Vernon Funeral Home

3007 28Th Street, Vernon, BC


Nicola Alexandra Friesen

5 April , 194412 May , 2019

Nicola Alexandra Friesen (nee James) April 5 1944 - May 12 2019

Nicola was born in the closing weeks of World War II. She grew up in Cookham Dean, Berkshire, England. She came to Canada to meet her uncle: the only surviving brother of her father, an RAF pilot who had been killed before her birth. She met handsome JN Friesen, a teacher, while fruit-picking in the Okanagan that summer. They were married 6 months later - at Christmas - 1967.

Richmond BC was where they raised their family and lived for many years. She worked as a Laboratory Technologist at Richmond General Hospital, where she made many good friends. Mum was an avid gardener, and took on many crafts, unafraid to tackle many projects. She was a creative and prolific knitter, and a legacy of "Granny-knit" sweaters survives her. She was a dog lover...there were dachshunds in the early years, and greyhounds in the later ones. She and JN made legendary trips: they travelled many miles in their RV. A favourite spot was Borrego Springs, California, where they made many friends. Highlight travels were a 2-year relocation to Germany in the 1970’s, England to visit family, walking the Camino de Santiago, and a river cruise on the Danube to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. A long-held dream to move back to the Okanagan was realised in 2011 when they relocated to Vernon.

Her grandkids were very special to her - she described holding those babies as a highlight of her life. She will be remembered as a vivacious, warm-hearted, genuine, and positive person. And a bit of a hot-tempered Aries. She is survived by husband JN, her sister Joanna, her kids Tammy (Dave) and Adrian (Tracy), and her grandchildren Stephanie, Brodie, Erin, Josh, and Jessica. Mum - you're gone too soon. We love you.


20 July

Celebration of Life

2:00 pm

All Saints Anglican Church

Vernon, BC


Nicola Alexandra Friesen

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Jill Crooks

16 June 2019

My lovely kind and compassionate cousin, we kept in touch all these years despite living thousands of miles away . Face timing and letter writing only meeting face to face on a few occasions since our childhood when we saw each other more often. I will always be so grateful for Nicola's help during my eldest daughters illness and death.
My thoughts go to all her family and I will be thinking of you often with all my love.

Valerie Geddes

13 June 2019

Nicola was a wonderful friend and neighbour. I miss our lengthy chats that we used to have in person while we were neighbours and after on the phone when we each moved away. She was a brave and cheerful person and the world is a better place for her having been in it. Our prayers are with the family at this time. Rest in peace Nicky
Bob and Val

Joanna Adams

9 June 2019

My darling, most precious Sister Nicola, has slipped away to a Spiritual Sphere & another bright Star has appeared in the heavens. Her Light shines on, it will never dim or fade, it is kept bright by the Love we feel & the memories we made. . . Your Light, my Sister, shall remain forever in our hearts. Your Light shall always be our strength & through your Light we shall Love & carry on. . . Never could there have been a more loving, more caring, supportive & Wise one. Always showing compassion & strength of character. Sister, Auntie to my children Oliver & Emily & Niece to our Uncle David. A beloved Wife, Mother & Grandmother. We all adore you my beautiful, Ohhhh so brave Sister. Eternal love, your Sis, Joanna xxx
" We'll meet again some sunny day " . . .