

Douglas “Doug” Gray, beloved husband, father, grandfather, educator, golfer, and friend, passed away peacefully on April 24, 2026, at 92, at North York General Hospital in Toronto. He is survived by his wife of 67 years, Margaret, their children Lynne (Chris), Scott (Cindy), grandchildren Cooper and Alex (Katie), and Lauren, and great-grandchild Saya. He is also survived by his sister, Vida Preece (Ken) and sister-in-law, Nancy Gray. He is predeceased by his parents, Amy and David; his brothers, Gordon, Jack, and David; and his first grandchild, Andrew.
Everyone who met Doug described him as a happy individual. Such a simple word, but one that he embodied, even after his cancer diagnosis. He was optimistic, jovial and interested, with an unending curiosity. He will be remembered for his easy smile that would brighten a room and instantly attract those around him. Doug found joy in the simple things in life, a good conversation, an ice cream cone, a walk on a beautiful day, a successful round of golf, or the blooming of a flower in spring. He marvelled at every moment in life.
Doug’s love of golf was a lifelong pursuit, and he played for 30 years at Thornhill Country Club, giving up his clubs at 91. He was an athlete throughout his life, playing football, baseball, and loved basketball the most, playing for the Canadian Amateur basketball team. He was frequently highlighted in the local papers, radio, and TV during his career, and kept many of his trophies.
He was a man of many interests and hobbies. He loved collecting and researching antiques. He loved the excitement of bidding at an auction sale and picking up a treasure. Purchasing a farm in Markdale created a new project, restoring a log farmhouse from the 1800s. He was in his element there, among the animals, the 50 acres of wonder, swimming in ponds and taking nature walks in the forest.
In his later years, he became an artist again, sitting in his solarium, often painting scenes from our farm. His creativity was the core of who he was, manifesting in many ways throughout his life.
His career was a passion for him. He was ambitious, and some might say, a fast tracker. He was an educator, an innovator, and a disrupter. A VP in his 20s. A Principal at 30. He finished his career as a Superintendent of Education. He retired at 55 and relished the time ahead for other endeavours.
Above all, Doug loved his family. He and his wife, Marg, built a life filled with laughter, resilience, hard work, and deep affection. His children, grandchildren, extended family, and many friends carry with them countless memories of his kindness, his generosity, his wisdom and his humour. His absence will be deeply felt by all who knew and loved him.
Doug would often say, “I’ve had a great life!” And we agree.
The family would like to express their thanks to the palliative care doctors and nurses who helped him through his final journey.
Visitation will be held on May 22, 2026, at Thornhill Presbyterian Church, 271 Centre Street, Thornhill, from 10:30-11:30, followed by a service at 11:30 a.m. A reception will follow immediately after at Thornhill Country Club, 7994 Yonge Street, Thornhill.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider a donation in Doug’s memory to a charity of your choice.
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