OBITUARY
Donald Edmund Froude
3 January, 1956 – 16 February, 2021
Donald Edmund Froude, 65, of East Dennis, MA passed away on February 16, 2021 after a long illness. Born on January 3, 1956, Don was the son of the late Donald and Beverly Froude. He graduated from Mater Dei Prep in Middletown, NJ where he was an outstanding athlete, particularly on the football field where he was elected as co-captain in his senior year. Don received his Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology from the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA graduating in 1978.
Don worked in the financial services industry for 37 years. He began his career as an advisor at Bache Halsey Stuart before moving on to Alex. Brown & Sons where he served in multiple leadership roles, culminating in his position as a partner and co-head of the Private Client Business. Following his tenure at Alex. Brown, he served as President & CEO of Quick & Reilly until 2006 when he moved into the role of President at Columbia Management Distributors. He joined Legg Mason in 2008 as the Head of US Distribution before serving in his final role at Ameriprise Financial as a member of the Executive Leadership Team and President of the Personal Advisors Group. Don retired from Ameriprise in 2015.
He was the loving father of his daughter, Cameron Froude, and son-in-law, Salman Saghafi of San Francisco, CA and his son, Andrew, daughter-in-law, Kelly, grandson, Jack, and granddaughter, Alice Froude of New York, NY. Don is survived by his former wife and Cameron and Andrew’s mother, Nancy Kiely Fermano of Winchester, MA; former wife, Kimberly Froude of Palm Beach, FL; sister, Melissa and brother-in-law, Mark Moulaison of Yarmouth Port, MA; nephew, Kyle Moulaison of Boxborough, MA and niece, Lesley and her husband Darren Costa of Palmer, MA as well as numerous close friends who spent time with him in his last years.
He loved living by the water at his home on Cape Cod, cheering on his beloved New York Yankees with his English Bulldog in his lap. Never one to shy away from a good time, Don loved cooking (and eating) delicious food, time spent on his boat, hosting his friends and family, late nights playing music and singing songs on the porch and generally getting into just the right amount of trouble. His warm spirit, generosity and unbridled enthusiasm will be missed by all who knew and loved him.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, February 24th 2021 at 11a.m. at Our Lady of the Cape, 468 Stony Brook Road, Brewster, MA 02631. The Funeral Mass will be livestreamed at https://www.ourladyofthecape.org/. In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be made in his memory to Dream Day on Cape Cod, 165 Nan-Ke-Rafe Path Brewster, MA 02631, dreamdayoncapecod.org
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ADD A MEMORYKim Froude
2 March 2021
Thank you sooo much to everyone who has provided us with all the special memories...mine are countless and echo all the wonderful attributes you’ve shared! Donnie changed my life and I’ll always treasure our many years together! Thanks for helping, it’s been very heartwarming❤️
Joseph Rettig
1 March 2021
Although I haven't been in touch in recent years this hit me like a ton of bricks this morning. Don had the charisma to light up a room and I know he positively affected so many lives! 1 memory I had about him was at a Ameriprise conference where 4 of us were sitting around talking about embracing each and every holiday and spending it with the people that matter. The server came by and he started to order.......50 sliders, 50 wings, 50 of this and 50 of that. I said Don, what you doing? there are only 4 of us! He immediately quipped, "If we build it they will come". Within 15 minutes there were 40 people around simply celebrating life.
He was bigger than life and always made you feel welcome. God Bless and look down on us once in awhile:) R.I.P.
RICH MILLET
28 February 2021
My wife DeeAnn and I met Don in Sun River Oregon where he was our featured speaker at Jeff Marshall's conference. I hope you had a chance to be there that night to enjoy one of the most memorable nights in my life. Don shared a book he had recently read called "Chasing Daylight" It was a book that I feel changed his life which in turn changed mine. I picked up a copy and sent it to Don to sign which he graciously did and it sits proudly on my shelf. Dee and I share your loss and our hearts weep along with yours. May you be lifted up with the outpouring of love, memories spoken in these pages. For ALL the lives he touched and blessed be comforted in the knowledge that even as you read this he is out there Chasing Daylight. God Bless to you and yours. Rich and Dee
Dan Donovan
27 February 2021
Back in the office on the morning after, with a gleam in his eye, a big smile on his face and his sometimes raspy voice, Don offered words that were both practical and inspirational. “Sometimes you’ve gotta play hurt” he said.
Don and I first crossed paths when we worked together at Prudential Securities. We reconnected a few years later when I joined Alex. Brown, where Don was a branch manager and star performer. We worked closely together for years.
As reflected in the comments offered on this page, those who who grew up with Don, went to school with him, worked with him or found him by another way, know that Don was generous, an inspirational leader, a motivator, an engaged listener, a cheerleader and advocate for his teammates and colleagues, and tremendous fun. Dear God, it was fun to spend time with Don.
But, there was also more to Don. He worked extremely hard and was a consummate and innovative professional. While all of the attributes Don possessed and shared were genuine, they were successfully employed in his service as a professional. Don drew the best out of those he led and worked with, and he made substantial contributions to each of the businesses that were fortunate to have employed him. There are so many to miss him.
My thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences go out to all of Don’s family and all of you, his friends.
Rest in peace Don.
Edmund Froude
26 February 2021
I will forever remember my cousin Donnie’s ability to make the most of every moment. In 2002 he invited me along with him and my uncle Don for the Dream day tournament. The picture of him carrying the winning catch captures his infectious joy that day. When given the tournament winnings, he happily said give it to the Kids! His generosity and zest for life were never more on display than in thatmoment. RIP Donnie.
Charlie Conte
25 February 2021
Don lived in the same neighborhood as I did . He would drive joe oxley and I home from football practice when he was a senior.
Timothy Sheehan
24 February 2021
Many decades ago, on a rugby pitch far away, many an impressionable young lad first encountered Donny Froude. Many of us came away inspired to follow in his determined and unconventional footsteps.
You could tell from the get go, this guy was different,.... unique, one of a kind,... just special. Larger than life itself, athletic, fearless, determined, full of energy, life and passion in everything he did.
Surprisingly he had a heart and welcoming personality as big as his well apportioned stature. He could have been that personality that was a big turn off, but instead, his true genuineness, and authenticity shone thru like a beacon.
We’ve all lost a great friend, who despite some challenges, made the world a much better place for his time spent with each of us.
Tim & Christy Sheehan
HCRFC’80
Jim Tormey
23 February 2021
I first crossed paths with Donnie, better known as ‘The Ball’, at Holy Cross. Even then his persona was larger than life- the booming voice, the guttural laugh, the bear hugs, the ENERGY.
Seven of us were treated to front-row seats as housemates during Donnie’s senior year. I might get old one day and forget my name, but I will never forget the fun that we had that year.
After graduation I figured that we would go our separate ways and check in via brief phone calls or at an occasional HC Reunion. To my good fortune, Don moved less than a mile from me in CT. Needless to say, our friendship grew even stronger. When Donnie did move away, the proprietor of the local liquor store offered to put up black and purple bunting on his storefront in a show of public mourning.
My favorite quote of Donnie’s was “Let’s Make a Memory Today”. He worked hard, he played hard. If you didn’t like it, he wouldn’t take offense- he’d just find a new playmate.
I will miss Don terribly. We all will. I will mourn his loss, but most fittingly honor his memory best by continuing to tell my endless supply of ‘Ball’ stories for they are the stuff of legend.
RIP buddy,
Mel
Sam Smiley
23 February 2021
I am one of the lucky ones who was able to cross paths with Don in life. I fondly remember having a one on one conversation with him in our Ameriprise Honolulu office at which time he so graciously shared with me great words of wisdom, confidence, and support. A big “MAHALO” to you Don. ‘Ke Akua pu ahui hou’, God bless you until we meet again....
Caroline I. Reed
23 February 2021
I met Don in November of 1984. He had come to visit my husband,
John who was hospitalized in Boston. Don was "Over the Moon"
with pleasure and enthusiasm---he had recently experienced the
birth of his first child, Cammie. My husband's day had been parti-
cularly uncomfortable, but Don "perked-up" both our spirits!
Though Don was quite young at the time, John wanted him to
manage my financial affairs after his death. John trusted Don and
had confidence in him. John's judgment was well-founded.
Through the years, Don advised me. I will always be grateful
for his counsel. During this period it was my pleasure to meet
and spend time with Nancy, Cameron, Andrew and Kimberly.
My heartfelt thoughts go out to them.
It has been a number of years since I last saw Don as our paths
ultimately followed different directions. God Bless you my
friend. Heaven will welcome your spirit.
Jospeh Zarlenga
22 February 2021
Don was a great leader at Ameriprise, I loved his stories about "garbage cans full of beer cans and clam shells" as he mentioned his love outside the office. What a great photo of him, I wish I would have been able to spend more time with him at Ameriprise.
Tim Bunce
22 February 2021
I feel very blessed to have called Don my friend. We met when I would deliver his lunch to him from my restaurant. We shared many wonderful conversations and I can honestly say I enjoyed every second I spent with him. A very generous kind man and someone I will never forget. Thank you for being a friend Don and I pray that there is an awesome chicken parmesan dinner awaiting you in heaven. RIP my friend I will miss you!
Jackie Kipke
21 February 2021
When Don was working for the New York office of Alex. Brown & Sons, I worked in their Baltimore office and Don invited myself and Sue Marsh, Mary Carnaggio and Sharon Schultz (we all worked at ABS)to come to NY to stay at his Apartment while he and his wife went to Cape Cod for the weekend. When we arrived to their home we found tickets to a broadway show for that weekend! There was nothing that Don would not do for his friends and colleagues and he was loved by all. I don’t know that I’ve ever known a man who was so kind and generous and hilarious! He made lots of wonderful memories with us at ABS and we loved him for it! May he Rest In Peace!
JoAnne (“Josie”) Duffy
21 February 2021
Don was a great leader and mentor. He imparted his knowledge and wisdom to many, including me. I was fortunate enough to have worked for him and I will dearly miss him. I will treasure the memories that I have of him. May he rest peace.
Karen Pohlhaus
20 February 2021
Don and my late husband , Jack, we fast friends and partners in mischief from his earliest days with Alex Brown. He was a friend to me for over 25 years. Great memories abound from his time spent visiting Ocean Reef. Fabulous meals in New York, Balto, Miami, the Eastern Shore and in the Keys...whenever we spoke in the last few years wonderful stories of days past always put a smile on my face! He will be greatly missed...
Kathy McManamy Lena
20 February 2021
I met Don at Mater Dei in our freshman year, 1970. He made an impact even as a young man, with his wide smile and kind nature. I am glad to hear how many lives he touched, and wish that we had known each other as adults. It sounds like his kindness and caring lasted his whole life, touching everyone he came in contact with.
My condolences from an old friend from 50 years ago!
Dave Geschke
20 February 2021
I was extremely saddened to hear of Don's passing. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family and loved ones. It was an honor to work in the halo of Don. For those of us lucky enough to have worked with him, it was always an insanely great time. He was extremely motivating, passionate, and you saw the pure definition of charisma when you were around him. A true mentor, friend and as generous as they come. When you close your eyes, you can still hear Don's distinctive voice and laughter. I hear that voice when I think of how he ended every call - "love you kid".
Don was one of those people that had an impact on your life and I thank God for letting us borrow him for a little while. Rest in Peace Big Guy!
Charlene Stearns
20 February 2021
My heart is broken. The world will never be the same without this incredible man. He was the best leader I ever worked for.
Don was the most wonderful, caring, humble and generous friend I know. He was there for me in a very difficult and personal time in my life. I will never forget the impact he had on my life both personally and professionally. RIP My Wonderful Friend ❤️
Stacy Bernstein
20 February 2021
I had the honor of working for Don at Legg Mason and will always cherish those times. He was one of the kindest and most compassionate leaders I have ever known and cared deeply for those around him. His love of life was infectious and will fondly remember Peter Luger dinners, his love of gummy bears, his levitating colleagues at a sales meeting, his deep belly laugh and the list goes on. May he Rest In Peace and have no doubt he will be the life of the party in heaven. Don - thank you for making me a better person and leader. You will truly be missed.
My very deepest condolences to his family and to all who loved him.
Stacy Bernstein
Manish Dave
20 February 2021
Very rarely do you meet a person who is the personification of passion. Don was this person. I had the high honor of working with and knowing Don for almost twenty years at both Bank of America and Ameriprise. He was a mentor, leader, but most importantly, he was a friend. You knew he cared about you because he always told you what you really needed to hear, and I was so much better for it. Don leaves a great legacy of caring based leadership. I am blessed to have so many memories with him that bring an instant smile to my face.
May the waters for your eternal journey be calm, the music pumping, the wine flowing, laughter rolling, and the good times never ending. Condolences to his family, and may God rest Don’s soul. I miss you big guy.
Valen Lipari
20 February 2021
Who could ever forget Don. From the minute I met him when I joined Quick & Reilly I knew I would never forget this man. He was a tour de force! He was an amazing leader, who made you part of the success of the company no matter what position you held. We had a few good chats about fishing with our dad's and about music. Don always made me feel as if I were part of a great big family. We would connect from time to time on LinkedIn, I always missed working under his leadership. He was one of a kind. Don took out ,what seemed to be the entire organization, for drinks when Q&R was bought by BOA. He gave us all a great send off, it was a night I will never forget!
God rest your soul Don, until we meet again.
Frank Teodosio
19 February 2021
I was blessed to work for Don in several leadership roles at Ameriprise. Don was without question the best leader I have ever worked for.
If you needed anything he was there for you. If he called you - you were motivated and left the call energized and excited. I will miss our talks and his great wisdom. I stayed in contact with Don after he retired and I was lucky not only to call him my boss but also my friend. Rest In Peace Don. My thoughts and prayers to his family.
Kathleen Pritchard
19 February 2021
As so many have said, Don was larger than life! I had the pleasure of working with him at Legg Mason and have never stopped missing being part of his day to day life. He brought joy to everyone and everything he did. He treated us all like family but we always knew how much he treasured and loved his real family. I feel blessed to have known him....he is now the life of the party in heaven! My condolences to all who loved him - I hope there is some measure of comfort in knowing how many lives he touched.....
Catherine McCauley
19 February 2021
I worked with Don at Legg Mason as his HR partner. If you know Don-you can imagine how many times a day we spoke. He was an amazing leader as he truly cared about people above and beyond they work that they did for the company. The fond memories of the bags of candy in his office that he had shipped from Amazon, the staff meetings with catered food every week, the pot lucks with Pellici's (Stamford) chicken wings that he loved, his tie collection, the crab dinners in Baltimore....the list goes on. I was so sad when he left Legg and I shed a tear when I heard of his passing this week. I want his family to know that he made a difference in many people's lives-including mine. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Paul Tyler
19 February 2021
All I can say is watch out Heaven you are about to have some laughs. I am fortunate to have met Don at Ameriprise, he was one of those leaders that genuinely cared for everyone and he knew you and remembered you, even a lowly registered principal in our supervision unit like myself. I met Don as many did out a Zelo's in downtown Minneapolis, I had some partners in from the West Coast and we ran into him, that night he held court, regaling us with stories to the wee hours of the night. During that time he had asked me a question about a Hawaii office that i was involved with, I gave my answer and we went on into the night. Well I quickly found out what made Don so successful as I received a call at 6.30am the next morning and a bright eyed Don was calling me, with his EVP for that area of the country asking me to elaborate on my idea. That was his power, he took everyone at face value, appreciated their insight and made everyone feel like they were an important part of the larger team. I always enjoyed my interactions either at work or when he hosted an outside event, Don was larger than life. My thoughts are with his family, a large hole has been left in your lives, cherish the memories, tonight I will toast a drink to Don and my dad who are both new entrants to heaven who will surely brighten up the place!
Slainte
Phil Sielatycki
19 February 2021
I had the pleasure of meeting Don here on one of his trips to Raleigh when he visited the local Ameriprise office. I will remember him for his energy, his leadership and professionalism, and his kindness.
Joe and Faith Buscone
19 February 2021
Don frequented the Marina often in so enjoy boating. One day Joe asked him how he was feeling and he replied “if I was any happier I’d be a twin.“ He was a fun generous man with a zest for life. He will be missed. May he Rest In Peace. Joe and Faith
Howie Tallett
19 February 2021
On behalf of the Tallett family , our condolences to the Froude Family on the passing of Donny. " The Big Guy" was larger than life. A standup guy who was such a fun loving, gracious, generous individual. I can honestly state beyond any doubts that I never had a bad time with the Big Guy! They broke the mold when Donny was born. He was a one of a kind "Diamond in he Rough". He will be sorely missed. I pray the Good Lord welcomes him and has him back after loaning Donny to us. RIP Donny
Steve Fox
19 February 2021
The very first individual I came in contact with as I moved into my College of the Holy Cross dormitory was Donald E. Froude, my new next door neighbor.....Talk about an initiation to the college experience...we became fast friends, swapping football stories, long, loud,entertaining evenings on campus, and never saw him without a smile on his face.
We reconnected years later when our children were HC students together, and it was as if no time had passed. He inspired me to look into real estate on Cape Cod, and put me in contact with " his people ", and I'm forever grateful for the end result of that interaction. Incredibly, on the day I learned of Donnie's passing, I learned that the daughter ( who was an HC grad as well ) of that real estate agent that Donnie put in contact with, was hired by my daughter. Guess I shouldn't have been surprised....there are probably a million such interactions that Donnie had his fingerprints on simply because of his interest and investment in everyone he came in contact with.
Bowling Ball, you'll be missed, but never forgotten.....Thank you for your friendship, and my deepest condolences to the family.
Foxy
Randy MacDonald
18 February 2021
Don and I graduated high school in the same class. Don was an enthusiastic leader even then. My best memories of Don are much more recent. Don and I had dinner at Delmonic’s in NYC when I tried to acquire Quick and Reilly. We had an amazingly great time catching up and discussed everything other than business. However, more recently Don put his leadership skills to work when I led the privatization of our high school to become independent. Don generously shared his intelligence, motivation and personal treasure. I am better for having known Don and glad i got to rekindle my friendship with “bowling ball”. Don also ended my football career freshman year when he tackled me and I compressed my neck and suffered severe damage. “An ee moll” still rings in my ears ( and neck). My condolences to all his friends and family, including the Murphy’s and Kirk’s. May eternal light shine upon him.
James Dineen
18 February 2021
I always enjoyed the time I spent with Donnie on the golf course or post golf dinners. I admired his courage facing painful and unremitting low back infections . My condolences to his family . Jim Dineen md
Dale Ormon
18 February 2021
Don introduced himself to me at the start of our Dream Day fishing tournament in 1999. He wanted to know how he could get involved. I told him that we were trying to raise enough funds that year to build 1 of the 8 cabins that I proposed to build in a one day event. He went down to his boat and came back with a check for one cabin. Later in the tournament he handed me his bank business card and said call this number my bank will match and you will get a second cabin. The tournament raised enough for a cabin and when I announced at the Saturday night dinner what had happened it caught fire. People stood up and said I want a cabin to the tune of not 8 but 9 cabins. What we thought would take 3 years to raise took one tournament thanks to Don! Since then Don has donated countless times including most recently our new dock system. What a man, he will be sadly missed. RIP Don.
Tracey Sperry
18 February 2021
Donnie was so good to Dream Day on Cape Cod with his generosity of spirit. He was a volunteer, a benefactor and a friend who believed in our mission to help children with life-threatening illnesses and their families. He will be missed and never forgotten. Thank you for everything, Donnie.
Scott Rethke
18 February 2021
Very sad to hear this news, and at the same time I have many fun memories of working with Don!
RIP Donnie Boy
Philip Waxelbaum
18 February 2021
In 1985 Don Froud was part of my flock as a newly minted managment trainee. Even then he was special. Quick witted, fearless, relentless energy and impossible to contain. I knew he was destined for huge success if we survived it. Don had the most endearing bull in a china shop personslity and intelligence. While he charged at everything in life he still left all he touched better for his presence. Our industry, our world and lives are less without him. He will be sorely missed but the memories are indelible and priceless.
Douglas Gray
18 February 2021
I had the pleasure of getting to know Donnie through the friendship of Kim and my wife Rhonda when we were in our twenties and early thirties. He was bigger than life and genuinely nice to everyone around us. He had an insatiable curiosity about people and life and he made life better. He also couldn’t understand how hot it was in the South and that it didn't seem to bother us. What a great guy!
Craig Wedel
18 February 2021
Don (Bowling Ball) and I lifeguarded together in the 70s and reconnected a few years ago . Since then, we spoke often and I came to realize why we were such good friends. A fond memory will always be the trip the the Bahamas. Don will be in my thoughts and I will treasure his friendship.
Woody
Bonie Sedio
18 February 2021
I was lucky enough to work with Don at Ameriprise and got a chance to see what a great man he was. It was a joy to work with him, with lots of great memories. Will think of him every time I hear the "Toes" song 😊. Will miss you, from “Kiddo”.
Thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Aaron Ahlstrom
18 February 2021
I've worked for Ameriprise since 2009, and joined the recruiting team in 2012. There was a recruiting VIP event in Minneapolis and I was studying for my CFP at Dan Kelly's across the street. Rebecca (on the recruiting team) brought Don in for a drink at the bar. She noticed me and brought Don over to introduce him, and we spent the rest of the evening chatting, laughing, (and drinking) until bar close. He just met me for the first time, was the President of Ameriprise, and sat down and shared his evening with me. That's the definition of who I aspire to be. Thank you, Don
Jeff Gans
18 February 2021
Saddened to learn of Don’s passing. He brought and incredible energy and passion to every aspect of his life. I had the privilege of working with Don for a few years and benefitted greatly from his guidance and insight. He had a quick wit and desire to connect people to build a family in all aspects of his life. His ability to make a quick connection with people was unique - and his interest and care for the people around him made him special. He will be missed. May his memory be a blessing
Skip McLaughlin
18 February 2021
Don was my lifelong and best friend. We met for the first time in 8th Grade. We were co-captains of the Mater Dei High School football team. We roomed together as seniors at Holy Cross College. I was his best man and he was my best man in our weddings. We stayed connected throughout our life. I will miss my brother and best friend for the rest of my life. Sincerely, Skip
Liz Schroder
18 February 2021
Don was unmatched in his love for life. He was imaginative, funny, smart, energetic, compassionate, inspirational and generous. I was blessed to have known him 30 years. He was a colleague, true friend and wonderful human being. I will miss our regular “hey Lizzy” conversations in that distinguished voice, constantly smiling as he told good stories and jokes, and asked about my family. Some of the funniest one-liners came from his mouth. He really knew how to make people laugh, all the while, laughing at himself. He loved having fun, offering advice and having “something to look forward to.” My deepest sympathies extend to his family and good friends. Requiescat in pace, my friend.
Don, this was you to a T…
“To laugh often and much; to win the respect of the intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the beauty in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that one life has breathed easier because you lived here. This is to have succeeded.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson
Bree Sheahan
18 February 2021
I have so many fond memories of Don, over years of working with him at Ameriprise and being a fellow "commuter" from NYC to Minneapolis. While Don enjoyed great career success and worked tirelessly, he always put people first and was immensely proud of his family. He loved to take care of people and was always good for a laugh. (One of many memories... after a fully catered company reception, Don ordered rounds of pizza with meat on it so that, as he joyfully exclaimed, we could all "get our protein" ;-)). The biggest impact Don had on me, though, was watching how he treated people. I once took a multi-day trip with Don and his team to a few offices around the country. The way he engaged every single person he encountered -- from driver to waiter to colleague -- with grace, warmth, respect and gratitude was remarkable. I often think of Don, as I'm rushing about in my busy NYC life, and stop to thank someone. Thoughts of Don bring a smile to my face and I hope his family is comforted by joyful memories as we mourn this tremendous loss.
Bob Patterson
18 February 2021
There is no way to capture how much fun it was to be with and around Don. When I try to think of anyone else to compare him to I draw a blank. He was certainly one of a kind and it’s so sad to think we won’t see him again. The entire Patterson family sends their sincerest condolences to his family.
John Woerner
18 February 2021
So terribly sad to see this news of Don’s passing. Don had a zest for life that was unmatched. I first met Don early in my career when he was heading Quick & Reilly, and then had the great fortune to work closely with him at Ameriprise and had my office right next to his.
Don had a passion for life, and cared so deeply. He loved the celebration of food and drink, I think mostly intensely for how it brought people together to share moments in life. I am fortunate to have had many moments with Don, and he will be remembered forever. God rest his soul.
jeffrey stein
18 February 2021
My deepest condolences to your family. I knew Don through Terry Hinnendael's Ameriprise conference which occurred every 2 years in Green Bay. For the short periods of time I interacted with Don he left an unforgettable impression! He was an awesome guy and will be greatly missed!
Terry Hinnendael
17 February 2021
I met Don at Ameriprise in Minneapolis on Monday, September 15th, 2008, the day Lehman folded. Don’s great sense of humor and wisdom saved the day. Don would fly to Green Bay, WI every two years to speak at my leadership conference, which was attended by advisors and their families. Everyone loved him. Don took a personal interest in everyone he met and enjoyed talking (bragging!) about his family. What an incredibly rare combination of business acumen, story telling and living the good life! Thanks, Don.
Adrienne Tubridy
17 February 2021
I was lucky enough to work with Don at Alex. Brown and witness what a great man he truly was. He loved what he did and his work family were always very important to him. I will never forget his big smile, generous laugh and larger than life personality. May the memories of his life and many contributions be celebrated by all.
Adrienne Tubridy
Leslie Donnelly
17 February 2021
Don was a man who knew how to live. He recognized the importance of making time for friends and family. I will always remember his wonderful laugh, his kindness and generous nature.
Don always put a smile on my face and will continue to do so whenever I think of him. He was larger than life and I will be forever thankful for having known him.
Tom Largey
17 February 2021
My condolences go out to all who loved Don.
Terry Downey
17 February 2021
I met Donnie about 5 years ago and we immediately butt heads, however after just a couple days there was no more head butting. He came to terms with me (a woman) telling him what to do, and I appreciated how hard that is for a man who had always been the boss. It did not take long for a unique bond to form between the two of us, I loved to kid him, give him a hard time, and make him laugh. When he smiled, that smile went ear to ear and could light up any room. When I would check in to see how he was doing he would always want to know how I was, always looking out for the other person. I saw in him, that kind man that would help anyone in need, he had a gigantic heart! I was very fortunate to see him a couple times over the past month, we talked about his grandson and soon to be born grandchild. Speaking of them just brightened his world, I am sorry he did not get the opportunity to meet the newest grandchild. I will truly miss him, I hope he is at peace.
GERRY KOSTUK
17 February 2021
I've had many leaders throughout my career, Don was certainly one of the most unique and caring. My interview for a position as a Complex Director was one of the most interesting and has become a favorite experience over my fifteen years at Ameriprise. Don genuinely cared about those he lead and anyone who sought his guidance. one in a million who will surely be missed.
Eric Carlson
17 February 2021
Don was always welcoming from our time together at AMP. Still love seeing his caricature on the wall at the Palm in NYC - his speeches were contagious and motivational! He will be missed.
Joe Kringdon
17 February 2021
Don was a mentor and a dear friend.
I first met Don at Holy Cross. He was a few years ahead of me (which I always reminded him of) and we were teammates on the Rugby team. "Bowling Ball" was a force of nature. Full of laughter, warm and inclusive.
When I graduated, he was already making waves in Financial circles in Boston. I reached out to him for direction and from that day forward we forged a bond. I followed him into the Wealth Management business first as an advisor, then a Branch Manager, always seeking wisdom from him. I jumped to Asset Management, which he soon did thereafter and he sought direction from me.
At the latter part of my career, Don and I were both working for Ameriprise. He at the parent company and me at Columbia. Again, we always traded phone calls, emails of encouragement, updates on family, just two friends keeping up.
My most memorable moment with Don was when I went to visit him in NYC. Time was not too much removed from the tragedy of 9/11. Don lost a roommate and HC brother on that day. We sat in his office and traded memories of our Crusader days. When it was time to leave, I stuck out my hand for a parting handshake. Don brought me into his arms, and with a tear in his eye, hugged me and told me how lucky we were...the he told me he loved me. I loved that man. He was one of the good ones! Gone too soon.
Dave Wazer
17 February 2021
My deepest condolences to all of Don's family. I was a classmate of Don's at Holy Cross and he has been a life-long and joyful presence . The "Bowling Ball" was larger than life - there was never a dull moment when he was in the room. But I will remember him most for being a sincere, genuine, and generous friend. He was a good man and I will really miss him.
Matt Haglund
17 February 2021
I worked for Don in the years leading up to him leaving Ameriprise. He was more than a leader; he was my friend. Don regularly quoted "people have to know you care, before they care what you know." He not only said the words, he lived them. Wherever we were, he wanted to make sure the people around him knew they were important and their thoughts valuable. He wanted everyone to have the best time they could be having at that moment. If someone was in time of need, he wanted to help support them.
Unlike other leaders I've had, he wanted you to become part of his family, not just a coworker. He brought his team to his home in Cape Cod and down to his boat, Southern Comfort. We met his wonderful family and we dined at their table. Kim welcomed us in, and we all laughed and shared as if we had been family for our lifetimes. Don called me nearly every Friday afternoon to review the accomplishments from the week, talk about our priorities for the coming week and then you would feel his sincerity as he thanked you for the hard work.
May we all learn from Don and make others around us feel loved and make sure people know how much we care. Praying for peace to his family and friends as we reflect on the impact Don had on all of our lives.
Colin Moore
17 February 2021
Kim,
I have very fond memories of working and laughing with Don. His ferocity in pursuit of a goal and humor in delivering it were amazing. When I first moved to Boston, Columbia was part of Fleet Bank. Don quickly invited me to his apartment as Roberta was still selling our home in CT. His ability to make me feel totally welcome (and occasionally hung over!) was integral to me feeling part of the Columbia team. Teaming up again at Ameriprise was a wonderful additional boost to the acquisition in 2010.
The first law of thermodynamics is that energy cannot end but it can be changed from one form to another. Wherever Don is now is warmer, happier place.
Colin
Patricia Peterson Lee
17 February 2021
I have only wonderful and fun filled memories of my grammar school and high school days with Donald. From young children playing kick ball in the street to teenagers learning to drive, as neighbors were shared so much. My deepest sympathies to his family and to Missy.
paul harrington
17 February 2021
Don gave a very inspiring speech at induction ceremony for Mater Dei high school hall of fame. He recognized Mr. Oxley for his guidance in grammar school. He explained how he became an part of the McLaughlin family. He had a extraordinary ability to find ways to help all those who helped him in his life. Generous to many. Rest in peace my friend.
David Shnitzer
17 February 2021
Don was the reason I got back into leadership at Ameriprise in 2010. His passion for our business and leadership will be truly missed. Rest In Peace Don.
Douglas Flaherty
16 February 2021
My condolences to Don's family and loved ones. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time. Don was indeed larger than life and working with him was always a special and fun experience. His laugh and sense of humor will be greatly missed.
May God bless Don and all of you.
Sarah Cadenhead
16 February 2021
He was larger than life and I feel lucky to have gotten to know he and Kim. Best VIP ever
Sarah, his handler
Marjorie Cooper
16 February 2021
Donnie and Kim always showed the kindest and most generous
hospitality to me and my husband John. We made both their acquaintances through Linda, Kim's mom and my dearest friend.
John & Marjorie Cooper
James HR Haldeman
16 February 2021
Donny and I were friends back at Holy Cross. He was bigger than life. His large booming laugh and gregarious disposition was contagious. Visiting him at The Stone Pony and in NYC over the years were special moments for me. It hurts to tell you how sad I am.
To his family, please accept my sincerest sympathies.