Eileen Heffernan

Eileen’s gift was her profound attention; to know her was to be embraced by the steady, unwavering light of her focus. She shared this love and guidance with generations of elementary school children in her nearly 40 years of teaching. To watch her with children was to understand her true calling: she offered patience, a firm sense of purpose, and the gentle and sturdy encouragement that every child needs.

Eileen was blessed to grow up surrounded by a large lively family of siblings, cousins, nieces, and nephews, many of whom passed through the halls of St. Cecilia’s High School in Englewood. She kept her family close to her heart, cherishing the many holidays spent with them, whether expertly hiding Easter eggs, stirring up laughter in the kitchen with her loved ones at Thanksgiving, or singing her heart out at Christmas.

Her greatest pride and love was for her family, both near and far. She was a devoted wife to John for nearly 56 years, her first and abiding love, high school sweetheart, dearest friend and constant companion. She loved him completely, and he remained her devoted caretaker through the joys and challenges of her later years.

She was the loving mother of her two children, Shannon and Brennan, to whom she gave the full measure of her devotion. They are blessed to carry her light forward. Eileen was also a dedicated grandmother to Connor and Niamh, who loved her with the full force of youth.

Eileen was our great guide and confidant, our friend and mother. We will miss her deeply but remain warmed by the light of her memory.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association at www.alz.org.

A family receiving guests will be held at Becker Funeral Home, located at 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood, NJ, 07675, on November 5, 2025, from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America, 225 N Michigan Avenue, Floor 17, Chicago, Illinois, 60601. More information can be found at www.alz.org.