Tony was a very old friend . We all enjoyed our time wrestling or just hanging at Tony Sr. House with the whole family
We were like family very hospitable and responsible 

We just lost a very good man

Bob Graves

Dear Mary, Family & Trisha
I was really saddened to hear that
my cousin Tony has passed. He was 
loved for the beautiful person he was, and
It was very evident how much he loved all of you. May God bless all of you and give
You strength.

I didn't know Tony personally and just happened to come across this obituary, but in reading these remembrances I just know that Tony & his Family are just like the family that I grew up with - the same qualities, the same emotions, the same memories, the same love & impact..... losing someone like Tony strikes something deep within us and grief is so hard to work through - my condolences and prayers to the family and friends that Tony leaves behind. You have to believe that Tony is up there watching over you and will somehow guide you through the grieving process....God Bless.

Tony was a great athletic. Another one of the legends that came out of Cupertino and Cupertino High School. A stud wrestler and a good person. Prayers to his family. RIP Tony. Look over your family.

In addition to Mary and her family, I am extending my deepest condolences to my cousin, Trisha, in her brother’s passing.  We all have wonderful family memories together growing up in the same neighborhood.  May you find peace from God, family and friends.  May Tony live in everlasting peace.

My cousin, Tony, was “the little engine that could.” He was a man of small stature, but make no mistake about it, there wasn’t anything small about him.  When he did things, he did them big and in fact, he “did” life big.  This is how he will be remembered.  Tony and I were fortunate enough to grow up together in Cupertino, California.  There were 24 of us grandchildren and 9 of us grew up in Cupertino together.    We were part of a very connected  community,  during a beautiful time.  This community still stands strong today.   So raise your glass to “the little engine that could.”

I want to send my deepest condolences to Mary, all the girls, their husbands and children.  You were Tony’s world and helped him do life big, the way he intended to live!

Mary and Family, 

My deepest condolences for the loss of Tony. He left his mark on so many, including myself first as a nurse, then an NP.   One of my favorite stories was when he brought in his giant home grown tomatoes to share with us.  He spoke so highly of you all and you could  truly tell you were his pride and joy.  He was such an incredible fighter for so long, despite all the obstacles he was thrown and I truly hope he’s at peace. He left a mark on me and will never be forgotten.

Dear Mary & Daughters:
I’m so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband & father, Tony. May God be with you during this difficult time & wrap His strong arms around you to give you strength.
Sending you my love & prayers.🙏🩵🙏
With love,
Cheryl Martina

I am so sorry to hear this I walked with him at graduation 
Nancy (Ackerly) Lassner

Your family is so special, so wonderful, and so loving.  I have not been privileged to see you often but when possible you’ve welcomed me with open arms and heart.  Tony’s vibrant personality lit up a room, his warmth, charm and humor touched all he came in contact with.  He is one man who changed lives, spread love, and will be greatly missed.  Thank you for embracing me and letting me bask in the glow of your family’s love.  Kathee Card ( Kaaren Martin’s sister)

I always looked forward to any event that Tony attended.  He was always the life of the party.  He loved his family and made friends feel like family.  All were embraced with love and friendship.  A bright light has gone out of our world .  He would always ask about our tomatoes - they were pathetic especially when compared to his!  But he would give advice and encouragement.   He will be missed by so very many people.  It has been a privilege and joy to know him.

My deepest condolences to Mary and their beautiful family.

Im so lost for words. My condolences to Mary and the kids and grandkids. Tony your smile and laugh was contagious.  I will miss you. I can never thank you enough little Tony for standing strong when Michael passed and never leaving my side in the hospital. Thank you for listening even when you didnt have to when I didnt know who to call.  You're are a great man! And your presence will be missed you. I love you little Tony. Please tell my family I say hi and I love them.

Absolutely a devastating loss. He was one of a kind. He was a bright light with a big personality and a bigger heart. A joy to discuss sports with. Absolutely loved his family. A great loss and  it was my honor to be called his friend. Will never forget our trip to Malaysia and Singapore with him. One of the better trips to SE Asia I ever experienced. 
My condolences to all of his family

OBITUARY

Anthony Joseph Picariello

1 March, 1956 – 23 January, 2026

Lima Family Santa Clara Mortuary

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