My Sweet Victor, My Darling

You'd have liked this beautiful day. 
How can it be that you are not here, on this earth and what does it matter that there are beautiful days when you can't see the beauty... and i can't hear your voice... see your smile... Tomorrow is your birthday... then mine... our wedding anniversary... the day when our kitty girls passed the rainbow bridge... all these I will have to face alone. Your voice, baby, your voice... Where you are, in peace an splendor, that'w where my home is. I'm tired here, My Binzoid Mic. Exhausted. I want to shake off the dust of this world, off off my feet and be there, see your smile, feel your warmth and feel loved again. There's no love without you. Will never be. I'll be with you, baby mic, you'll smile at me, "Hey Moleface" and we'll be together again. Your smile, your words, your guidance... 
I love you
I love you
I love you
... need you...
YOUR ANTONIA

Dear Mrs Bonca, Flora, Stan and Zola. With sadness, my Mom called me today, to let me know of Victor's death.  I was very sorry to hear of his passing and remember his love of music and ability to put up with teenage girls at the house, through many years of friendship with Flora.  He was a gifted soul. Please know that my thoughts are with all of you and I will always remember Victor with love and compassion. Peace, peace. Love Alyson Martin

My Love, My Victor,
Today I kneel gravely for Your Service, my love.
Walk lightly and proudly, open the gates and enter, with that gentle and happy smile you always gave me when you got in after a hard day's work.
Heaven will be grateful and better for your loving smile.
Take your blissful place in the Great Logos, in the Divine Christ.
Time will pass on here, down on Earth, but you won't feel it.
And I won't feel it when I join you.
I love you.
Antonia

You are part of our family love, Victor, and will stay in our hearts always. You cared and helped, you loved the Spirit whom you will join today. Rest in Peace. 
All our thoughts and prayers go to Maria, Flora, Zola, Stanley and the family.

Our beloved family, aunt Maria, Flora, Zola, Stanley, so sad, so sudden news..'

Being so far away, in Greece, it is really hard to be with you at this difficult moment. Words seem poor to describe our grief and sorrow for the loss of our beloved cousin Victor. Still, our thoughts, our heart, our memories  will be with you all. 
We love you with all our heart.

Dear Mary, Flora, Zola and Stan and family.  We're so shocked and saddened to hear of Victor's passing.  We've known Victor since 1980 when we became your next door neighbour on Sedgemount Dr in Scarborough.  Although we hadn't spoke with Victor since his father's passing, we knew him to be so kind and compassionate; a really nice guy.  He made the world a better place.
Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss.
Love Tom, Janice & family

I knew Victor for the last six years at All Saints. He was an exceptional and highly intelligent person with a wonderfully peaceful spirit. He graced our gatherings with his music and his conversation. I shall miss him terribly, but I know he is now with God and playing music with the angels. 
(Rev) Joanna Manning

I have known Victor for about 5 years. We met at All Saints Community Church where we both had opportunity to do music together, he on the piano and I on guitar. Despite his declining health he would come to All Saints most Thursdays where he'd lead us in singing the Beatles' "Let it be". Whenever the singing would stop and the conversation ensue, Victor's observations would reflect a depth of wisdom and insight, the product of a tender heart and much personal struggle. Will truly miss him as will the people at All Saints Community Centre!

Dear Flora, Zola, Mary and the rest of the Bonca family, 
My memory of Vic is one of a gentle and kind soul. Literally every time I saw him Vic would focus the conversation on what he remembered was important to me.  We shared a love for music and the teachings of Dr. Hawkins and I always appreciated his intellect and his spiritual seeking. The seeking is over and I trust he has found his peace and realized the Truth. 
I extend my heartfelt condolences for the material loss of a brother, son, uncle.
Love, Jane V

Dearest Flora, Alisa, Zola, Mary and family, 
Although I did not meet Victor in person, I feel I knew him through Flora, who spoke of him often and held him in the highest regard.  
Holding you in my heart as you grieve the loss of this treasured family member.
Lisa Borkovich

Zola and family,
Our sincerest heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the passing of your brother.  You are all in our thoughts and prayers.  Love, Joy Bertram and Todd Eyolfson.

My Love, My Husband, My Angel
You kept me alive, you encouraged and helped me for more than 30 years. The world is empty without your kindness, without your voice. You are pure goodness and I want to be where you are. You took away, with you, all love and all life. No one will call me now, no one to share living with, no way to live. I love you I love you I love you. Where are you now?... 
My Angel. 
My "Binz" 
I trusted you and am so proud of you, your life, our life together.
I wish we were together again soon, now, my darling...
I love you, I love you, I love you -- 
I love you, I love you, I love you
I love you
You know, I found the beautiful three candles with your name on the web, a few minutes ago. It's 12:31 am here and where you, my babishor, where you are, it's 5:30 in the afternoon. There's nobody here now, I called nobody, I'm alone but will always be with you, My ANGEL. You gave meaning to my life and there's nothing now, here. It's all with you. With all the flowers you brought me, with all the songs you sang just for me, with the way you began the sentences, in some discussion, with, "My wife says that..." And the way you told the dentist "Thank you for giving her back her beautiful smile," 
I cried these past three days a lot -- but I found out only now that you are gone... I hope that you are already together with our little Pimsey and with Sissi. We'll be together, all of us. 
I love you, I love you, I love you
 I love you   I love you    I love you

OBITUARY

Victor Bonca

28 August, 1957 – 11 July, 2017

Jerrett Funeral Homes - St. Clair Chapel

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