Pat was one of the funnier guys I've ever known. Few could bring me to tears with mere words alone the way he did. We played a lot of ball together, golfed together, drank (too much) together, and traveled some together. He was a kind and charitable guy and though we drifted apart many moons ago, I'll forever appreciate the friendship and laughter. 

Pat was my best friend for many many years.  I met Pat at Nottaway Park in Oakton, Virginia around 1980.  We played many years of basketball together, not only there but on other courts.  Of the many hundreds of basketball games together, we lost less than10 games.  Pat was a phenomenal player.  Also had a great time golfing together.

So much fun, such a great time.    I will miss him very much.

From the Jones family, may God bless you and help get through your loss.

Greg 

Judy and family. I'm so very sorry to learn of your loss. You are in my prayers and I hope you find strength in one another and cherish your fond memories. God bless you all.

Robert Toale and Sons Funeral Home - Wiegand Chapel

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John Patterson Wray

1 August, 1953 – 28 February, 2022

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