Alterhaug Ames

5 December, 19473 September, 2020

Liv Alterhaug Ames died Sept. 3, 2020, at the age of 72, peacefully and at home in San José, California, succumbing quickly after a 9-month battle with pancreatic cancer.

Liv is survived by her husband of 42 years, Lawrence (Larry) Ames; three sons: Lewis (with wife Ginger and sons Jules and Pasqual), Logan (with husband John Olson), and Leif Ames; her younger sister, Marit Alterhaug Irvin, of Norfolk England; and her younger brother, Odd Gunnar Alterhaug, of Oslo Norway.

Liv was born December 5, 1947 to Odd and Ingrid Alterhaug, in Mo i Rana, Norway, about 20 miles south of the Arctic Circle. (It was so cold there that, according to the family story, her father’s hat froze to the table in the nursery when he went to see his baby daughter.) After a couple months, the family moved to Stjørdal, where both Odd and Ingrid worked for the state telephone company.

Liv went to elementary school in Stjørdal, and then high school and college in nearby Trondheim, graduating with a Masters in Chemical Engineering from NTH, the Norwegian Technical University. She worked summers in Yugoslavia and The Netherlands, and also worked as an au pair in London to better learn English. After graduation, she went to Paris for a year on scholarship to learn French, then returned to Norway and worked at a hospital in Elverum.

Liv found life too quiet and sedate in Eleverum, and so in 1976, she came to the US -- despite all the images on TV and in the movies of a violent America -- to accept a job offer in the microbiology lab at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. She met Larry when she and some coworkers attended a party thrown by a group of physics graduate students. They got married in Madison on Dec. 17, 1977 -- two weeks before she’d have had to return to Norway due to an expired visa. Larry completed his PhD in May 1979, and they could move away from the cold when Larry accepted a job offer in Cupertino.

Liv quickly found a chemical engineering job, working at Collagen Corporation in Palo Alto, helping with the lab tests for FDA approval of the new cosmetic compound. She returned to work after the birth of her first son, Lewis, but decided to remain home as a fulltime mother when second son Logan arrived.

Liv loved biking. During one college break, she biked from Trondheim to Eidsvoll, roughly 300 miles and a 10,000 ft. climb through the Norwegian mountains -- on a two-speed bike. Later, she joined Larry on numerous bicycle vacations, including a nearly 600-mile tour of New England, a trip from Vancouver BC to Portland, from Minneapolis to Milwaukee, and from Pittsburgh to Washington DC, as well as on numerous California rides and a bike tour of Tuscany Italy. Her last bike vacation, at age 69, was a 250-mile ride from Scranton PA to NYC. On her 72nd birthday, she went on a 25-mile evening ride to attend a bike club party.

Liv loved cross-country skiing. In Wisconsin, she could ski for months, even in the local city parks; in California she was limited to a once- or twice a year trip to Yosemite or Tahoe. She passed along her love of skiing, and introduced her sons to the joys of snow at a tender young age.

Liv loved exploring. She visited all 50 US states, and also over two dozen countries in Europe, Asia, and the Americas.

Liv loved nature: exploring it, working to preserve it, and teaching others about it. She regularly volunteered for the Midpeninsula Regional Open Space District (MidPen) in Skyline Ridge Open Space Preserve as a Nature Center docent and as a leader of field trips for elementary school-age children. She and some friends would go on weekly hikes of our many nearby trails. And she also supported, and spurred her husband to participate in, numerous environmental and trail organizations, commissions, and committees.

Liv loved kids. Besides raising their own three, she also served as almost a second mother to a number of their friends and classmates, with all the game-nights, sleep-overs, and pizza-parties. She also helped mentor some refugees from Rwanda, helping them adapt to the language and culture.

Liv loved photography. She studied both darkroom technique and digital image processing. She worked for a while part-time in a mall portrait studio, and then volunteered extensively for MidPen, Open Space Authority, League of Conservation Voters, and Green Foothills. She took many of the photos for the book, “Touring Willow Glen -- Ten Walking Loops”, and gave an invitational one-person show at the 2009 dedication of the Joyce Ellington Branch Library.

And she loved her family.

She was much loved. She led a full and meaningful life. She truly will be missed.

~Larry Ames, Sept. 10, 2020

[Liv will be inurned at Oak Hill Memorial Park in San José in a small family service. No flowers: please give of your time to enjoy and protect nature.]

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Veronica Jordan

September 23, 2020

Photo from the family.

Marcus Salomon

September 15, 2020

Dear Larry,

I just heard about Liv's passing this morning. Hullene and I are so profoundly sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you must be feeling right now but I am certain she loved you with all her heart. I know that you will remain strong through this tough time and please rest assured that everyone whose lives she touched will remember her with the greatest fondness.

Please do not hesitate to call me if you need anything. No matter what it is, I will be there. Even if it's just someone to speak with. Please know that we are never going to forget our great times with her and we will always be here for you.

Our Love for you and family,
Marcus & Hullene

Debbie Anderson

September 10, 2020

I feel fortunate that Liv has been a good friend of mine for many years. Larry and Liv's oldest son went to the same school with our youngest daughter.
Liv and I use to carpool together to attend quilt classes held in Los Altos. In the spring of 2019, Pete and I traveled to India with Liv and Larry and shared accommodations with them in a houseboat located in Kerala, India.
I will remember Liv as a talented photographer as well as a kind, respectful and gentle individual. I will miss her.

Sheila McGann-Tiedt

September 10, 2020

Dear Ames Family:
I am deeply saddened about the loss of Liv who I’ve known since our children were young. I’ve had the privilege of seeing her at many community events, hiking with her, and sharing family news. She was such a wise, strong woman who loved bicycling and hiking, loved nature, and loved teaching children about the natural world. My heartfelt condolences go to Larry and the family.

Pam Shukait

September 10, 2020

Larry,
Our deepest condolences for you and your family. We will miss her beautiful smile she wore everywhere.
Pam and Keith Shukait

Jean Dresden

September 4, 2020

Grace, beauty, joy, a calming presence, laughter. Artist. Photographer. Partner. Athlete. Mother. Interesting. Welcoming. Well-loved and will be greatly missed. One thinks of Liv, then Liv and Larry, Larry with Liv, and Larry. Intermixed and separate. They were greatly enriched together and wonderfully strong in their separate passions. Her annual Christmas art cards remain in my collection. Their joyful celebration of thousands of Halloween visitors is legendary. She stepped back quietly and stepped forward strongly in a model of marital partnership. I will miss her photos, her art, her presence, the stories of their travels and the joy that sparkled in her face when she spoke of her grandchild.

FROM THE FAMILY
FROM THE FAMILY

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