Audrey Grace Carathanasis

16 July, 19404 September, 2021

Audrey Grace Carathanasis, age 81, of Southport, North Carolina passed away on the morning of Saturday, September 4, 2021.

Mrs. Carathanasis, or as she was better known -“Mrs. C.”- was born July 16, 1940 in the Bronx, New York, daughter of the late Edward Aherns Babilot, Sr. and Emily Grace Collins Babilot. She graduated from Evander Childs High School, Bronx, NY and was a past Queen of the Organization of Triangles/Order of the Eastern Star. Audrey met her husband Norman Carathanasis while he was attending New York State Maritime College; they were married for over 61 years.

As a young, fun loving wife and mother of three daughters, Audrey could be found baking and cooking, knitting and sewing, gardening, playing and growing along with her family. Always a dedicated worker and community leader, she played an essential part in the family’s former restaurant business. Later she worked as an office manager at Carter’s Funeral Home and at Hudson Valley Eye Associates. Audrey brought her great enthusiasm and talents to benefit the Hendrick Hudson School District PTA as their President. She was admired for her resourcefulness and caring as a Girl Scout Leader. While accomplishing all of this she remained devoted to cheering for and nurturing her three girls in athletics, academics and adulthood.

Starting retired life in 1996 included a move from Montrose, NY south to Boiling Spring Lakes, NC where she quickly resumed her very active lifestyle and created many friendships in her new community. Audrey was an elder and a parishioner of the Southport Presbyterian Church where she participated on the Vestry, Building Committee, Knitting Group and Fellowship Coordinator. As the Founder and Past President of the Boiling Spring Lakes Garden Club she was honored to launch a scholarship program for horticulture students attending Brunswick Community College. Audrey worked tirelessly for the Brunswick County Board of Elections to ensure that all citizens of the county had access to vote. Audrey and Norman travelled near and far including trips with many of their friends and family over land, sea and air. Their adventures brought them from Alaska to Europe with many stop overs in between. In addition to her husband, she is survived by three daughters, Robin Carathanasis-Rosh and husband Ira, Laura Carathanasis and partner Mary Rodriguez, and Christine Katsch and George Katsch; five grandchildren, Devon, Gillian, Morgan, Kendall, and Amanda; a brother, Edward Babilot, Jr. and wife Ann; a sister-in-law, Frances Hecht and husband Hank. Audrey was the connector of her family who live near and far and is beloved by her many cousins, nieces and nephews, and grandnieces and grandnephews.

A celebration of her life will be held at Southport Presbyterian Church, 1025 E Moore St, Southport, NC 28461, Southport, NC at 2:00 pm on Sunday, September 26, 2021.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to place a memorial bench in her honor at Spring Lake Park in Boiling Spring Lakes, NC; donations to: Boiling Spring Lakes, Parks & Rec, 9 E BSL Road, Boiling Spring Lakes, NC 28461 RE: Audrey Memorial Bench or to Southport Presbyterian Church at; or to the American Cancer Society at; or to your favorite charity.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at for the Carathanasis family.

Peacock - Newnam White Funeral and Cremation Service, Southport, North Carolina.


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Audrey Grace Carathanasis

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Judy Thuer

26 September 2021

Dear Norman,
This has not been a good day physically for me!
It is best I stay home & don't risk having the paramedics come with me...
I have been sitting outside thinking how Audrey deserves such a beautiful day for her service.
I am in constant prayer for your family & know she is in heaven giving them some knitting lessons.....with love, Judy.

Julia Katsch

24 September 2021

We have lost a dear friend, Audrey so special, so loved and warmly remembered.

With deepest Sympathy,
Judy & George

Ann & Ed Babilot

19 September 2021

We can't imagine our world without Audrey in it. We are overwhelmed with sadness but will draw on the indelible memories that Audrey so beautifully placed in our hearts. We will always feel blessed for having the most wonderful sister and sister-in-law.

Audrey, we will love and miss you forever~
Ed and Ann

Barbara Schacklinscky

18 September 2021

So stunned to hear about Audrey. I have many memories of dance classes that our daughters went to and the many field hockey games. My deepest condolences to Norman and the girls.

Ceri Davey

16 September 2021

Dear Norman, Family and Friends
I hope your healing will be full of happy memories , Audrey would want to all to remember her full of life and love. We had only been neighbors for a short while but I will remember her fondly. Sending healing thoughts and loving prayers to you all.
Ceri (Kerry) Davey

Judy Thuer

15 September 2021

Audrey was a real joy to work & play with. She was talented, smart and knew her gardening! I will miss our brainstorming sessions...and she will be sorely missed.

Mary Rodriguez

15 September 2021

Audrey was such a loving, energtic and giving person. May her strenght and courage be with all her knew and loved her.

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