Dear Robin, Viola and Marina, Our sincere condolences on the loss of your Dad. Both Maria and I have fond memories of cousin Clary. I particularly remember the good times I had at the Niche whenever I visited Santa Cruz. Later on Maria and I were privileged to enjoy his company, love of music and good humor during several of his visits to Seattle. He had a large heart and was always willing to help those in need. He helped me by interceding with an acquaintance in the US Consulate, when I first applied for a student visa. We have carried on with one of the traditions we picked up from him and your Mom, i.e. to say the rosary out loud whenever we drive together on long trips. He and Jean are reunited again watching over you and your families and smiling. Love, peace and good memories forever.

I give my deepest sympathies to you and your family. MY love goes out to you and your family.

Dear Marina I've received an email from Leela informing me of the sad demise of your dad. Basil and I send you and the family our heartfelt sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we are sure that uncle Clary is with the Lord and your dear mum - may his soul rest in peace. Marina, it's years since we've met, however, it's great to re-connect with old school friends whom we've grown up with. I have fond memories of both your parents and of the good old days at school together and of all the get-togethers in Santa-Cruz. Sincere condolences and God bless to each one and warm regards to all of you. Love Lucia/Basil

Dear Robin and Linda, Viola and Romesh and Marina and Benjamin, When U. Clary ascended to the bosom of the Lord, God said, "Welcome good and faithful servant, enter into paradise for all eternity. You loved me and you demonstrated your love for me by paying homage to me through your love for my people. All that you see before you is yours to enjoy." A. Jean and those of his family and friends who preceded him were there to envelop him into their embrace of love and joy. The feeling was nothing that earthly words or thoughts could express. Today was an uplifting day during which we (in our second stage of life as Robin put it) celebrated your Dad and U. Clary's life (he also belonged to us) and his passing on to his eternal reward, to which end he was born. I am sure that he and aunty Jean looked down on today's Mass, burial of his earthly shell and celebratory send off, with pride and joy. They looked down on their family borne from the fruit of their love for each other; children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, and also the in-laws, with hearts bursting with pride and they looked into each others eyes and said "We did well". They watched the choir and sang along. When Fr. Simon started the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, Dad was ready to serve his Mass but Mum reminded him that his job and time on earth was over. Reluctantly but with understanding he acceded to her wisdom. Together they looked at all who came to pay homage and a movie of their lifetime interaction with each played before them and they felt close to all with the knowledge of the coming final and eternal reuniting. Love you all, Flask (Granny said this is a Rego acronyn which was used for most family signoffs) and God Bless, Noel, Jennifer, Melanie and Jeffrey PS: In case you forgot FLASK= fond love and sweet kisses.

From: Father Morton <jemorton@hotmail.com> To: Robin Rego <rarego@harbornet.com> Subject: The passing of Clarence Rego Date: Fri 11/20/09 06:51 PM Dear Robin, Viola, Marina, and family, It is already Friday evening, November 20, and you must be just finishing the Rosary and prayers for your Dad. I'm just on my way to lead a Rosary here for one of our community members--and will certainly be thinking of you all. I had intended to write and send this message before now, but I hope you will receive it while you are all together. I have the feeling that your Dad was "hanging on" for all of you, but was also ready to let go of his life here in order to be HOME with your Mom and all the other dear ones. I cannot help but be happy for him. And what a beautiful life he has had. Not only a life of great service and dignity, but also the joys of being happily married, having three outstanding children, and living to hold his grandchildren. I wish I could be there to listen to the stories, share in the prayers, and just enjoy being with your wonderful family. But I am there in spirit and my love and prayers are with you. I cherish the memories of your Mom and Dad together, and how very welcoming and encouraging they were to me and my family. And not surprising, I see and experience that same grace in all of you. Thank you all so much. Blessings, Jake

Dear Viola, Robin and Maria, Yvette and I extend our heartfelt condolences to you on the passing of your dad. Aside from his upbeat and jovial nature, was a man of great faith and love of family. This is a great consolation to all of us. Unfortunately we will be out of town and cannot be there with you for the Mass and Viewing, but rest assured he is in our prayers and a Mass will be offered for the repose of his soul and his speedy entry into heaven. Lots of love to you all in this time of grief and loss. Peter and Yvette Lobo

Dear Robin, Viola, Marina and families: Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dad. We have fond memories of the hospitality both your parents showed all of us in Santa Cruz. I remember the numerous car rides into town, starting with the rosary which so many of us continue today. We pray for all of you at this time of grief and sadness. We give thanks to God for the signs of goodness and love shown by your parents and the example they gave all of us...love...Barbara, Brian and the Pinto families.

To the Lobo family Please accept our sincere condolences on your recent loss. We always remember him as a fun loving individual with a great sense of humor. It is not easy to loose a loved one no matter how young or old, our prayers are with you and may his soul rest in peace

Dear Robin, Viola, Marina and families, Barbara and I wish to express our heartfelt condolences on the passing of dear U. Clary. I have fond memories of him from India and when we visited him a few years ago in Canada. He will be missed by myself and the rest of the Mathias family members. May God Bless him and May his soul rest in Peace Carl, Barbara and Family

Dear Ben & Maria & Family: Please accept our sincere condolences on behalf of the loss of your loved one. Our thoughts and prayers go with you at this time. Gary & family.

MY COUSIN CLARY by Merle Lobo I met Clary at his wedding Met his great big family, Met his brothers and his sisters Such a happy family He was tall, dark and handsome He had personality He could light up any room Put everyone at ease His devotion to his Jeannie His love for her was deep Gave up his home and country To be close to family Clary was a man of God His faith with us he shared In any trying circumstance He’d break into a prayer Singing was his passion How he loved a sing along And to cheer his fellow seniors He’d conduct a sing along Farewell to you dear Clary Even with your dying breath To us you’ve left a legacy “Reach out to God in prayer”

I have been blessed in my life to have a truly peerless role model. The strengths, values and beliefs he instilled in me at an early age, and continues to do so, serve me well in all my endeavors. I speak, of course, of my father, Robin Rego. I am writing this to express just how grateful I am to have had such a wonderful Grandpa, Clarence Rego, who in turn was chiefly responsible in helping to shape my father into everything he has become. I have so many fond memories of Grandpa that I hardly know where to start. He was unequaled in his optimism and unflinching cheerful nature. He possessed an amazing ability to put everyone near him at ease, and infuse them with good cheer as well, as if through osmosis. I remember the songs he used to sing to me and all the funny jokes he enjoyed so much, and the way I felt so loved around him. Looking back, the trait I admire the most about him is that behind all the laughter and levity, the generosity and selflessness, the song in his voice and the mirth in his eyes, was a pillar of serene strength. Through all the difficult times and travails he endured, that pillar remained unblemished and true. My life’s goal is to become a man like my father, and in turn his father. For of all the wonderful things Grandpa was to so many people, he was also an exceptional parent; a point which is plainly borne out by the continued success and happiness of his three children. While I am happy that he has arrived in heaven to stand proudly at Grandma’s side once again, I am thankful he left behind such a legacy as my father, the best advantage in life I could have. Shane Rego

Dearest Maria & Family. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all. We will keep you in our prayers. Gods Blessings Joan & Larry

From: Denis Lobo Sent: Friday, November 13, 2009 6:17 PM To: 'rarego@harbornet.com'; 'vathaide@rogers.comis' Subject: Dear Clary Viola and Robin forward to Marina, spouses and Clary's grandkids. We are deeply saddened by the news of Clary passing away. As we join you in grief and offer our condolences, please indulge me as I take a few moments to celebrate the life of this great man. The memories of Clary keep coming back in waves of joy. My first introduction was years ago at Auny Ellen's. He was the bigger than life party man who did not hesitate to wear his faith on his sleeve. Merle and I owe it to his example that we say the rosary and other prayers whenever we sit in our car and go for a drive of over a few minutes. Clary and Jean treated us royally when we visited Toronto for the first time in about 1982. They were going through some hardships but that did not prevent them lavishing their generosity on us. After dear Jean passed away, we met Clary in Poona....still have the picture of Tony and Clary on one motorbike - ALL 140 plus years of them. Then, our family had a great exposure to all the wonderful special traits of Clary when he spent time with us in Coronado - his prayers, humor, music and as Vinod who just called, reminded us his exercises. I had a ball taking him and Tessa to Tijuana and sight seeing at San Diego harbor. Merle has kept up contact with Clary through the years till his hearing prevented meaningful converstions. Viola, Robin and Marina, You inherited a perfect match of genes from your beautiful parents. But genetics can only do so much. The lovely family life and devotion to the Lord has kept you united, loving and charitable. we are so happy he lived to see his grandson ordained. I can just picture him united with Jean looking down at all of us with GIVE ME YOUR JILEBI SMILE! So cousins, LET'S SHED OUR TEARS, THEN DRY OUR EYES AND CELEBRATE THE LIFE OF THIS GREAT MAN IN HIS TWEED SPORTS COAT A PROTOTYPE GENTLEMAN OF A BYGONE ERA. LOVE Merle & Denis

To Maria, (Ben) & family: My condolences on the passing of your delightful Dad. He would have made a superb high school principal. His voice carried authority and wisdom, yet was warm. He had a broad understanding of the world, and that came through in his conversation. In particular, I recall his asking good questions. On a few occasions he would ask,on a given topic, "what do you think of such and such, Dan?" If my answer had holes in it, he wouldn't say, "I don't think so", rather, he would respectfully inquire "but do you think, Dan, that such and such might be this way because..?" allowing me to respond, "Oh yes, of course". I also enjoyed his sense of humour, and his knowledge of big band numbers which he played on the harmonica. I think he may have done a little dance jig as he played, which added to the joy of the moment. May the Lord bless his faithful servant and take him quickly to his new heavenly home.

From: david rego [mailto:david_rego@hotmail.com] Sent: Saturday, November 14, 2009 7:22 PM To: rarego@harbornet.com Subject: RE: Funeral Home Information and Online Condolences for Clarence Rego Hi Robin, My condolences on your Dad's passing. As a teenager, Uncle Clary became an example for me, watching the kindness and consideration with which he so consistently treated all around him; I will never forget the love he had for Aunty Jean and the gentleness they showed for each other. I was on a motorcycle trip on Friday. I woke up in my hotel (on the Nevada side of the Hoover Dam) at 2:36 am pacific time after a dream. I distinctly remember sitting up in bed saying "Uncle Clary died" then looking a the clock so I could remember to call Mum and Dad in the morning (which I did). In my dream, which was very, very clear, Uncle Clary thanked Cheryl and I for "our kindness when he had injured his eye and was in the hospital". I had an overwhelming sense of peace and wellbeing. I believe he said some other things that were not clear to me when I woke up. And then I woke up hearing myself say out loud "Uncle Clary died". I have never had an experience like this prior and have not put a lot of stock in stories like this; I'm glad he passed peacefully and is now with Aunty Jean. love, David

From: Trevor D. Macedo [mailto:trevormacedo@t-online.de] Sent: Sunday, November 15, 2009 3:10 AM To: Robin & Linda Rego Subject: Clary-May his soul rest in peace Dear Robin and Linda Memories last forever. Recall short stays in SantaCruz - the trip thru the city to ESSO - on the way no small talk but just pray the Rosary. Clary's stay in Fulda(Germany) with us in the sixties-took a shower, pulled the curtain down - we realised the bath was not built for BIG guys. Carmen & Serena had a good laugh. Then to go back before you all were born. In Poona my Dad took a walk in the garden of our house with a tall handsome guy who wanted the hand of Jean D'Souza. Dad made his point and Clary had the road paved for the dating etc etc. You three are the results. God bless his soul - our prayers today (Sunday) for a place in heaven. Trevor and Marga

Dear Marina, Jai and I send you and your family our loving and heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dear Dad. The loss of a loved one and especially a parent is always a great loss but you will surely be comforted knowing that he is in a better place, in peace and resting with His Maker and interceding for you. Keep all those wonderful, special, fond memories in your heart and treasure them each time you miss him or think of him. Seeing his photo brought back a few memories for me when we would spend time at your house in Santa Cruz and your Mum and Dad would enteratin us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Marina. I am sure his memorial will be a celebration of the life of 'Clarence Francis Rego'. May his soul rest in peace. With our love, Leela, Jai, Rahul and Vivek (Melbourne, Australia).

Dear Maria & Family, Please accept the sincere expression of my condolences and the pledge of my prayers for the departed soul of your beloved father Francis Rego. I will be keeping him and the whole family in special remembrance at the table of the Lord. Sincerely yours, Fr. Dennis

Dear Maria & Family, Please accept our sincere condolences and prayers for the soul of your beloved father Clarence Rego. We met him a couple of times here in Ottawa and he was a great person to know with a good sense of humour. We will keep the whole family in our thoughts and prayers. Love and God Bless, LUCY & TONY GOVEAS AND FAMILY

Dear Maria, Ben and Kids, We are all so sorry to hear about your father and grandfather's passing - he will be so missed - and you are all in our prayers. (From far away in South America Emily sends her love across the miles.) Bing was especially fond of Clarence. He was such a wonderful man - our whole family has many wonderful memories of meals shared together with him around your dining room table. We have a great photo of him playing the harmonica at Camp IAWAH at one of the Christmas Camps our families attended there together. He was dancing around, getting right into the swing of things and mixing with all these strangers he'd just met - he fit in so well. He always seemed like a man very comfortable in his own skin and that made everyone else around him comfortable too. You are so fortunate to have had him with you for so long. May you each be blessed in a special way as you journey your grief together. One day, there will be no more tears. By your prayers, Liana,Genevieve,Jamie,Joshua,Justin and Emily

Dear Robin, Viola, Marina & families: Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the demise of our dear ol' Uncle Clary. I have the happiest memories of him during my childhood in India and when I visited him in Toronto and when he visited me in California. He was just a wonderfully jovial gentleman with an incredible sense of humor! He has had an excellent 'innings' and truly 'fought the good fight'! His life must be celebrated by us all! May his soul rest in peace. Peter D'Souza & family

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Clarence Francis Rego

Passed away on 13 NOVEMBER, 2009

Kane-Jerrett Funeral Homes

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