Ray Ray exuded life, he embodied joy and was always the life of the party. I will fondly remember the characters he would bring to life whenever the opportunity arose. Be it Hulk Hogan’s flexing poses, Elvis Presley songs / dances or any classic film character you could think of - Raymond would nail it. He would bring a smile to your face no matter where you were.  

Something special that I remember is how Ray would always greet me with, “There’s my cousin Ryan” or “Hey my good buddy” and was always overjoyed to see me. I will miss our time together here on earth. However, I take great comfort in knowing that he is in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ… and the best part is that he is now in his glorified body. I love you Ray. 

““Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also. And you know the way to where I am going.””
‭‭John‬ ‭14‬:‭1‬-‭4‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Raymond was such a sweet, kind, and wonderful person. His bright smile and outgoing personality will never be forgotten. I loved how cheerful he was every day — he truly made the world a brighter place. I cherished the times we spent together talking about baseball, football, and music. I will miss him dearly.

Taking a break from work to have a little fun.

In person meeting loved visiting Raymond and his family.

Our zoom meetings during Covid lockdown Raymond always smiling

At empowers special Olympic our group was the power pals and Raymond picked Aqua man

Ray, I loved how you would dance and sing all Elvis’ songs and lived life to the fullest. You will forever be missed for your beautiful heart & soul.  Love your cousin, Lauren.

Ray Ray was always the life of the party!♥️

Ray always loved his Mountain Dew and Pringles!!

My favorite guy! Raymond always made sure to take off his glasses when we took photos! He wanted to look just like his dad!

My best buddy forever! It was a honor being your job coach♥️

Uncle ray, I will never forget you. You had me belly laughing from  the the day I met you. I thank you for all the light you brought to my world. Endless happiness and you capitalized on making us all realize what was important in life- live, love, and laugh. You taught me more than you will ever know.   You will forever be missed my man. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Wanda and Jimmy,
Raymond and (Elaine) were such a big part of my childhood with Rose being my godmother.  I have so many fond memories visiting the house with my grandmother ( Frances Giafaglione), and parents.  Raymond was such an enthusiastic greeter.  He was always excited to see us and share the details of what he had done in school. 

Many blessings to you both during this difficult time,

Kristy White (Giafaglione)

In Loving Memory of Ray

Dear Whitney and Bales family,

Ray was far more than a relative—he was a bright, welcoming presence whose kindness touched everyone’s family.

Ray had a natural gift for entertaining. He brought laughter and light into every room, and his presence made gatherings so cheerful.

Ray will be dearly missed, but the joy he brought, the smiles he shared, and the love he gave will live on, in all of us forever.

Rich and Sue Roppa

So sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I only met him a few times when we traveled from Pennsylvania to California many years ago, but I can still vividly remember his love and enthusiasm that he spread to everyone including strangers! May he rest in peace. Sending love to all of his family who so dearly treasured him.

Wanda, I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He and Elaine held a special place in my heart. Ray was such a joy to the family.

Best buddy Ray!!!!  You will be missed.  You were such a bright light for multiple generations of our extended family .   There is no doubt that you lived your life to the fullest and have left a lasting legacy. Love you and miss my best buddy Ray.

Raymond was such a special bright light in our family! He had so much love to give to everyone and was the ultimate entertainer! His impersonations were hilarious as well as being spot on!  And he loved his Angels always yelling “strike him out” at the games! He ultimately got pressured into following the Dodgers too (Bill)  but that’s okay- he just loved baseball! Ray will always hold such a special place in all of our hearts & he will be truly missed!!! I love you, my young cousin Ray!❤️

OBITUARY

Raymond Louis Whitney

17 May, 1964 – 9 November, 2025

Fairhaven Memorial Park & Mortuary

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