Barbara Jean Thommen

January 16, 1941 – September 15, 2024

Cherished Mother, Sister & Beloved Grandmother.

Barbara Jean Thommen, our cherished Mom, Sister, and beloved Grama, passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 15, 2024, surrounded by family. Born on January 16, 1941, in Yankton, South Dakota, to William and Irene Nooney, she was the fourth of ten children in a loving Catholic family. Her life was a testament to the importance of faith, family, and friendship.

In 1962, Barbara ventured from her small-town roots to pursue her dreams in the bustling city of Seattle, where she began her career as a flight attendant with United Airlines. It was in Seattle that she reunited with the love of her life, Tom Thommen. Together, they built a beautiful home in Magnolia and were blessed with two children, Molly Shutes and Tommy Thommen. She spent her years surrounded by family and friends, building lasting connections with all in her community.

Barbara was a dedicated member of the Katherine Meloy Circle for over 60 years, beginning in 1965, and she devoted her life to helping others. Known for her remarkable warmth and generosity, she opened her home to everyone, especially during the holidays, ensuring no one ever felt alone. The holidays were her favorite time of year, when she lovingly prepared her iconic dishes, like oyster stew on Christmas Eve and corned beef on Saint Patrick’s Day, as a heartfelt expression of her care for those around her. She created a home filled with love, laughter, good music, delicious food, and cherished memories shared by all who entered. Barbara’s ability to listen without judgment made everyone feel truly seen and understood. Her open heart and kind spirit left an indelible mark on everyone who knew her. To those who loved her, she was our saint.

Barbara was predeceased by her husband, Tom Thommen. She is survived by her daughter, Molly Shutes; her son, Tommy Thommen; her son-in-law, Scott Shutes; her granddaughter, Sarah Shutes; and her great-grandchildren, Bodhi Winslow and Poppy Jean. She also leaves behind her sisters Bonnie Bilder (New Jersey), Carol Anderson (Minnesota), Colleen Thompson (Texas), Mary Lee Stewart (South Dakota), Theresa Allen (Kansas), and Bridget Fitchner (South Dakota), along with a large extended family and many dear friends.

We were profoundly blessed to have Barbara—our Mom, Grama, and Gigi—in our lives. Her love, generosity, and unwavering support will remain forever in our hearts.

Barbara, you are deeply loved and will always be remembered. Your memory will live on in the lives you touched.

Service Information

A service will be held at Our Lady of Fatima, 3218 West Barrett Street, on January 16th, 2025 from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made here:

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The donations will support the Associated Catholic Charities (ACC). For over 106 years, ACC’s volunteer members have assisted children and families at risk through fundraising and advocacy.

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