She taught me how important the family bond is. She taught that to all 3 of us. The only difference is that my sisters understood it much, much earlier than I did. 

Mom was always there for the 3 of us. Always. 

For many summers mom would have to send my sisters cross country to see their father. Our mom is the mom that would walk her 2 babies onto the plane, buckle them in herself, and not leave their side until the flight attendants would kick her off the plane. She would sob the entire walk to the car and the entire ride home and cry herself to sleep. The 3 of us meant the world to her, and she always let the world know it. What were those emotions like? How hard was it for her to put her babies on that plane and go home alone? How hard was it when she decided adoption was the right move? She’s had hard decisions to make her whole life, we all have. She did most of it alone but fortunately, she established herself an amazing group of best friends who me and my sisters refer to as Aunts and Uncles. Friends that walked through difficult times together with her and helped each other with tough decisions. Friends that she still held so dear and so close her entire life right up to the very end. Friends like this are hard to find. It made me smile when our Aunt Sharon or Susie would call, and mom would answer the phone, “Hey sis!” Mom’s group of lifelong friends are considered family. They all stood by her side through thick and thin. 

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In August of 1991, I was asked by my adoptive father to come over to his house for something important. My father and I were at a rocky point in our relationship, and I was reluctant to go visit him. I sucked it up and went to his house where he presented me with a letter, a letter he had received in the mail that day. That letter changed my life forever. That letter was from my biological mother JoAnn. When Dad watched me finish reading the letter he asked me, “what do you think? Do you want to meet her? I talked to her for 3 hours today on the phone and she wants to meet you." 

That Saturday morning, I woke up and drove to Fontana from Huntington Beach. I remember shaking the whole way. I remember knocking on the door like it was yesterday. I was an 18-year-old kid that didn’t know what to expect. More questions started running through my head as I knocked on her front door. Would she like me? Would I like her? Will this hurt? I didn’t know what to expect. All I knew was that this door was going to open and it was either going to go really well, or really bad. The door opened and I met my Mom Jo Ann. And it went better than I think either of us expected. 

Over time I learned just how selfless this woman is. Not only did all of my questions get answered, but I learned why I was the way I am. Jo, my mother and I shared our 30 year anniversary this past August, and I wouldn’t change one second of this time. 

She showed me what a strong empowered woman was capable of, and I am a better man because of her. She showed me unconditional love, and the importance of a family bond. Photographs. I never liked taking photos, let alone photos of being posed in matching outfits whether in a studio or on location somewhere. Today I value all of those times and wish I wasn’t such a jerk when she asked me to take part in them. Now I know why they are so important. 

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Our beloved Mother Jo Ann Mistich was born on December 19th, 1954, in Buras Louisiana. She moved around quite a bit in her youth being in a military family. Every 18 months she found herself in a new school, making new friends, in a different part of the country. As a teenager, she found herself in Southern California where she attended High School in Westminster. As a senior in 1973 mom found herself with child, me. Faced with a very difficult decision now, she decided it would be in everybody’s best interest if she put me up for adoption. 

Not long after that, mom would give birth to her first daughter. Cassandra was born late in 1974 and our sister Michele in 1978. In 1981 Jo would begin life as a single mom. Forced into food stamps and government assistance, mom continued to instill her personal values and moral character in her girls, often going on by abandoning her own needs, for those of her children. She went to work. She showed what hard work and perseverance are capable of, and what the rewards are as well. Her work ethic rubbed off on all three of us. Eventually…

Fast forward to 1991. This year all our lives would change forever. Not for bad though. It was all for the better! Being adopted at birth, and knowing that since I was about 10 years old, I always wondered if she was ever looking for me? What did she look like? Did she look like me? Did I look like her? Do I have any siblings? Do they look like me? What? Where? How? Who? And why, were questions that I asked myself every day. I had so many questions and soon realized that there was only one person that could help me answer these questions. That person is the woman who we are all here to remember today. My mother Jo Ann. 

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Jo was one of the first women I met when I moved to California from Virginia in 1986. My first job was at OCTFCU and that’s were Jo and I started a lifelong friendship. I was so homesick , but Jo made me want to stay in CA.  We would hang out together almost every weekend. Cassandra and Michele were little girls and they would help us get ready for our girls nights out.   We had some wonderful memories.  After moving back to east coast in 1991, we still kept in touch. Thank goodness for FB.   We reunited and met up 30 years later in Myrtle Beach SC.   We went to the House of Blues, went on the gigantic farris wheel, ate lots of seafood  and we even did a photo shoot on the beach.  We really had a wonderful week and I will never forget those memories.  I saw her again in St Petersburg about 4 years ago but that was a quick visit.  I have always respected Jo for her stength, courage and wisdom. I know that her family always came first. After reading the messages from her grandchildren on this site, I can feel how much they love and admire her.  I will miss Jo but I will always remember her birthday is December 19th. It’s one of the only friends birthdays that I know by heart.   I love you Jo 

Finally, I will share my words of how I will remember my Nana. In our family she held the title of fun vampire.  However, I could never fathom why that was. She provided me with some amazing moments and quality time which I describe as fun. We would binge watch movie series, play board games, bake, she would take all of her grandchildren out for their birthday lunches, yell at the tv during broncos or saints games, play with the dogs, or when we would just sit in our living room and laugh. Some of my favorite memories with her take place in my living room with her laughing so hard she can’t breathe and my sister Alia rolling around with our dog jumping on her. This is how I choose to remember my nana as the fun, caring, selfless, loving, and gentle woman who held my family together through our hardest moments. 

I would like to share one last bible verse before I finish. From the book of John we have John 11:25-26, “Jesus said unto her, ‘I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die.” 

I believe the same as my Nana does. And to that I say I love you Nana, until the fateful day in which we meet again.
- Cole, the eldest grandchild

One of my favorite memories with my nana was during a sleepover with my cousins, Alia and Kyla, as well as one of my friends. We were all listening to love songs and the song “I will always love you” by Whitney Houston came on and me and my nana danced to it together. This made my heart smile because I knew the day was coming soon and it made me happy to dance with her. 

Another memory that I have with Nana is when I was having a bad dream about my aunt Cassy. My nana comforted me and rocked me in her chair. I love my nana and I wish I could rip the date of October 8th off the calendar and tear it into pieces. I wish you were here now, I love you so much.
- Roxann, the youngest grandchild

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I’m going to miss giving Nana head rubs every morning before school. I'm going to miss jokingly annoying her by sticking my finger in her ears. A specific memory I want to share about my nana is when she took Roxy, Alia, and me to Disneyland. She didn’t want to go on the Incredicoaster, however, after the three of us encouraged her she held back her fear and ended up loving the ride. I wish you were here longer so that you could see us grow into adults and make plenty of more memories.
- Wayne

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My nana was the world to me. After my mom passed away my nana was there for me like a mother. I had many great memories with her and I’m so glad that I got to spend so much quality time with her. She would always take me to go shopping for special occasions or just for fun. She would take me out of school to go to Disneyland because that’s what my mom would do. My nana did everything with me because she wanted to do everything my mom did with me. I am so so grateful for my nana and I love her and miss her dearly. I really wish she could be here to watch me, my cousins, and my siblings grow up, but I know she is partying with my mom in heaven.
- Alia

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Even though Nana and I did not spend much time together we shared some wonderful moments. One time while at dinner I was non-stop talking and she said I sounded like a duck, everyone was laughing and it is still one of the funniest moments I have had with Nana.
- Gavin

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One thing that I always appreciated about our nana is how she pushed us to do better in everything. She always supported us with homework and school, as well as sports. She would take us to practices and games while our dad was working, or she would just come to watch and cheer us on from the sideline. Throughout our lives, she will always be there on the sideline to support us.
- Troy

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While I did not get as much time with Nana as the other grandchildren, I am extremely grateful for all that she did for me. She called me her adopted grandson and this meant the world to me. She was one of the nicest people I have met and she will forever be missed, we love you nana.
- Henry, or as we called him the adopted grandchild

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We would pack up the girls and drive there just for a hamburger, fries and a shake. If we were feeling like it, we would go the extra 25 miles to Wichita Falls, Tx to go to the only mall near us. We California girls needed a mall to shop.  Jo soon had another beautiful baby girl Chele. Jo loved singing Michele, My Bell from the Paul McCartney song. I helped her now that she had two and we added more friends in our neighborhood. They were a big help and we all shared recipes, Tupperware parties and anything else to meet more friends and get a Tupperware set.  Our friendship grew stronger as we added other military wives. Those friends from that time continue to communicate with us still some 45 years later. Once you were a friend of Jo’s, you were a friend for life. She was the glue for us all.

We both had marriages that were not healthy for our children and we leaned heavily on each other for support. We both could not have survived whole without each other’s support. Jo was my backbone during that terrible time and I survived that because of her and her support.  

I think God knew we needed each other and soon after I left Altus to return to California as a single parent, Jo soon followed with Cassandra and her beautiful Chele who had been born before I left. We continued to see each other regularly and spent time when we could. Our families intertwined and I considered Jo not just my BFF, but my sister as well. Roger became my brother and Hettie my mother. 

We have loved being sisters ever since and we were there for each other whenever and wherever needed. Being a part of her family has been a godsend for me and my family.

Although I didn’t get the time and memories with nana that many have, I’ve learned to cherish the ones that I do have. For example, one of my absolute favorite memories with Nana is when she took me out to lunch and we just talked. She told me about her childhood and fun memories she had. At the end she told me that she was proud of me and everything I’ve accomplished. I will never forget this day and it will always be a memory to cherish forever.
- Kyla, Nana’s oldest granddaughter

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My cousins, Kyla and Gavin, who aren’t local, made it difficult for her to see them as often. No matter how great the distance it didn’t change the love in her heart that she held and displayed for them. She always had them at the top of her mind and heart. If she was here right now she would want you to know how proud of you two she was and how much she loved you guys. She would always watch Gavin’s baseball games on her phone and keep up on Kyla’s swim, soccer and cheer seasons as well as what was going on in their lives. She showed so much support and dedication to us, her grandchildren. As some of you may know my nana has 7 grandchildren, well by blood that is. A few years after my mom passed away my nana along with the rest of our family opened their arms to my dad's wonderful girlfriend Gina and her son Henry. My nana could have easily not accepted Gina and Henry into our family, but she accepted Gina as a daughter and Henry as her own grandchild changing our numbers from 7 to 8. On behalf of her grandchildren we would all like to say, Thank you nana we all love you and appreciate everything you have done for us. Now I have a few words from each of Jo Ann’s grandchildren. I am going to start with the oldest and make our way down to the youngest. Here are a few words from Henry, or as we called him the adopted grandchild.

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Joshua 1:9 “ Have I not commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”

Good afternoon everyone, for those of you who don’t know me, my name is Cole Tu’ufaasolo Seanoa and I am Jo Ann’s oldest grandchild, and the son of her late daughter Cassandra. I’ve had the pleasure of growing up and learning from her, which has allowed me to understand and appreciate all that she was. Kind, thoughtful, and hardworking, three of her amazing traits that don’t even begin to describe her. After my mother passed away everyone was emotionally shredded, especially my nana. She had just lost her daughter, however that did not stop her from putting other people first.

When my dad started to go back to work she changed her schedule to fit around taking care of us. She started going to work in person less and less until she was solely working from home. My nana dropped everything so that she could make sure me and my siblings were cared for. She sacrificed her own mental well-being to prioritize ours.

My nana was not only this caring, and thoughtful person but she was also loud and crazy. Like she could be really crazy. I'm talking, screaming and yelling type of crazy.  She would express this side of herself only for three things. One of them being her broncos or saints. The second one being Yahtzee, and the third one being her grandchildren. For me personally I saw it at every sporting event that she came to, which was most of them. Nana would split her time between my Football and Rugby. Troy's football, rugby and baseball. Alias soccer and rugby, Wayne's hockey, and Roxy’s basketball. Although we collectively play a various number of sports she showed her support at all of them making sure she saw us all play and saw us all do great. She would have bedazzled shirts for all of our teams and made sure everyone knew who her grandchild was.

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Jo Ann became a key contributor to the growth and success of FTSI, always acting as a sounding board and an instrument for positive change.  

Caltech Employees Federal Credit Union was the 2nd customer for FTSI in California.  Jo Ann was a mentor for me and I will always look back on what she taught me.  I will always look back at these words of wisdom and let them guide me.  More than this, she became a very dear friend and will always keep those memories in my heart.

- Susan Napier, President & CEO at FTSI

One Nevada Credit Union offers its sincere condolences to Jo Ann Mistich, a phenomenal person who will be dearly remembered and sorely missed.  Jo Ann served as a valuable member of the Information Technology team in the position of Electronic Systems Administrator from January 1995 through May 2005.   

Jo Ann was instrumental in the development of online banking during her tenure.  We share your sorrow for this great loss as we honor Jo Ann.  We are extremely grateful for the time we got to spend with Jo Ann, may she rest in peace.
~ on behalf of the One Nevada Team

I have known Jo Ann nearing 20 years as we worked together at One Nevada (formally known as Nevada Federal). Jo Ann was inspirational with implementing our first Online Banking application and I had the pleasure to advance to her position when she moved to California. Over the years Jo Ann and I kept in contact sharing stories about our family and friends at our annual conferences. Jo Ann was a wonderful person and a great mentor. She will be missed dearly.

Cindy Vela, a good friend and worked with Jo Ann at One Nevada FCU

I had the privilege of working with Jo Ann at two credit unions for nearly twenty years.  Jo Ann knew her business extremely well and cared deeply about how the work we did together would impact the members of her credit unions.  She worked at a level of detail that few could match.  Over the years our mutual respect grew into a great friendship.  Working with her was a blessing to me and my team.

Grant Parry, President and CEO of Connect FSS 

Leading with Love. 

I was first a business friend of Jo Ann’s, that grew into more – a friendship for things we both loved – credit unions, our children, and the Broncos.  She was a diehard supporter of each.  
I learned that Jo Ann lead a strong life – from a place of love.  It was so easy to see that with the love she had for her family and the selflessness she shared with Cassy and her family through the toughest of times.  When the Broncos went to the Super Bowl in 2016, she was there – 

Her heart was pure and full when she was sharing her passions.  Even in work, she wanted great partnerships – She pushed for the best for her credit union, and you could see her passion there as well.

In today’s age, it’s good to seek and find Love.  We all need more of that – and I know Jo Ann led every day from a place of Love.  
Jo Ann, may you find peace and love in heaven, and may you find ways to continue to share that love with us – we will take all that you can share with us.

Rest in Peace, my friend, you are home with Cassy.  Thank you for all of the goodness you shared with us.  And, Go Broncos!

- Chris Gunnare, SVP, Chief Sales Officer at PSCU 

My thoughts and feelings are all positive as to JoAnn’s contributions to CEFCU.  Her knowledge, experience, and drive were important contributions to our e-Services development.  We missed her presence the first day after her retirement. Now we will always miss her presence but will keep her in our thoughts and hearts.

Richard Harris, President & CEO at Caltech Employees Federal Credit Union

As you can imagine, Jo Ann has had a positive impact on so many people’s lives.  Jo Ann was always one who gave 100% of herself.  She was a person of determination and commitment.  A woman with passion. I know our membership was impacted, the Credit Union and staff were impacted, but I was both professionally and personally impacted.  Jo Ann and I worked together for over 14 years.  As her boss, I learned more from Jo Ann than she knew.  You didn’t mess with Jo Ann, which meant you didn’t mess with the Credit Union.  We used to tag-team on our vendors.  I was the good cop, and she was the bad cop.  She earned the respect of so many and was always willing to give you her honest opinion.  People like Jo Ann are few and far between.  She is and will be missed by myself, her staff, her colleagues, and the countless individuals who had the privilege of knowing her.   

Another major project that she and I shared was a conversion of our credit card portfolio back in 2008.  At the time, we had the lofty goal of changing credit card processors, moving from VISA to Mastercard, and enabling the EMV chip on our plastic cards, all at the same time.  Very few other financial instructions sought to do all of this at the same time, but for us, it was necessary.  The conversion was very successful, primarily due to her strong organizational skills and attention to detail.  With Jo Ann, nothing fell through the cracks and she was always on top of things.

A highlight for both Jo Ann and I was our annual Connect FSS client conference held in Park City, Utah.  It gave us the opportunity to take a break from the normal day-to-day issues at the office and get away to be able to discuss strategic initiatives and plan how we could work to improve our systems and processes.  I know Park City was one of her favorite destinations.  She always looked forward to being able to see and spend time with many of her close industry friends who were in attendance.  There also were many great memories formed there.

On July 11, 2019, Jo Ann walked into my office and shut the door, sat down, and reluctantly handed me a letter of retirement.  She realized that her love and commitment to her family had to take precedence over her love for her job.  I know this was a hard and difficult decision for her to make.    

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The Credit Union has a fleet of ATMs that we own and operate.  Jo Ann began to work very closely with our ATM servicing company, FTSI, as they were responsible for our ATM installations and ongoing maintenance.  She was very involved and engaged with their Client Advisory Group and ultimately became co-chair.  She also worked very closely with the FTSI team, but more importantly, with Susan Napier, President & CEO.  Jo Ann became a key contributor to the growth and success of FTSI, always acting as a sounding board and an instrument for positive change. 

One of Jo Ann’s goals, when she was hired, was to move the Credit Union to a new online/mobile banking platform.  Prior to working at Caltech, Jo Ann had worked at One Nevada Credit in Las Vegas for the prior 10 years.  While working there, she was instrumental in the development of an online banking product.  This was her baby and she completely knew the ins and outs of it.

Some years after Jo Ann was hired, our contract was expiring with our online banking provider.  Largely based upon Jo Ann’s recommendation, including her wealth of personal knowledge and prior involvement, we made the decision to move to that One Nevada online banking product, now owned by a company called Connect FSS.  From the beginning, her background and understanding proved invaluable to the success which we have continued to experience over the years while on this platform.  

Granted, it was not always easy.  When we did have problems, look out!  Jo Ann was always very vocal and adamant that things were to get fixed quickly and to our satisfaction.  I know Jo Ann wanted this product to be successful, especially because she had invested so much time and effort into it.  

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Good afternoon.  My name is John Barnfather and I am the Chief Information Officer at Caltech Employees Federal Credit Union.  I stand before you today on behalf of myself and Jo Ann’s fellow co-workers and employees that reported to her.  She had such a great impact on so many, although not everyone could make it here today.
Prior to 2005, it was becoming more and more of a challenge for me to successfully lead and manage the Electronic Services area of the Credit Union, in addition to the other two departments for which I was responsible.  It became obvious that I needed to find the right person with the right skill set and background to help me advance the systems and capabilities of our electronic services to the next level.  

I began a search to find the right individual to fulfill that need.  Fortunately, both Jo Ann and I had a common friend who had worked in the industry.  This friend had reached out to Jo Ann and told her “you need to go work with John Barnfather and Caltech”.  
At the time, Jo Ann was living in Las Vegas but was hoping to relocate to Southern California to be closer to family.  After an initial discussion with Jo Ann, it was abundantly clear that her background, knowledge, and expertise were not only what I was looking for, but far exceeded what I ever thought I would find in a candidate.  In March of 2005, Jo Ann accepted my offer to be our Electronic Services Manager.  Later she was promoted to AVP of Electronic Services, then in December 2019, to AVP of Special Projects.

From the very start, Jo Ann jumped right in and began to work on improving many areas in her department which required immediate attention.  She also took an active role in forming strong relationships with our key business partners.  

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My husband Gary got to know Jo and the girls after we had married. Both were there to see us married. He was now a friend and was welcomed into Jo’s family also. Cassy was always excited to see Uncle Gary and wanted him to kiss her hello when he got there, however Chele would not let him kiss her hello because he had a mustache. He would have to give her a quarter if he wanted a kiss. It is one of Jo’s favorite stories from those days. We have had many great times shared together with friends and family; Las Vegas, Hawaii, Ensenada, and Bronco games. We celebrated Birthdays, graduations, promotions and of course all the grandchildren’s sporting events including Baseball, football, soccer, hockey, basketball and rugby. One thing we didn’t share was camping. Jo was 5Star Hotel and Spa. I was camping outdoors and beach.
I have watched her children and her grandchildren grow and become the outstanding people they are now. Jo’s legacy is her family, one of love, caring and understanding. Her friends are my friends and each of them will tell you the same. Jo is our bond and that can never be broken. We have her as our special Angel now. She will be forever missed.

I am a lifelong friend of Jo.
Actually, any friend of Jo was family to Jo. You didn’t just get to be friends with her, you became part of this wonderful family gathered here today and in those in Heaven watching over us today. 
I met Jo in 1973 at a bowling alley in Huntington Beach. It was a couple’s league and we bowled with our husbands. I was with her in Dec 1974 when her daughter Cassy was born at Fountain Valley Hospital. It was Christmas and she brought her home in a beautiful Christmas stocking. It was a special Christmas memory we have laughed and shared together ever since. I moved to Decatur Illinois when my husband joined the Air Force. It was there I had my daughter Carey in June of ’75. It was not long after that Jo and her husband moved to Decatur also. God works amazingly! I could not believe she had followed me there. Our friendship grew as we both were now raising babies. We soon followed each other to Altus AFB in Altus, Ok where our spouses were based. It seemed that God had wanted us together. It was so great having somebody I knew in a new place to share common experiences growing a family. We each learned so much together about raising and caring for a young child. We helped each other through the struggles of caring for those girls as they loved playing together and also bumping heads and giving each other colds and flu and whatever was going around at that time. Several times, we were at the ER with one or the other in the middle of the night. We learned so much together about motherhood, sharing what we knew about being young mothers and sharing the knowledge we gleaned from our own mother’s advice also. We babysat each other’s children as we both worked part-time. Jo worked for the Air Force base Credit Union. Altus was a very small town and being isolated from what we knew as civilization, was trying. Many times, we craved McDonalds and the closest one was in Lawton, Ok 60 miles away. Road Trip! 

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6/7/2021: I LOVE your attitude about your circumstances and about living your best life. As much as we ALL need to live better, healthier lives, and ALL of our days are limited, we still make poor choices. I really applaud you and your family for making major adjustments to improve your quality of life. Keep fighting, keep living your best. The Lord will be with you through it all JoAnn. Love and hugs to you.

6/14/2021: Wow I’m so impressed about your energy level and all of the positive vibes. You are on point. Shelly and all of the family are amazing.
You are really staying busy. I don’t even know if I could keep up with you right now 😁. Love you 🌸❤️

6/15/2021 response: I love you too Jacqueline! I hope we can plan a “three musketeers” trip soon! LOL ~ Jo

6/8/2021: Jo, you and I go way back (over 30 years) and we’ve had some AWESOME memories. One thing that I do know about you is that you have ALWAYS been a beautiful, strong, smart, powerful, and caring woman through good times and bad times. I wish that I could have half the qualities that you have. With this being said, I know that you are a fighter and a protector!! You have the will to fight and the power of God on your side. So thankful that you are surrounded by a wonderful family and loving friends. Wish I could physically be there for you but there are 2,000+ miles separating us. You know that I am here for you emotionally and will be praying for you every day. Keep those positive vibes and positive people surrounding you! Keep up all of your traveling journeys! Hope I can meet up with you soon on one of those adventures. I love you ❤️😘

6/14/2021: Sounds like you and your village are accomplishing great things.

6/15/2021: Thank you for starting this blog! This is exactly what we need– a way to be a part of your journey without calling, texting and bothering you for updates. The best part of this blog is your upcoming adventures. Count me and Sareen in for Mardi Gras 2022…we want to join the family fun! Love you Jo Ann. Keep fighting… keep planning…and tell Roxy…she has some Elvis competition. I love Elvis too!
6/15/2021 response: Hey Pattyl, please feel free to reach out to me anytime. I miss you so much and would love to hear your voice. We’d love to have you join our family fun! I will keep fighting as I still have a lot of things to do before I’m ready to leave this world. Love you my friend!!! ~ Jo


6/14/2021: Ahhh..thinking of you daily and missing you so much. I’m happy you’re getting all the special care you deserve. I’m planning a trip back to CA the beginning of August and will be sure to come visit. Take care of yourself and let us know if you need anything. Love you.
6/15/2021 response: Nicole, I would love to see you when you come to So Cal so please let us know when you are coming. Love and miss you too!!! ~Jo

6/14/2021: Nana you didn’t have to mention me now I’m embarrassed but yes I do want to marry Elvis Presley

6/14/2021: I am so thankful that Shelly is pulling all the stops for your care. I feel you will get a lot of questions answered at MD Anderson.

I love that you’re planning a mardi gras trip, maybe I can talk Matt into taking us while you’re there. I’ve never been.

You are an AMAZING woman Jo and I am so blessed to know you! Stay strong and please find comfort in knowing that so many people are praying for you! Love you! Ryan Roth

6/15/2021 response: Ryan, thank you so much!!! I sure do miss y’all!!! ~ Jo

6/14/2021: I’m so glad you are taking the time to do everything you’ve wanted to do. I still remember the last time we spoke – at the Connect conference. You, Rachel, and I spent our lunch outside talking, sharing, and shedding a few tears. Sure miss seeing you.

I am a big believer in a nourishing, healthy, lifestyle and my grocery bills can attest to that! I’m very big into non-gmo, organic, grass-fed, etc (even got a few chickens this year for eggs and have a veggie garden!). I also visit the EWG website to see what their ratings are for many products from sunscreen to toothpaste. So a big Kudos to Tim, and to you for giving it a try!

Thank you for sharing your journey with us — you never know who your words might touch. I hope you have a ball in Disney and you’ll have to share with us if you get on any crazy rides like the Incredicoaster!

6/15/2021 response: Hi Becky, It’s so great to hear from you! Yes, I have some great memories with you and Rachel at the Connect conferences. I do remember you sharing about your healthy lifestyle. Thanks for reaching out! Please give my best to Rachel and Lynn. ~ Jo

I worked with Cassy for years. I saw Brett and the kids a few times when meals were planned and delivered. I’ve followed Jo’s blog with her Cassy and grandchildren updates. This is so incredibly unimaginable and tearful. I only hope for her that she finds comfort now and later with Cassy. Please know many are thinking of you all. ❤️

You are all in my constant prayers. I love each and every one of you. I am at peace knowing that she will be with Cassy again who she has missed so much. With much love and respect, Nicole and family

Please give my love to Jo Ann and your entire family. She’s such a strong and brave woman. ❤️

Please give my love to everyone. Your entire family is in my thoughts.

Jo helped me immensely since losing my son this February. I worked with and love being a part of Cassy’s life. Please tell her my prayers are with her and thank her for being there for me. 
7/18/21: I love seeing you enjoying life. You have a hard road ahead but you have so many praying for you. You are so loved as was your daughter Prayers to you my friend

I worked with JoAnn during the late ’90s at Nevada Federal Credit Union in Las Vegas. Please give her my best. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Thinking of and praying for the entire family. I know you have all been through this painful process before and it’s heartbreaking that you have to go through it again.

JoAnn, I remember the joy you exuded when dancing at Tim’s birthday party and I pray that you one day dance so joyfully again arm in arm with your daughter.

I worked for Jo Ann at CEFCU and she has been an amazing mentor and inspiration to me.
Sending love to the whole family,

This latest news is very hard to hear. Please let Jo know we are praying for her and the entire family as y’all go thru this. Much Love to you all🥰

JO think of you often. Sending prayers and love and hugs. I only wish there was something I could do to help you.

Thinking of my precious friend. Sending love and prayers your way. I have fun memories with you and Tori. My heart hurts knowing you are in pain. I know how strong you are. You are amazing. Love you lots. Mimi xoxo

6/15/2021: Jo Ann – as always you are a trooper and an amazing person. Your positive attitude will go a long way in your journey. I miss you and the fun times we had at the Credit Union. I’m praying for you Jo Ann and sending good karma thoughts your way. It is so thoughtful of you to keep everyone in the loop of your healing. I wish I could come to give you a big hug but an air one will have to do. I can't leave Lenny alone. Keep having your amazing optimism. Love you lots. Your friend Mimi❤️❤️❤️❤️


Hey there Jo! Diana Gadberry has shared with me the Wonderful visits you both have had. I wish I lived closer to visit with you as well, but know I think about you daily and you're always in my prayers. It’s officially Fall now and the leaves are all changing, so you can imagine how Beautiful it’s becoming here in the South. I love & miss ya! Your Friend, “Chubs” 🤣🤣

I am Jamie, Aunt JoAnn’s niece, Elliott was my Poppa. Please tell her I am praying and Love Her

Jo Ann , dear friend, and our former co-worker. Our prayers are for you and we are with you. We love you friend and God bless you.
Wayne & Sandra Campbell

Hey Jo,

Pat and I were just talking about you. We both wish we could be with you. But I’m waiting on knee surgery and Pat doesn’t drive much or fly. Remember we love you like a sister, more than a cousin. Love you and always praying for you.

Miss you love you for always.
Bonnie

I was so moved by Jo, Cindy, and Chele calling and singing me a happy birthday. Your strength and attitude is an inspiration for my own journey. Love you Jo.

I worked with Jo at Orange County Teachers FCU in the 80’s. I have been praying for her and so sorry this has progressed so fast. Please give her my best and tell her I will keep praying for her and the family too!!
Praying every day for peace for you all. I know how hard this is after caregiving for my husband for so many years. Jo, you are a very strong person and I know you are giving your best each day to get by. Please just know I am out here thinking of you!!!
7/18/21: Hi Jo!! I have been thinking of you each day and hoping and praying that your treatment will go okay. Sounds like times are getting tougher! You are a fighter as I remember so I know you will give it all you can!! Glad there were fun times too!!!

Jo Ann – I have missed seeing you at the Connect conferences. They just haven’t been the same without your delightful sense of humor. 😉 I’m smiling now at remembering some of the conversations we had over meals.
Thinking of you and your family often.

We are keeping JoAnn and all of you in prayer. I know she has fond memories of times spent with my father-in-law, Albert Madere, and husband, Gene Madere’s Godmother, Jeanette Mistich Coletti growing up in Triumph. I’ve always enjoyed hearing the stories of holidays at Grandma Josephine’s home. It meant so much that she stopped at my in-laws home (Al and Cathy) for a visit the last time she visited Néw Orleans. How blessed she is to be with those who mean the most during her these final days.

Please know that you are all in my prayers. It’s really hard to know what to say at a time like this. Jo is so loved as her children and grandchildren have demonstrated immensely. God is with each one of you.

💔
I’m so sorry that this time has come so quickly. I text Jo just now on her cell phone for y’all to read her my message. God bless Shelly and the entire family during this time. Thank God for all of the wonderful memories we have all had with Jo. I’m blessed just to have known her. She’s such a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul. My prayers are with Jo and all of y’all ❤️

You truly are a warrior JoAnn and I want you to know how much I have appreciated knowing you over the years. I will always appreciate your smile, sense of humor and just what an incredible human you are! Please know I’m praying for your strength and peace. You have an amazing family and so many people that care about you!

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. The overwhelming sorrow of a kind, sweet lady preparing to leave us is softened knowing all the love she shares and receives will continue with her family. Peace and love always.

My deepest 💔 condolences to this entire family. Chad and Shelly you have been so strong for your mom and she is so loved, greatest feeling for her to know…she will be joining Cassandra and they both will always be with you..take care of one another make them proud with all your life’s decisions. Hugs to all of you. So sorry this is happening (again) lots of love being sent your way.

My sweet Jo…. Left an imprint in my heart forever. What a beautiful soul 💝🕊
I miss her already. Until we meet again my friend, in Heaven with our daughters. As we suffer the grief of her not being here in the flesh, there is peace knowing that she is no longer in pain. I pray that you are ” Dancing in the sky”
Forever in my heart my sweet friend.

I am so sorry for Jo and your family. She was one of my favorite people in the credit union industry, and I appreciated the help she gave me with online banking questions and championing our shared projects with the vendor. I am very sad that Jo didn’t get to enjoy her retirement and time with her family. My prayers are with you all.
- Lynn Regan with Johns Hopkins FCU

RIP Jo, we love you we’ll miss you. Say hello to mom and pop for me, I know you’re rejoicing with everyone. God Bless

Dear Smith and Seanoa Families and other Jo family and friends,
My heart hurts for you. Your Matriarch has joined our Lord and has been reunited with precious Cassy. What a strong and loving person Jo was. I have never met anyone who loved her family more. I pray that the end of her suffering brings you some solace at this horrible time of loss. My love, my prayers are for all of you. Sending hugs.

6/14/2021: Dear Jo, You go girl!!! You are so blessed with your supportive family. Love that Tim is involved and of course, Shelly, what a powerful woman she is. Love your attitude and God be with you all the way. Thanks for sharing. Love and many many hugs.

6/15/2021 response: Thanks Ernylee! Yes, I am indeed blessed with my amazing family and support system. ~ Jo

I’m so blessed that I got to spend so much time with Jo and her family my thoughts and prayers are with you all this is not an easy thing to go through but I know everyone will be okay because there is so much love to get you all passed the hurt and anger you all will be forever in my heart ❤️ Make sure she gets a hug and kiss from me every day until the end 🙏🙏🙏🙏
She was a dear person and wonderful friend I know her family will miss her terribly but knowing she is at peace now is a great comfort love forever ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

6/14/2021: I am so glad you have a village of people to help you I would love to go to Mardi Gras I would like to come visit  ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

6/15/2021 response: Hi Cindy, I can’t wait to see you! Love you!!! ~ Jo

So sorry when so many down here need her, especially the grandkids. She’ll see Cassy soon which will be the only positive as she will have left too soon.
God bless and support the entire family who already gave so much with Cassy’s passing, now, to send a beloved family member up to heaven. I know Jo is happy to be back with her beloved Cassy although she’s had to leave her beloved son and daughter and grandchildren. God bless you and comfort you.
Jo McKaughan

6/8/2021: Dear Jo, so sorry to hear this newest news from you. It boggles my mind that you have to undergo yet another fight with cancer after Cassy’s. There is a lady on Facebook who is a columnist under the title of Frumpy Middle-Aged Mom and also Marla Jo Fisher. 2 years ago she was also diagnosed with inoperable brain cancer. She also has Kaiser. She did the exams and started treatment, lost her hair and all of it. They told her she was terminal. I know you have strong faith in God and that He will be with you. She is fighting it. She didn’t like her oncologist at Kaiser and asked for a second (non Kaiser) opinion which she paid for herself. She has a tremendously strong sense of humor also. Anyway, she got her consultation and some new ideas…reiki and others and found a terrific oncologist at Kaiser…she is in Orange County and I don’t know if that’s where she goes but she is now on immunotherapy which is helping somewhat. She goes on trips and everything. You should read her column (she’s also in the Inland Valley Daily Bulletin on Sundays) but even her infectious wit could help. Hugs and prayers. Cassy’s Coworker, also Jo

Sending prayers for healing, solace, and continued love to all of Jo Ann’s family and friends during this time. Jo was the best of the best, and her legacy will live on for many years to come, in those she nurtured and raised. Rest well, dear and faithful servant. Heaven is all the brighter with your presence.

6/14/2021: Wow, Jo Ann, I’m so glad to read what’s happening!

First and foremost, you look absolutely BEAUTIFUL in the pictures. I believe your positive attitude is shining right through you!

Second, I’m so glad to read about the quality time with family, major help with appointments, interesting new meals being shared, plans for Disneyland and NOLA. AND, you’re still trying to get in 6K steps when possible?! Amazing.

Third, I’m most impacted by your resolve to not be overly concerned about expenses, but, instead, focus on quality time together with those you cherish most.

Sending much love and encouragement to you, and looking forward to your next update. 🥰

6/15/2021 response: Awe thanks Sandy!!! ~ Jo

Sending prayers for peace and God’s blessings to Jo’s entire family. I know Jo had been such a strong and loving support for her family during difficult times, and I also know how much she appreciated your love and support when she was ill. Heaven has gained another beautiful and caring angel. She and Cassy will be looking over you forever.

7/19/2021: Jo Ann, please know that I am sending hugs for you and prayers for healing. I think taking your optimistic approach and making as many memories as possible are wonderful goals to look forward to!! I know you are strong, passionate, and determined to get through this. Please know you have a community filled with support for you and the family. Take care, continue to be strong, be hopeful, and be your beautiful self. With respect dp

I am so very sorry to you all for your loss. She was such a loving and special woman. Sending you love and peace.

Sorry, we can’t be with you to honor and celebrate Jo’s life but please know we are with you in spirit. Until we see you in person, we’re sending hugs and prayers your way together with a donation in your mom’s honor. Thinking of you fondly, Robert and Tanya Love

10/9/2021: I am very sorry to learn of Jo’s passing but  the family should take comfort in knowing they provided much comfort and love during Jo’s time of need.  Words cannot ease the pain you all are feeling now but in time, you will remember a funny story about Jo, her gorgeous smile, or her favorite Elvis song and that memory, whatever it is,  will bring you comfort.  Take care friends.

10/8/2021: I’ve had the pleasure of meeting Jo a few times. Each meeting was brief as I was picking up her grandchildren or dropping mine off at your house. I want you to know that you and your family are very special! I am sorry about your health crisis but so very thankful that you are surrounded by so many people that love you. Jo was an inspiration.
I am very sorry to learn of Jo’s passing but the family should take comfort in knowing they provided much comfort and love during Jo’s time of need. Words cannot ease the pain you all are feeling now but in time, you will remember a funny story about Jo, her gorgeous smile, or her favorite Elvis song, and that memory, whatever it is, will bring you comfort. 

6/14/2021: Hi Jo Ann – you probably don’t remember me but your grandkids, Wayne and Roxy, are friends with two of my grandkids (Natalie and Eric). My name is Tanya…we’ve met a few times! And, as you know, your daughter Shelly is an amazing person…a lady, that I proudly call my friend! I am so sorry you are experiencing health problems but I so admire your strength! I am very excited to hear of your upcoming adventures. I think your kick-butt attitude will carry you through this illness! And, if a day comes, and you just want to rest, put Elvis on and hang out with Roxy! 😉. The next day, you will feel energized and able to take on the world!
You are an inspiration!

6/15/2021 response: Hi Tanya, yes of course I remember you! Thank you for your beautiful words! ~ Jo

My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. I did not know Joann well, but I could tell by our interactions that she was a very loving and special woman who loved her family with all her heart. I pray that God will watch over your family, and comfort you during this time of sorrow.

Joann and I connected less than a year ago when we had a DNA match through 23&Me. I’m sure she told you about it. I feel blessed that I had the opportunity to get to know her some, and share information about our families. I am heartbroken that I did not get the chance to meet her in person, as I so much wanted to do, and in which she also expressed an interest, but am comforted to know that she is no longer in pain. If, in the future, you would ever want to talk or pursue more information on our family relationship I would love to do that, but understand perfectly if you don’t feel comfortable. Either way, I will hold Joann and your family in my heart, and keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you, and comfort you always. 💜

I worked for Jo at Caltech CU.  She was my mentor who taught me so much, many things she taught me I use daily and will think of her every time. She was my friend, her door was always open and many times I sought her advice for problems and she always made me feel better. She listened and I always felt safe to tell her anything. The greatest compliment she ever gave was that I reminded her of herself. I can only hope to live up to that. I will miss her so very much! Rest in love Jo! 

I was Joann's caregiver. And the brief time I spent with her was not just a job it was more than that. I got to witness the love that surrounded her from family& friends and I will be forever grateful for the moments that I was blessed to share with her and her beautiful family. 

Joann  and I met many many years ago at the teachers credit union, and she’s always been a blessing in my life.  her and her whole family, they even called me Auntie Sue and she was my daughter Joall’s  godmother, we’ve had a wonderful journey together and we will never forget you Jo or your family
Love les and Sue❤️❤️❤️❤️

I had the privilege of knowing Jo since I was a young girl. Whenever I think of her I get an image of her license plate- 
Nana7❤️s
It epitomized her devotion to her family. Her life and legacy will live on in all the hearts that she has touched. She will be greatly missed. We wish you all comfort and peace. 

JoAnn was a one of a kind. She had a deep unconditional love for her family. She was a very proud grandma. No question she will be very missed by so many. Reunited now with her many loved ones, and an angel above looking out for the rest of us. Here's to you JoAnn! ❤ 

Prayers and comfort to Jo Ann’s family & friends. From high school memories of a very kind person, my family hopes that her memory will endure forever.



To my beautiful, gracious, lovingly devoted Jo. I'll always cherish our childhood memories together with our family gatherings especially at Christmas at Grandma Josephine's house!!! I've always loved you and always will for all eternity!!

To my Adoptive Momma Jo!
I will always treasure you in my Heart. When I first met you, Chele Bele introduced us when we had our condo together and became best friends. That’s where I got to know the beautiful, faithful heart that you had. My Mom lived in Arizona and I lived in Vegas, that one time we had a deep talk about parents and telling you I wish my parents and I lived closer. You, Jo , told me, if you ever need a Mom to talk to if you can’t get a hold of your Mom , I will always be there for you.  And, you were there every time I needed to cry or just tell you I am doing Great! 
I Am So Grateful and will always Cherish our memories with you in my Life! 
Now, you and my Mom can have a great talk or a laugh or two together. 
Thank You for always including me in Family activities and functions , ( Shelly’s Birthday Party ) 80’s. 
Memories are the Best! 
I Love You Momma Jo and Thank You So Much!
You have a huge impact in my Heart that will never be removed! 
Jennifer 🌸🦋

I cannot believe what an impact Miss Jo made on Henry & I in such a short amount of time. 
We’ve been blessed so much the last two years being able to be with Miss Jo and share so many memories. She’s the strongest lady, with thee best stories. I’m going to miss talking, crying, and mostly laughing with her. She always knew exactly what to say and never held back-which I appreciated so much from her. Thank you for being so awesome to Henry. I’m so grateful for our time together and I’m happy I was able to spend so much time with you these last couple months. I’ll never forget what you said to me on Saturday, 10/2/21-EVER. I’m so glad we got to singThe Beatles together ♥️😇 I can’t wait to see you again in heaven and we can line dance together!!!! 
Hug Cassy for me & please always stay close to us. We still need your good advice & your Nana power. We love you-G & H Egge 

I remember sitting next to you and Cassy at one of our boys games, (this was about 2 years of knowing your family) you got up to go to the snack bar with The kids and I turned to Cassy and said “you are so lucky! Your family is so wonderful and your mom is here every game no matter what” I loved seeing the relationship Your family had with each other. I later met Shelly when Cassy got sick and was so envious of the strength and support your two daughters you raised had for each other and I know that came from you. Even after our kids didn’t play together anymore every time we crossed paths whether it be on the baseball field or the soccer field or the grocery store you would go out of your way to say hi and have a little chat with me. You will be missed by so many people including people who weren’t part of your daily life. I know you are at peace now with Cassy. Everyone down here will miss you everyday. 

Jo Ann was truly a friend and always made sure you were never forgotten. She brought me into her life and shared her family with me, knowing I didn’t have family of my own. I am going to miss our long conversations and our movie/dinner nights. I love and miss you my friend. 
-Elizabeth 

The first time I met Joann was at a Denver Broncos football game in San Diego with Cassie. Jo was so welcoming I felt as if I had known her my whole life. She will be missed. 

I met Jo the weekend of Tim and Shelly’s wedding. She made it so easy for me to feel comfortable with her right away. I was in California by myself and  she graciously agreed that we should share a room at the hotel, which saved me  from paying for my own room by myself. 
Who does that for a complete stranger in the midst of their daughter’s wedding!!?? 
This just shows what kind of person she was and why she was loved so dearly. 

Jo, You were an amazing Mother, Grandmother and Friend. Always cheering for all of our baseball kiddos! Your love and kindness shined bright in all of our lives. We are so grateful for the time we did spend with you and your beautiful family.  
We will miss you Jo. 
Love Always, The Hanks Family

10/9/2021: My deepest condolences for the entire family. Jo was a beautiful, kind and loving friend, Mother and Grandma. I will always remember all of our baseball moments together. Please let us know if we can help in any way.

6/7/2021: Jo, I am sad to hear the news. You and your family have been through so much. You are so strong! You and the family will be in our prayers. Please call upon the Hanks family if you need anything at all.

Jo was my first cousin.she was the sweetest and kindest person I know. Didn't get to see her much but always stopped by to see me when she was in town.i will miss her so much.she was my favorite cousin.love you Jo.

Our hearts are broken, not only for the loss of Jo Ann but for the beautiful family that her world revolved around. My Aunt Jo Ann was the one special relative that made sure we all stayed connected. No matter the distance she was the one that made sure she was there for our special occasions, my parents 50th anniversary, my sons wedding, she left her family during Christmas to stay with my Mom when my Dad passed. When my Mom got sick she made the trip over to visit with her one last time. She remained in close contact with me, she and Cassy stayed with us on their last visit to New Orleans, we had a wonderful time and made lifelong memories that I’m so grateful for.
I will miss her posts on Facebook, “here for Wayne’s game” or whichever grandkid was playing at the time, she never missed a game! I will miss her random calls to just “catch up”. She would call on my Birthday not just text, so she could “hear my voice”. We had our last visit in Houston when she went to MD Anderson, thanks to my husband for dropping everything to drive me there, I will forever be grateful for taking that trip and showing her how much we thought of her and cared. I got to get that one last tight hug she always gave and tell her face to face that I loved her. I left in tears knowing it would probably be the last time I ever saw her face. My Moms birthday was Sept 18th and as sick as she was she still called as she always did. Her voice was weak but she still ended our conversation with “I love you and send everyone my love” as she always did. I will miss all of this but in her honor I will make it my point to stay connected to Shelley and the rest of her family as she did with us no matter the distance.
Knowing that Jo Ann is now with some of the people she loved most on earth makes it a little easier for me 
to say “good bye (only for now) and give one of those tight hugs to my Mom and Dad for me”!  
Sending my love to all,
Cindy ( cousin Cindy as the kids say)❤️❤️


Jo Ann was a very kind person, when I came over from the UK for Tim and Shells  wedding with Georgia,  she treated me like I was a long lost family member and it was the same when I came back to LA in 2019 with my new family 
It was like we had all seen her the day before 
A lovely woman with the kindest heart possible 
She will be sorely missed 
I'm sorry we can't travel across the pond for the memorial 
Love to all at this time 
Steve, Nicky, Katie, and Georgia 

Jo was such an inspiration. She was the epitome of unconditional devotion and love. She raised two of the most incredible women, and was such a positive influence on her grandkid’s lives. I feel so fortunate to have had her as a role model for myself and all those around. 
Sending love and condolences, 
Jaime Winkelman 

I've known JoAnn for over 20 years. Her generosity towards me was always genuine. When she lived in Las Vegas I slept on her living room floor more than once. She would open her house to me during my 20's spontaneous Vegas trips. In her final days we laughed about these memories. I'm so grateful Marcos and I were there on her final day. We held her. We showed her how much we love her...and we told her that we'd take care of each other from here. Thank you Mama Jo...for teaching us the value of family. 

Good bye my big sis Jojo! I know you have no pain now and you are surrounded by all of our family that have gone before you. Just know you are LOVED and MISSED!!!!! REST IN PEACE MY SWEET Jojo!

Momma Jo, I have so many great memories of us together. You have celebrated all my major events with me and was happy to be there for yours for over 30 years. From graduations, birthdays, football games, 4th of July, bridal showers, weddings, baby showers, mother’s day, and your retirement. I will cherish most these last 4 years that we became closer as we grieved and bonded over our loss of our sweet Cas. We cried, laughed, hugged, talked for hours, and celebrated her beautiful life and felt closer to her as we were together. Thank you for being an amazing friend, mother, grandmother, sister, and person. I love you and promise to forever be here for your Chlel bell.❤️

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Jo Ann Mistich

19 December, 1954 – 8 October, 2021

Fairhaven Memorial Park & Mortuary

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