Shaun Andrew Mackenzie

A memorial service for Shaun was held on Thursday, June 13, 2024 at 1:00 PM at Pleasant Valley Funeral Home, 4303 Pleasant Valley Road, Vernon, British Columbia V1T4M4.

In lieu of flowers, we ask that you please send donations to https://www.canucksautism.ca

We experienced some difficulty with the livestreaming for Shaun's service. Please find the words spoken:

Opening Remarks

Good afternoon, everyone. Thank you all for being here today to honour and remember Shaun Mackenzie. We gather not only to grieve the loss of a remarkable man but also to celebrate his life, to share our memories, and to support one another. Shaun was a loving husband, father, son, brother, and friend, and he touched the lives of many.

Although I only had the privilege of meeting Shaun once, when he, Michelle, and I spent a memorable morning skiing at Silverstar, he left a lasting impression on me. In that short time, it was clear that he was a caring and loving person, thoughtful and kind to everyone around him. His warmth and generosity were palpable, and I had hoped we could share some bike rides together this summer. His spirit truly touched my heart, and I am grateful for the brief but meaningful connection we made.

Today, we are honoured to have dear friends of Shaun and Michelle’s join us in celebrating Shaun's life, some have travelled from the US and all the way from the UK. Shaun's ability to make meaningful connections and leave lasting impacts on the lives of those around him is evidenced by the way people have shown up and surrounded Shaun’s family in love, and in the many messages expressing just how Shaun has touched so many lives.

Eulogy

Shaun Mackenzie was born on August 15th to Gordon and Kathleen Mackenzie in Aldershot, Hampshire, UK. Growing up in a military family, he spent most of his childhood near RAF Odiham. Shaun shared his childhood with his sister Kerry, who married Paul and whose son Josh was a beloved nephew to Shaun.

Shaun’s early years were filled with laughter and adventure. His mum remembers how he was a terrible sleeper, even keeping the nurses entertained during a sleep study by playing cricket with them all night. Shaun loved to tell stories about his childhood, including how he would pretend to fall asleep on the Argos catalogue, pointing to the toys he wished for.

Shaun often shared tales of his school days, humorously complaining about walking 45 minutes to school: no yellow school bus for him. He treasured his first car, a Vauxhaull Nova, a gift from his parents, and it wasn't long before he had upgraded the sound system, installing a massive speaker in the trunk.

His sister Kerry has many fond memories with Shaun including a cherished memory of Shaun bringing a Liverpool bear to the hospital when his nephew Josh was born, only to find a Chelsea bear already there from his dad. Despite their different football loyalties, they remained a united family who loved to gather at Nanni and Bubba's house when they still lived in Beverley.

His childhood friend Sonia, who is with us here today, remembers Shaun as a protective and supportive friend who eventually became like family. She recalls how he was often the designated driver for some of their group and while some friends went screeching off to the next pub, Shaun would make sure he stuck to the speed limit, music blaring as he went. The local cops were just itching to give him a speeding ticket and they were successful once when they caught him doing 32 miles per hour in a 30 zone.

Michelle really struggled to pick a favourite memory other than seeing Shaun in his element as a dad but she said she could sum up how kind he was based on a pizza she made from the baby led weaning book. It was terrible, so much so that after Shaun had made a valiant attempt at eating it, he turned to her and ever so gently asked: “do you mind if I just eat the toppings”.

Shaun was unassuming, gentle, kind, incredibly funny, generous, loving, humble, hardworking, meticulous in researching and planning, a big teddy bear, steady, and loyal. He was the kind of person who made everyone around him feel safe and cherished.

Michelle and Shaun met 15 years ago on Match.com, and from their very first date at London Zoo, Michelle knew he was a “keeper”, particularly impressed by his preparedness with sunscreen essential for a peely wally Scots lass. Shaun was the steady, reliable partner to Michelle's more spontaneous nature.

Throughout their years together, he was her rock through hard times, her partner in parenting, and her biggest cheerleader as she embarked on her business ventures.

Shaun's unwavering support extended to sharing maternity leave and being a hands-on dad, taking equal responsibility in raising their boys. He was certainly the more organized one.

Michelle fondly recalls many of their travels and adventures across the globe and how he spearheaded their move over to BC, Canada to be closer to the ski hills, have shorter winters and avoid the mozzies.

Shaun’s attention to detail and caring forethought was evident in their day to day lives and many acts of service, big and small. Whether he was warming the car up, or the kids' duvets before bed, he did it all for the love of his family. He was incredibly funny, a great husband, an amazing dad, and a TRULY equal partner who brought balance and joy to their lives.

Two years ago, the Mackenzie family moved to a small cul de sac in Coldstream, where they quickly became a regular part of the community. Shaun and Michelle's presence brought more energy to the street, with their two busy boys fitting right into the local group of children. Shaun was a friendly, hardworking man who transformed their house into a home with his constant projects. His sudden passing has deeply shaken the community.

Shaun was dedicated to his family, and his joy was evident when his parents moved to Canada to be closer to their grandsons. Always active, he shared his love for outdoor activities like biking, skiing, and snowboarding with his boys. The neighbourhood admired Shaun's energy and dedication to his fitness routine, even feeling somewhat lazy as he saddled up at 6am to head out on a bike ride. It is remarkable but crushing to know that his next ride on the Peloton would have been his 600th ride. His legacy of kindness, patience, and engagement with his family has left a lasting impression on all who knew him.

Shaun’s favourite days involved outdoor activities like cycling and skiing, followed by family time and good food.

Shaun’s favourite colour was red, a nod to his beloved Liverpool FC. He enjoyed country music, though he also had a fondness for RnB and garage music from his younger days. He was rarely seen without a baseball cap, often wearing shorts year-round and forever ready with a piece of kitchen roll in his pocket.

Shaun’s impact on his family’s life was immeasurable. He was a rock for his wife, especially during the difficult time following her brother’s passing. They had a relationship built on trust, love, and endless laughter. Even in moments of difficulty, a simple touch on the shoulder or hug from Shaun could bring comfort and joy.

Logan and Brody, I want you to know that your dad is always with you, even though he’s not in his earthly body anymore. His love and energy surround you every day, like a warm hug that you can feel in your heart just as you feel the sun on your face. Your dad is now in heaven, with your Uncle Scott and your dog, Daisy. They are all together, watching over you, cheering you on, and loving you from above. Whenever you miss him, remember that he is right there with you in spirit, guiding you and protecting you always.

To honour Shaun’s memory, his family plans to complete his 600th Peloton ride together later on in the year. His legacy will live on in the many ways his family carries him in their hearts and stories.

Personal Tributes

We have had many tributes from his friends all over the world and I’d like to share a few of those with you now…

From Phil Smith (Dubai)

Michelle asked me for a few lines today, difficult with so many memories and good times. One I’ll always remember and I don’t know why, just one of those times but it summed Shaun up...

Shaun and myself were always the sensible ones when it came to ‘nights out’, Shaun would almost always be driving and be looking out for everyone and I would stay close by, I felt safe with ...we" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Shaun...we often cried with laugher and enjoyed good music, what more did we need. This one particular night I had a house party, it was a rare occasion where Shaun wasn’t driving. The night was getting on and Shaun was no where to be seen, finally I found him outside the front door propped up against the wall looking very pale...this was a rare sight (which is probably why I remember it so vividly)...I said “mate, you alright”, he replied, in a tone that matched the colour of his face, “yes mate, I’m just holding the house up, don’t want it falling over”...we obviously then both cracked up laughing but the point is that no matter what state Shaun was in, his nature was to look out for others, protect. Even if that meant trying to stop the house from falling over

But that was Shaun, ‘driving or not driving’, he was always looking out for others...a rare quality and one I have no doubt he will have instilled in his boys!

Shaun was a top bloke, actually he defined ‘top bloke’ and everyone says the same! And although we ended up living on opposite sides of the planet, I, along with many, many others, will miss him dearly.

One last thing, I will without doubt come and visit you mate...I’ll do you a deal, if Liverpool have won the prem again by that time (unlikely ) I’ll bring you the latest

shirt, if not I’ll be wearing (just below a very smug smile) an Arsenal shirt with your name on the back!

Thinking of you all, love to all.

From Ken Bartlett (Ontario)

Shaun and I first met through work. We worked in tech and while that certainly was a mutual interest, we bonded over the polar opposite, our appreciation of the outdoors. We camped, fished, played many rounds of golf, both moved to country settings outside of Ottawa. Shaun was a big guy, overly friendly and so likable that I thought it was fitting to give him a nickname. Not having many Brits as close acquaintances and searching for something fitting, I opted to call Shaun, Kipper or Kip, from the British children's book series, 'Kipper the Dog'. I'm grateful for all the time with Shaun, and the opportunity to see Shaun start a family with Michelle and welcome two bright boys into this world.

Something all parents have said to their children at one point is 'Life isn't fair'. The word fair is closely tied to honest, trustworthy, proper and so on. Shaun was certainly honest, trustworthy and a proper good friend. But life was not fair to him, you went too soon Kip.

Slide Show

As we gather to honour and remember Shaun Mackenzie, Michelle has prepared a special slideshow to celebrate his life. These photos capture the essence of who Shaun was—his infectious smile, his adventurous spirit, and the deep love he had for his family and friends. As we watch these moments unfold, let us remember the joy he brought into our lives and the cherished memories we hold dear. Each image is a testament to a life well-lived, filled with love, laughter, and countless unforgettable moments. Please join me in reflecting on these beautiful memories of Shaun with his family.

[Slide show presentation]

Closing remarks

As we remember Shaun today, we hold onto the memories and the lessons he taught us. His love, his dedication, and his unwavering support for his family and friends will forever be a guiding light in our hearts. Thank you, Shaun, for being the amazing husband, father, friend, and neighbour that you were. You will be deeply missed, but your spirit will live on in all of us.

Following the service, we invite you to join us for a gathering to share more stories, memories, and to celebrate Shaun's life together. This will be a time for comfort, connection, and to honour Shaun's legacy in a warm and supportive environment. Please join us through the doors on the left for refreshments and the opportunity to continue sharing in the love and remembrance of Shaun. For those not with us in person today, Shaun’s drinks of choice were a cuppa tea, or occasionally a magners cider. Please do raise a glass to him when you’re able.

Music

We will now listen to “You’ll Never Walk Alone,” a special song as it is the anthem of Liverpool FC and was played on the organ as Shaun and Michelle left the church on their wedding day. As you listen to the words and remember Shaun, I hope you feel him with you and remember you are never walking through this life alone.

Music to be Played

• "Humble and Kind" during slideshow

• "You’ll Never Walk Alone" Lana Del Ray