Charles Robert Ashley

Born on November 13, 1946, in Snyder, Texas, to Reed and Verna (Irvan) Ashley, Charles grew up with a strong sense of values and a heart for helping others. He graduated from Snyder High School, around where he excelled as an avid football player.

Charles proudly served his country in the United States Army for six years during the Vietnam War. His selfless service and dedication to his country earned him the respect and admiration of his fellow soldiers and community.

After his honorable discharge, Charles met the love of his life, Dorothy (Hamilton) Ashley. They married on July 5, 1971, in Odessa, Texas, and spent several blissful years together until her passing in 1996.

For nineteen years, Charles worked as a grocery store manager at Modern Thriftway in Andrews, Texas. He took great pride in his work and was always willing to lend a helping hand to his customers and colleagues.

Charles's family was his greatest joy. He cherished every moment spent with his loved ones, especially his daughter Tina. He made Fourth of July celebrations extra special for her and enjoyed playing board games and working on projects together.

In search of a more serene and picturesque environment, Charles's family made the move from West Texas to the Tahlequah area, drawn by the region's stunning natural beauty, with its lush trees and serene lakes. Charles was particularly fond of boating on the waters of Lake Tenkiller and exploring the surrounding countryside.

During summer getaways, Charles and his daughter Tina would often spend hours on the lake, enjoying quality time together. When not out on the water, they loved playing Skibo, a favorite family game that brought them countless hours of laughter and joy.

Charles's passions included old-time country music, particularly George Jones. He was an avid fan of the Dallas Cowboys and enjoyed watching “Old Westerns” and “Murder She Wrote” on TV. He also loved fishing, boating, and spending time outdoors. Charles had a special place in his heart for his furry companions, Jack and Sissy. His love for animals and the outdoors was evident in the way he cared for his yard and spent hours fishing and boating.

Throughout his life, Charles was known for his kind heart and willingness to help others. He had a generous spirit and was always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need.

Rest assured Charles is home now, with his beloved wife Dorothy (Hamilton) Ashley; his parents, Reed Ashley and Verna (Irvan) Ashley; his daughter Glenda Presley; his brothers, Kenneth Ashley, Maurice Ashley, and Tommy Ashley; his sisters, Wanda “Midge” Ashley, Debra Ashley-Vantine, and Reeda Tomas-Hall.

Charles is survived by his daughter Tina Ashley of Park Hill, Oklahoma; his sister Brenda Bridges; his nephews, David Ashley, Herb Ashley, Joe Clement, Tom Ashley, John Bridges, and Patrick Vantine; his nieces Kenita Ashley, Emily Bridges, Christine Ashley-Sparkman, Jackie Hall, Julie Hall, Sally Dunham, Becky Whitley, Abby Maris, and Genifer Vantine; his son-in-law, James Presley Sr.; one granddaughter, Charity Miller; and one grandson, James Presley; and a host of friends and loved ones who will deeply miss him.

In addition to flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Country Roads Animal Rescue at 451 SE 2001 Andrews, Texas 79714, the PayPal link is [email protected], in honor of Charles love for helping others.

Rest in peace, Charles. Your kindness, generosity, and love for your family and your country will never be forgotten.