Lau Sir,
今朝突然諗起你，原來4年前嘅今日離開我哋。希望你喺天上保佑你家人&朋友，照亮佢哋。記得每一次見面我都同你講廣東話，所以今次想用廣東話留message俾你。
Miss you,
Annie Sze

Time has not dulled the shine from those happy memories of yesteryear.   In my mind, you will always be young and strong.  Rest easy, my friend.

I’m deeply saddened to hear about your passing. You are such a inspiring friend. Rest In Peace  my friend and till we meet again. 

Always awesome and amazing Ben.. Rest In Peace .. 

Until that day. Rest easy. Miss and love you.  

Christiana, family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know Ben well, I remember him as being kind and funny. My deepest condolences to all of you.

Dear Ben, no matter how much time had passed we could always pick up where we left off. You could find a silver lining in any situation with a genuinely positive outlook. You were my wingman at work functions and I still expect to hear your laugh when I get to the office. The last time we spoke you had a recommendation for cheesecake because Christiana loved the one you surprised her with. I can’t process this yet but you’ll always be in my heart and in my memories. 

Dear Christiana, Uncle Francis, & Aunty Cindy, 
Our hearts ache for your family during this difficult time. Ben was taken from us far too soon. I’ll always remember Ben as a kind and caring man with strength and perseverance. May he Rest In Peace!
Love,
 Felix & Alicia 

Dear Ben,

I will forever cherish our days during our university years. Those years were filled with so much happiness, laughter, drunken moments, late nights studying and playing resident evil, playing big 2 at boba cafes, karaoke at Melody Shake, wings Weds and all those crazy good times partying at Big Bamboo, Lulu Island and Zodiac. We even had a one-dollar-a-day booze fund!! My basement was like your second home. You, Jeff and I were the Three Musketeers, so close like a family and always there for each other.  Ben, I feel so sad and am still in disbelief that you are gone. You have gone through so much and instead of complaining or blaming you took on challenges so positively and always managed to make us laugh with your funny jokes despite everything you had to face. Thank you for being a part of my life journey. It was my honor to have met you and become great friends with you. Rest In Peace Ben. You will forever be missed. 

With love, QQ

I worked with  Ben on the PIMS application  for  BC Hydro for since  2008.  We  implemented many successful projects. I am still in shock.   I can't believe my best  work associate is gone.  Ben was smart and  hard working and  we bounced  IT ideas off each other and  troubleshooted many  issues.   As well we dealt with the politics of work through  outsourcing and related  challenges. 

Every day I  still read  emails re stuff we were working on.

My sincerest condolences to his wife and  daughter and parents.  

Way too young!  This is not fair after the health  issues he suffered over the years. 

I will miss Ben  greatly and he will not be forgotten! 



Dear Ben, my best memory of you was how happy you made my cousin look on your wedding day. I wish I had the privilege of getting to know you better. Rest in peace ❤️

We so appreciated Ben's gentle and kind presence at our cousins' gatherings over the years. He will be dearly missed. 

Condolences to Ben's family and friends.  I am saddened to hear of his passing.  It was great getting to know him throughout my high school and university days.  He will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Uncle Benjamin was a gentle soul. I was gutted to hear of his passing. Rest in peace, Uncle Benjamin.

I don't have any words to describe the sadness I have for Ben's passing.  He has been a friend since childhood.  Someone that really got along with everyone and could always make those around him laugh.   You will be missed.  Rest in peace.

OBITUARY

Benjamin Chi Heng Lau

21 September, 1977 – 4 January, 2022

Glenhaven Memorial Chapel

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