Our deepest condolences to the entire family.   We were fortunate to have met Joe as clients and were saddened to hear of his passing. He was a kind and thoughtful person who always strove to make ideas and plans into beautiful results. He spoke fondly of his family and always opened with a simpatico smile. 

The Calabrese family

My condolences to Joe's family.  I know your dad/husband from when he was an assistant coach for my sons in La cross and from around our town.  Last seeing him smiling in Tutta Bellas at a big table set inside the bar area.

I had him over at one time to quote some stonework at my home and know others who have used his services and were very happy.

He was a beam of light & a pure gentlemen.

Emulate your dad and you will have more friends and accolades in life than most.

RIP Joe

We had the joy of meeting Joe about 9 years ago. We were one of the many lucky homeowners that Joe worked so hard to make happy. Joe was honest and gave candid advice (even when it was against his financial interest!). But when he stopped by, we always talked about family, and his eyes twinkled when talking about his. He had so much pride for each family member, and loved sharing small bits about family events, such as lacrosse trips, weddings, family meals and so on.  While we understood that Joe was fighting — he always showed optimism that better days were ahead — we learned about his passing today. We only had the smallest opportunity to be around Joe, but he had a big impact on us, and those short moments demonstrated that he clearly meant so much to so many people. We will miss him.   
Jen and Alex Kaplan

My love and Condolences to the family.  Donation made to St. Jude in Joseph's memory. Love, Rosella Margiotta

Antoinette, 
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are  with you and your family during this devastating time.

I was so sad to hear of the passing of my old friend Joe Arch, when I moved to Eastchester back in 1976 Joe was one of the first people I met. He was so welcoming and friendly, I knew I had made a friend. So many memories were made back then, some of my fondest memories include being teammates on varsity football and enjoying a spring break trip to Florida back in 81. He was such a great guy. My heart goes out to his family.

I have been working in the Business Office of the Tuckahoe Schools for the last 23 years. Joe is one of the nicest guys I have ever dealt with. From basketball coach to snow removal to landscaping, feels like I've known him for eternity. 
Thinking of his family everyday since I heard the news.
Still can't believe he's gone but I will forever remember his smiling face.
RIP Joe

To Antoinette and family, 
Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Joe. In reading his obituary that’s the Joe I remember from his days at EHS. I always enjoyed being around him, his larger than life personality and his tremendous competitive spirit. Never afraid of a challenge, always ready to step up and be counted. I know he will be terribly missed but always remembered dearly. 
Wishing you all best wishes and hope you all will be comforted by his memory. Take care. 
Ron and Olivia Rothstein

There are no words to describe the type of man Big Joe Arch was. He was an unbelievably caring, kind and generous man who always put his family first. The love he had for Antoinette, his children, his family and close friends was so special and inspiring. 

Big Joe treated me like family since the first day I met him. He truly acted as an uncle and I will be forever grateful for everything he’s done for Marianna. I am so blessed for all of the memories and will forever look up to him as a husband, father and man. 

I pray that God continues to watch over and help heal the entire Arcidiacono family. Big Joe will be missed, but he leaves behind an eternal love that will be never be forgotten. 

Rest in Peace Uncle Joe. I love you! 🤍

Chris

Condolences ❤️
A hug ❤️ 
From your cousin Maria and family

Condolences❤️
A hug ❤️ from your cousin Maria and family

I have only known Joe for about 3 years.  In those three years I gained more love and respect for that man then people I have know my entire life.  I had texted Joe on Monday, just to say hello and he answered 
" Thanks for checking in Mark, appreciate it "  Wednesday I heard the news that he had passed. 
He actually took he time and strength to respond. That alone speaks a million words about what kind of Man he was.

Thoughts and prayers to family and many friends. Joey Arch-what a special guy. A heart of gold. So truly blessed to be a EHS classmate and friend. Keep smiling down to All of us. 🙏

We are devastated to hear of Joe's passing. We Knew Joe for many years...as a basketball coach at Tuckahoe High School, as our landscaper, but most importantly, as a Good friend...He truly had a heart of gold...caring, kind, what can I do to help you type of man. We will truly miss you Joe! Way too soon but God's gonna love you!!! Our deepest most sincere condolences to the family. May God truly comfort you through this most difficult time!  RIP good friend....The Buonocore Family

To the family of Joe  Arcidiacono my deepest condolences,  I will remember Joe as a kind and fair man our last project together was landscaping the front of Cottle Elementary School he will always be remembered for his work and dedication to Tuckahoe.
Anthony Russo
Tuckahoe School District

JoJo and family we are so sorry to hear about
Joseph.  We are truly heartbroken for you and your family. Thinking of you all sending  love , hugs and prayers. A donation in his name will be sent to St. Jude. 
May he rest in peace 
Love,
Pat and Willy Manno & family

To Theresa, Diana and family ,
I’m very sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to the whole family . Find comfort knowing he’s at peace . Thinking and praying for you all.
Love,
Dorian Barry

Very sorry to hear about Joe's passing. Only yesterday we were playing Little League together. Or he was helping my mom with her home later in life. An incredibly kind and gracious man. Prayers to the entire family. Tom Doherty

I loved Joe !!!!
My heart breaks for the family

I met Joe when I was a kid as he both lived on park ave. He was nothing less than kind to myself and my family. He’s the reason I played high school football. Over the years we talked many times about work and life. 
He was and is a true gentleman who I am better for knowing. My deepest condolences to Annette and all their family at this most difficult time.
You will be missed my friend. 
Always your childhood neighbor Michael

Joe 
       Thank you for always being at the school when I needed you. I knew I could always depend on you. I enjoyed the conversations we had over the years. RIP
                                                               May you fly with the angels!
                                                                    Rich
                                                               ACDS Scarsdale and Pelham

Joe had been “My Brother” since  he was in 9th grade… became my brother Joes best friend. I used to walk in my house late at night on a Friday/Saturday night, and step over all of my brother joes friends asleep on living room floor…somehow he’d be the only one awake, making sure I got home ok.   I love Joe and his family are my family. Broken-hearted 💔

Joe’s smile would always light up a room! His friendly personality made you feel special any time he talked to you! His life here has been cut short but his eternal life will be so amazing!
My condolences to Antoinette, the kids and his entire family are being sent w tears in my eyes…treasure the memories!
Eternal rest grant unto  Joe and let perpetual light shine upon him Rest in Peace

My deepest condolences on the loss of Joseph.  I was a classmate from EHS class of 1981.  May those close to Joseph find solace and comfort in the days that lie ahead.

My cousin Joe gave me one of the greatest memories I have as a kid. I was in 6th grade and was a huge baseball fan. I was 11 years old and Joe and Antoinette his girlfriend at the time, suprised me and picked me up to take me to my first baseball game ever! That was the first time I saw the grass at Yankee stadium! It was a night game versus the Orioles! It was hands down was one of my greatest experiences ever. I remember so many awesome things about that night, but most importantly how special Joe made me feel. It was perfect. I was also the only 12 year old at his wedding! 
Joe also gave me my first job. As a landscaper, I quickly realized I did not like spending my Saturdays or vacations doing this work! We would joke later that he was the reason I went to college to get a degree. Joe was simply amazing with the perfect ingredients of charisma, love, strength and humor.

Bed of Heaven to a wonderful man deepest condolences to the whole family on the loss of Joe we are all so sorry to hear this sad news .

OBITUARY

Joseph Michael Arcidiacono

21 May, 1963 – 15 November, 2023

Edwin L. Bennett Funeral Homes

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