It was with profound sadness that I learned of Cathy's passing. My thoughts are with her husband, 2 children and the rest of her family and friends. 

Cathy and I first met when she was volunteering her time to help people with disabilities who live in a building where attendant services were provided. She spent a year helping us develop a new, more consumer (or client if you prefer) service agreement. We bonded over our mutual understanding and promotion of what Independent Living was truly supposed to be. It ultimately turned into a friendship which lasted well after her help had concluded. While that part was wonderful, what I admired even more than that was the way she approached what had to have been a devastating diagnosis. I think about her every time I am dealing with some issue in my life, although not always as successfully as Cathy. I would be much better if I had half the strength and resolve that Cathy showed during this time.

Sadly, I have been dealing with my own health issues so I was unable to attend the funeral service. While I am upset about this, I just can't currently sit up for that long, but I was there in spirit. I will remember her for the rest of my days.

Cathy was a remarkable woman, and she will be missed by everyone who knew her. Rest in Peace my friend. Maybe we will meet again on the other side.

Martin Wuori

I had the immense pleasure of working with Cathy through the attendant service collaborative. Her smile and laughter were contagious and filled every room she was in. I am so profoundly sorry to hear of her passing and so deeply grateful for the time I spent working with her. I am also grateful for the incredible and powerful work she did throughout her career and know her memory will live on through the people and families she was so proud to support. She was one of a kind and will be deeply missed.

Over these past few weeks, my heart has been with Cathy and all of you. Thinking of so many sweet, funny, and at times heartbreaking memories. It was an honor to celebrate such a wonderful courageous, caring friend and to see the incredible love that surrounds your family. Cathy leaves behind a story that will live on in all of us who were fortunate enough to know her kindness, courage, and compassion.

Greg, Matthew, and Phoebe—you were the heroes of her journey. Cathy's greatest wish throughout her illness was to remain at home with the three people she loved most. You made that wish possible, and you did so with such grace, compassion, humor, and unwavering love. Because of you, Cathy was able to smile, laugh, love and continue living each day surrounded by the people she treasured most.

I hope that, in time, your tears will be replaced by smiles as you remember the countless moments of love, laughter, and joy you shared together. Hold on tightly to those beautiful memories—they will always be with you. I know I will.

With love,
Mary Lou ❤️

Dear Linda and Harry,
Ted and I express our condolences for the loss of your treasured daughter.Try to stay strong and remember all the wonderful memories of your precious time with Cathy. Sending our love  and hugs to you both.  Much love, Janet and Ted

I’ll always be grateful to Cathy for interviewing and supporting me at Access Independent Living Services before I started with Mobile Attendants Service in early April 2018. I also appreciated her offering me the move to North Yorkers. I attended the OFCP conference for years, and went to Access’s 30th Anniversary Celebration in late 2019 when Cathy was there. She would always greet me with a hug or a friendly comment, LOL! We exchanged emails from time to time, and in the last few months, I’ve missed her deeply. My heartfelt condolences go out to Cathy’s family and many friends.

I first met Cathy in Toronto, she lived downstairs from my sister Auleen and I while we were in university.  I moved out shortly after, but Cathy and Auleen soon became best of friends.  That deep and abiding friendship has extended to partners and our families, and I feel so grateful for that special, lasting connection.  Cathy was truly a shining light in her relationships and her work, and that light is her legacy.  My wife Stephanie had the pleasure of working and connecting with her through North Yorkers for Disabled Persons too, a treasured relationship. Phoebe, Matthew and Greg, our deepest condolences, and lots of love to you.

On behalf of the Centre for Independent Living in Toronto, I extend our heartfelt condolences on the passing of Cathy Samuelson.

Cathy was a respected leader, colleague, mentor, friend, board member, and Founder’s Award recipient whose contributions to the Independent Living movement and community support sector were significant and lasting. Cathy always brought clarity, humour, determination, and heart to this work, and she remained deeply committed to advancing dignity, choice, independence, and respect for disabled people.

Cathy’s leadership shaped our sector in ways that will continue to matter for years to come. We see this in her leadership at North Yorkers, but also in her dedication to the No Excuse for Abuse training, her ongoing contributions to ASAC, her work on the PSW Training Fund, and the many other initiatives Cathy to which contributed her considerable knowledge and skill. She was generous with her wisdom, principled in her advocacy, and always attentive to the needs of consumers, who were at the centre of her work. Her loss is felt across our entire community.

We offer our sincere condolences to Cathy’s family, friends, colleagues at North Yorkers for Disabled Persons, and all who were touched by her leadership, care, and warmth. CILT is grateful for Cathy’s legacy and for the many ways she strengthened our shared work.

On a personal note, Cathy was also cherished friend. I miss her very much but take some comfort in knowing the world is a better place because Cathy was in it.

When I first met Cathy, I immediately knew I was in the presence of greatness.  Her ability to put a young man moving in North Yorkers accompanied by myself and three other young caregivers who had supported him thus far in his journey for independence, was a breath of fresh air.  Cathy not only nurtured the young man (who would go on to achieve independent living in his own apartment) but calmed those of us who were trying to control our own emotions.  Our lives would stay connected over a span of 40 years and I will always remember her innate ability to be the calm in a storm, the voice of reason and most importantly uphold the sanctity and dignity of human life. When I think of Cathy, I will remember that serendipitous meeting in 1987 reflecting on my favourite Dickens quotes; “Imagine one selected day struck out of it and think how different its course would have been. Pause you who read this and think for a moment of the long chain of iron or gold, of thorns or flowers, that would never have bound you, but for the formation of the first link on one memorable day.” You will be missed my friend but never forgotten…Timothy Valyear

Cathy was an incredibly special person, and I feel honoured to have known and worked with her, as she grew from her original management position to that of Executive Director of North Yorkers. Her devotion to the cause of supporting independent living for disabled persons was extraordinary. She was an outstanding leader and mentor not just to the North Yorkers management and staff but to the many community members with whom she encountered in her many roles in the disabled community. She had so much love and dedication to the residents of North Yorkers and their families – the residents were always her priority. 
She took on many roles in the independent living community and introduced an information, research and referral service at North Yorkers that benefits the entire community of disabled persons. She was a key member of the City of Toronto’s Covid committee tasked with making sure the special needs of disabled persons were addressed. Despite the increasing severity of her illness, she co-led a major provincial training program on Abuse Prevention and saw it through to its successful completion.
As chair of North Yorkers board, I worked closely with Cathy – which she made easy as when she had a problem to discuss, she always came with a proposed solution. One of the qualities I admire the most in Cathy was her ability to hide any frustration from the residents. She always had her wonderful smile and words of encouragement and the ability to calm or reassure them when they were upset.
Over the past couple of years, although not physically present at North Yorkers, it remained top of mind and in her heart. She continued to provide me, management and the Board with her wise counsel and guidance.
Cathy, there are not enough words to say thank you and how much you will be missed. I will be eternally grateful for our visits and the remembrances we shared and laughed over. Your ‘can do’ approach, sense of humour and smile will stay in my heart and memories forever.

Cathy was truly special and will be deeply missed.
We would like to extend our heartfelt sympathies to the beloved 
family members and friends.
With love,

Cuong Hua & Family

Our family will always remember Cathy as someone who brought light & love to everyone she touched. She inspired so many of us with her generosity, strength, sense of humour & unwavering belief in the importance of supporting people of all abilities. 
Throughout her life, Cathy chose love over fear. Her courage was reflected in the way she cared about others and embraced life. We will forever be grateful for her friendship, compassion and support. 
Cathy fiercely loved her children, Matthew and Phoebe. She treasured her husband, Greg and the life they built together.  Her devotion to her family was evident in everything she did, and the beautiful legacy she leaves will never be forgotten. 
Rest in Peace, Beautiful Friend.
Love Always, Paul, Lisa, Sarah and Adam Vanderkolff

Cathy was such a light and beacon for the most positive of possibilities which I was fortunate to have her shine on me as she did on all of us and all things, even how she navigated her illness in the later stages of her life.  Showing up and being candid with information about her experience even then as a matter of fact of life to be engaged with directly and practically with the most cheerful optimistic approach. Teaching us how to move through life with grace, patience, love and care for others even when we face our own challenges. 

My condolences to her family. colleagues and community at NYDP because alas I won't be able to join you for her funeral.  Hopefully if it is live-streamed there will be a recording online to view afterwards.  

Take good care as you move through this sensitive time.

I got to know Cathy when my nephew Robin was moved to North Yorkers For Disabled Persons. I must say that Cathy was the absolute perfect person for that job of manager. She was always so upbeat with both residence and staff as well as visitors. I know that Robin was really happy there and Cathy was a big part of that as well as all the staff at the house that have been there so long caring for the residences 
Please accept our condolences to Cathy's Family and Friends she will be sadly missed by everyone that knew her 
Rosalie and Rick Barger

I had the pleasure and honour to work with, and be mentored by, Cathy. She didn't know she was mentoring me, but she was so knowledgable, grounded, kind and wise that I was drawn to her integrity. I am so sorry to all of those who love her so dearly - how could you not? I send love to you all.

My Sweet CC, 

There are people who walk through life quietly, and then there are people like you—who glide in wearing a fabulous dress, making people (especially me) laugh, spreading warmth like sunlight, and somehow reorganizing the universe so that everyone around you becomes kinder, braver, and more themselves.  You made everyone feel like they were special and the most important person ever.

People like you don’t “leave” You echo. You ripple. You continue. 

Your soul was a beautiful one—brilliant, strong, compassionate and with just the right dose of mischief. For decades you advocated for persons with disabilities with a fierceness wrapped in gentleness. You saw people fully and wholly. You lifted them up and welcomed them openly.  You believed in communication, dignity, and humanity—long before institutions and systems caught up to person centered support. And you did it all with your full heart, wit, humor, and creativity that made your work unforgettable. And always a new acronym to follow!  

North Yorkers for Disabled Persons will do their best to continue your legacy with love! 

You filled those you loved and the world with laughter, from the cottage to conferences, from wine nights to the moment you said, “VV, I’ll run up and you take the picture!” as you made a beeline toward Chef Michael Smith to get that perfect shot with him in the background.  You had a knack for turning everyday moments into memories that will stay with me forever.

You loved deeply— I loved your family stories with Greg, Matt, Phoebe and your Mom and Dad at the cottage, your best friend Michael, Victor and Bill next door, the dogs, your friends, your people. We all felt it.
Thank you, my angel on earth.

Rest easy now, my CC, my Boo.
I will miss you beyond measure.
And when my time comes or when the universe folds itself in the right way—I’ll meet you at the cottage dock, glass of wine (or two) in hand, ready to pick up right where we left off. Until we City View again.
Vera

Linda - condolences to you and Harry on the loss of your precious daughter - you must take comfort in knowing Cathy had the best care from family and friends - she felt your love surrounding that was what sustained her - keep her memories close to your heart and pull them out when needed - she knows she was loved - that truly is what matters - take some time to restore your soul - take good care of yourself - prayers and thoughts sent your way

Sue Zimmer

My beautiful best friend, always my +1, I will never forget you!

My dear Linda, I am so deeply sorry to hear this news.  I love you dearly and my thoughts are with you during this difficult and painful time.  I’m going up to the French soon and will be sure to have a swim to give you a glimmer of joy during this time of sorrow. My heart hurts for you and your family. Please take good care of yourself. 
Much love,
Savita

My sincere condolences to Cathy’s family and loved ones. Cathy was my manager, and most of all my friend. She was truly a remarkable person. Her kindness, warmth and generosity, touched the lives of anyone who had the privilege of meeting her. Cathy always made the difficult days lighter with her compassion and laughter. Your precious memories will always remain, your unwavering support will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace. May your memory be a blessing.

Dotty.

Cathy was truly an extraordinary person. She was not only a mentor, but a dear friend whose guidance shaped both my work and the person I am today. Many years ago, she welcomed me into North Yorkers and taught me to always make sure that people living with communication disabilities have equal opportunities and that their voices are heard. That lesson has stayed with me every single day.

My passion for North Yorkers is because of Cathy. Whenever I'm faced with a difficult decision, I catch myself thinking, "What would Cathy do?" and she was always just a phone call away to help guide me. She had a remarkable way of knowing exactly what needed to be done, always leading with wisdom, compassion, and a genuine belief in people.

Cathy was the heart of North Yorkers. The residents, board members, staff, families, and everyone whose lives she touched will miss her dearly. North Yorkers simply would not be what it is today without her. One of her greatest gifts was creating the Communication Enrichment Class, giving people living with communication disabilities a place where they truly belonged - a place where their voices mattered, friendships were formed, and a community was built. That is a legacy that will continue to change lives for years to come.

She was also incredibly funny and quick-witted. She could say something so perfectly that you'd better write it down before the moment passed. I'll always be grateful for her mentorship, her friendship, and the example she set. Cathy leaves behind a legacy that will live on through the countless people she inspired. I know I'm one of them, and I will carry her lessons with me always. She will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.

I am so very grateful for Cathy’s friendship, consult and mentorship.   I will hold onto Cathy’s laughter and our many chats over the years.   Cathy, such a resilient, positive and brilliant individual!   I loved hearing Cathy’s stories about her children and Greg,  so proud of her family.  Cathy’s contributions at her workplace and in the community made such a significant life changing difference for many.  Cathy was so dedicated to ensuring that everyone had an opportunity to fully participate, live life on their own terms, feel included and interact in such a genuine way.   Cathy’s leadership, knowledge and passion impacted so many and will have a lasting tremendous impact.  Cathy was brilliant! So many good ideas, strategic and at the same time be the first to do the work.  Cathy’s legacy made this world better.  I am missing my dear friend.   My thoughts and prayers are with Greg, Matthew and Phoebe.

Dear Cathy, 

I have never met a person quite like you. You gave so much of yourself to others and will never be forgotten, ever.  Thanks so much for the memories and the wonderful advice you have given me.  It meant the world to me and I will pass it on to others.

Missing you,
Debbie Wilkinson

I have known Cathy for many years through our shared passion for the work of supporting folks with disablities to be as independent as possible.  We spent many hours together at conferences and meetings, with lots of giggles and laughter as she had the most hillarous sense of humor and was quick with her wit and one-line puns.  She was a true friend and a free spirit who will be missed on so many levels.  My condolences to all of you who had the blessing to be part of her family and close friend group.  I know I will miss her.

Cathy was an extraordinary person, colleague, leader, mentor and dear friend. For more than 20 years as Executive Director of North Yorkers for Disabled Persons (NYDP), she was a passionate advocate for people with disabilities and a respected leader in the Independent Living and Attendant Services sectors. Her dedication, wisdom and collaborative spirit touched countless lives and helped shape programs, services and policies across Ontario.

Cathy will be remembered not only for her remarkable leadership and advocacy, but also for her kindness, humility, generosity and unwavering commitment to the people and communities she served. She possessed a rare combination of intelligence, determination, compassion and a wonderful sense of humour that made those around her feel valued and supported.

Cathy always put the needs of others before her own and inspired everyone fortunate enough to know her. I consider myself incredibly lucky to have called Cathy not only a colleague and mentor, but also my closest friend. Her friendship was a gift that I will cherish forever.

My heartfelt condolences go out to Cathy's husband, children, parents, extended family, colleagues, friends and all those whose lives were touched by her remarkable presence. Her legacy will continue to inspire us for years to come and she will be missed more than words can express.

My sincere condolences. Cathy was always such a positive person to spend time with, whether that be to focus on a challenging work issue, or to simply discuss life. I'll always be grateful for her kind influence and guidance - she will be dearly missed.
George Waggott.

Sincere condolences to Cathy’s family. I’m shocked to learn of her passing. Definitely gone too soon! She was one of the kindest most authentic persons with whom I worked. She will be greatly missed . RIP my friend.

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Cathy (Mary Catherine) Samuelson

27 August, 1965 – 30 June, 2026

Kane-Jerrett Funeral Homes

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