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A MESSAGE FROM THE FAMILY
In lieu of flowers Take someone you love out for a bite to eat - Mom loved dimsum, Each meal, a celebration... In lieu of flowers, speak to a stranger. Mom could sit beside anyone And, by the end, Know their story as if it were her own. Take a walk — a slow one. Pause for the flowers, For the turning leaves, For the soft beauty hiding in plain sight. Mom walked like that, Even with her walker — stopping to admire, To gather, to press leaves into pages. Instead of flowers, invite someone over. Set the table, share a meal. Mom’s home was open to all, Her kitchen, always warm. Let go of old grudges. Make peace if you can. Mom’s temper was quick, But her forgiveness was quicker still — Ready to say sorry, Ready to begin again. Put on a song — her favorite (Shanghai Beach!) Sing it loud. Dance without shame. She loved a good karaoke night, Loved the joy in music shared. If you see a baby, Coo, smile, offer a cuddle. Mom’s heart always melted At the sight of tiny hands and sleepy eyes. Find a fall leaf — Crimson or gold — And slip it between the pages of a book. Mom did that, Marking time with nature’s quiet beauty. Give something back. Volunteer. Mom believed in showing up, In doing what you can with what you have. And if you can, Start something new — Or pick up where you left off She taught herself to knit Just by looking at a sweater or a photo Every stitch, an act of wonder. So in lieu of flowers, Live like she did: Fully, generously, With open arms and an open heart.
OBITUARY

Yuen Yin Lam

23 August, 1933 – 3 October, 2025
IN THE CARE OF

Hamilton Harron Funeral Home

Yuen Yin "Ida" Lam, age 92, passed away peacefully at home on October 3, 2025, in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada surrounded by her loved ones.

Born on August 23, 1933, in Zhongshan, China, Ida’s life was marked by warmth and quiet strength and courage. This was exemplified when she moved to Canada in 1973 with her young family despite not knowing the language in order to give them a better place to grow up in. Her smile and deep affection for children left a lasting impression on those around her. She brought joy wherever she went and shared it generously with others.

Ida is lovingly remembered by her husband, Sam; her children, Eric and Joyce; and her grandchildren, Gabriel, Grace, Sabine, Phoebe, Michael, and Evan. Her presence at family gatherings was a source of comfort and happiness that will be deeply missed.

Please see the message from family at the top of the page.

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