Mary "Mary Lou" Louise Stanton

Mary Lou Stanton passed away peacefully on October 17, 2025, just one week short of her 85th birthday. She was born on October 24, 1940, in Missoula, Montana, the oldest of four daughters of the late Frank and Grace Stanton.

A woman of deep faith, Mary Lou was an active and devoted member of both Central Baptist Church and Park Heights Baptist Church. Her dedication to her church family included serving as librarian at Central Baptist, where she was honored with a plaque for her service. She was passionate about both local and foreign missions, sharing her heart for helping others through word and action.

Mary Lou was also deeply involved in her community. She was honored with the Spokane County Civic Achievement Award by the Spokane County Board of Commissioners and served as a vocal advocate for people with disabilities, representing Paratransit riders to the Spokane Transit Authority (STA). In 1995, the Spokane Housing Authority recognized her dedication and spirit by nominating her for Tenant of the Year.

Her love of teaching and learning was evident throughout her life. She was one who taught many. Mary Lou taught first and second grades and later helped adults with disabilities develop life and management skills through programs sponsored by Spokane Community College. Even in her later years at Vineyards Assisted Living, she and another resident helped transform a small room into a cozy library, nurturing a shared love of reading.

Mary Lou also found joy in poetry and creative writing. She received recognition for her heartfelt poems and was known for creating thoughtful, hand-crafted cards for fellow residents, friends and family. Her words, like her presence, touched many.

Mary Lou began playing the piano at a young age and continued to enjoy making music throughout her life. She often joked about her singing, showing the same lighthearted humor and humility that endeared her to so many.

Above all, Mary Lou will be remembered for her radiant smile—a smile that could light up any room—and for her unwavering optimism and determination in the face of life’s challenges. She was a lifelong learner, a compassionate teacher, and an inspiration to those who knew her.

Mary Lou is survived by her loving sisters: Diane Ankcorn (preceded in death by her husband Richard), Laurie Stanton, and Jill Gaffney (and husband Dan), as well as many cherished nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and grand-nephews. She also leaves behind many dear friends who will forever treasure her warmth, wisdom, and determination.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Shriners Hospital or Joya Child & Family Development.