Sweet Pam , please Rest In Peace.
Ann Butler long time co worker

With Deepest Condolences in the loss of your mom. May the peace of God rest upon you and your family. Praying for you and your family.

Sincerely,

Rachel Johnson and family

Pam Grissette and I worked together at VA. This picture was taken at my civil service retirement in 2019.
Please accept my sincerest condolences. May you find solace and comfort in the memories of Pam that brought joy to your life.

I'm deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Pam, a coworker of mine when I worked at VA. 

Pam was more than just a colleague; she was an inspiration. Her unwavering support, kindness, inner strength and generosity made her a shining example of what it means to live with compassion and empathy.  She made everyone feel seen, heard, and valued, and her presence will be deeply missed.

As I reflect on my time working alongside Pam, I'm reminded of the countless ways she enriched our work environment. Her infectious smile, quick wit, and genuine interest in people made even the most challenging days brighter. She had a gift for making me and everyone she worked with feel supported and encouraged.

Pam's legacy will live on through the countless lives she touched, including mine. I'll always cherish the memories of our time working together and the lessons she taught me about kindness, compassion, and constructive communication.

I'll miss her greatly.

I met Pam shortly after joining the Department of Veteran Affairs. There was an instant  connection, maybe because we share the same first name. Even our names were similar her initials G-B  was the reverse of the last name I had for over 20 yrs--B-G.  Pam was genuinely a kind soul. If she could help you she would. There were times when I would say I wouldn't do that and she would say yes you would and we would laugh about. In the Department of Veteran Affairs, Office of Information and Technology, Pam took pride in supporting those who work to provide care and services to Veterans and their families. Everyone knew Pam. If you needed something done...call Pam. If you needed to know something...call Pam. She was not just an employee of OIT to many she was a friend, a confidant, family. We love but God loves you more. You gained your wings so soar in peace, no pain, no discomfort just peace. You are and will forever be missed and loved but never ever forgotten. ~Pamela (B-G) Smith.

To the Family I love you all so much may peace and comfort find you all! 


Ma I love you and will miss you so much! I will cherish are special bond and are love for purses, a good road trip, and Sweet Potato Pie  lol ! 

Thank you for loving me and guiding me it has been an honor knowing such a sweet soul! Don’t worry about your mom and your babies I got them! 

Love you Ma Pam Nichelle

Cousin Pam at my daughter’s (Peyton)1st birthday party

Pam was a beautiful and talented person and a beloved co-worker and friend. 
My condolences to the family.

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Pamela Grissette-Bowman

16 September, 1969 – 4 November, 2024

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