We just had our 40th high school reunion. I'm so sorry to hear about Carol's untimely passing.  We grew up together in Amherst. 

Dearest Carol—my grandmother called you a little angel. I just found out you have left us. I am overwhelmed with grief. I loved you and your family so much. I lived across the street. You did not have a mean bone in your body—such a kind soul. I will remember you forever.
Much love, 
Karen Cleary Pollack

My thoughts and prayers are with you Dave and kids. I am so sorry for your loss. .I am honored to have known carol/your mom..I pray you find peace

Mom, We miss you more and more as the days go on. I miss your contagious smile, your embracing hugs, your comforting kisses, your beautiful personality, your laugh, your joy for life. I don't know how we will go on without you. It just seems impossible. May you be free of that horrible disease. Please reserve a spot for me in heaven, right in your arms. Till we meet again. I will love you forever and always.Love you eldest daughter, Jessica.

Earth has one gentle soul less, And      Heaven one angel more. Their life a beautiful memory,Their absence a silent greif. In God's care you rest above, In our hearts you rest with love. I'm very sorry Uncle Dave, Justin, Jessica, Chelsea, and Courney, Aunt Carol will truly be missed And tenderly treasure the pass with memories that will always last.  Love Amy, Louie, Emily, Matt and Leah Fox

To the bangert family,  we are very sorry for your loss.  Aunt Carol was a wonderful aunt.  You are all in our thoughts.  
The Barone family

To one of my beautiful younger sisters, Carol we will miss you more than words can say. I don't know why you had to leave at such a young age but we know God now has another "Littlest Angel". We love you &know you will always be in our hearts!

To our sweet little sister. Beautiful both inside and out.
You will forever be in our hearts. Love you always.

Love
Mike and Arlene

Our deepest sympathy for the loss of Carol. She was a beautiful soul and will be greatly missed. Sending our love, prayers and hugs to you.

I will miss your Beautiful Smile walking threw the door at the Pink House.  You are one of the strongest women I know.  I will miss our talks, laughs and hugs.  Your wonderful husband and children are in our prayers daily.  
The Caruso Family

Dear Barb,  I am so sorry to hear that your daughter was so ill.  It is such a loss to you. Thinking of you; please accept my condolences.   
      Marcy Brett

David, Jessica, Justin, Chelsea & Courtney,

We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.  

The Brown Family - East Amherst, NY

To the entire Beilman family,
Our sincere condolences and sympathy.  May all the great memories you shared with Carol through the years keep her  spirit close to you always.
Love Jen and Jay Scero

So sorry about this sad, sad news. We send our sympathy and hope the support of your families and friends help all of you.
                                                          The McClain Family

David, Jess, Justin, Courtney and Chelsea. Please know there are many loving thoughts and prayers with all of you at this time and always. Carol will be missed by many. Such a beautiful lady. Please take comfort in knowing family and friends are with you. Love, Aunt Karen, Justine, Nadine & Tom, Christina & Andrew.

To my big sis Carol.We were only 1 year apart.I was so much smaller,slower than you due to my disability.You looked out for me growing up.You were always kissing me,so sweet.I may not understand where you slipped off to in the future.I only know,I love you,will miss you so.I loved your home baked cookies.Love,your little brother.The smallest sibling,with the biggest heart.The hole I have in my heart feels bigger for you,Mom,Dad.Love,JimBob

Our prayers and our deepest sympathy to all the family and to her friends as well....  Carol was a lovely person to know--always pleasant and very friendly.  I got to know her through the Religious Education programs at St. Pius X Church.  May she rest in peace, and may God bless her family as she continues to love them and care for them while in Heaven with Jesus.

TO MY BIG SIS CAROL.IF I COULD TALK,OR WRITE,I WOULD THANK YOU.WE WERE ONLY 1 YEAR APART.YOU WERE ALWAYS HELPING ME DUE TO MY DISABILITY.I WAS SO MUCH SMALLER THAN YOU.GROWING UP,YOU LOOKED OUT FOR ME.YOU ALWAYS KISSED ME.THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A SWEET SIS.ALSO,THANKS FOR THE GREAT COOKIES YOU BAKED.GIVE MOM,DAD A KISS FOR ME.I WILL MISS YOU.iI MAY NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU.ALL I KNOW IS THAT I LOVE YOU,WILL MISS YOU.SEE YOU IN THE STARS,SUNLIGHT,CLOUDS.YOUR LITTLE BROTHER JIM BOB.

I WILL FOREVER MISS,LOVE MY BEAUTIFUL LOVING SISTER.SHE WAS SO SWEET,CARING.SHE HAD SO MANY TALENTS.OUR FAMILY WAS BLESSED TO HAVE YOU AS,OUR LITTLE SISTER.UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.LOVE YOU,PATTY

David, Justin, Courtney, Jessica and Chelsea. We are so so very sorry for your loss. I know there isn't anything I can say to ease your pain, just know that we are thinking about you guys. Wish we could be there with yall. Love  and Miss yall. Your Cousin Kim., Aunt Joyce and Family.

Arlene, Kathy, Tom, Kenny, Maureen, Patty, Sherri and Jimmy: although we all went our ways I can still remember the day you arrived on Grover Cleveland..I saw that little Blondie in the back of that wagon. Carol was the sweetest then and I can't find the words...but know that God hears your prayers and sees your tears....He will comfort you. God bless your family..

The loss of such a wonderful mother at any age is devastating.  My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.  Chelsea and Jessica are amazing young women, much of which can be attributed to their lovely mother.

May God take you under His love during this moment.
Gregory Stringfield, American Portfolios
Yorktown, VA

My deepest sympathies to Dave and all the Bangert family.  My thoughts are with all of you.

Arlene, Kathy, Tommy, Maureen, Ken, Patty, Sherrie & Jimmy,

There are no words I can use to express the deep sadness of your loss of a wonderful sister. You are all in my prayers tonight

Your cousin Rich

My heart goes out to your family! I cannot begin to imagine the tremendous loss of Carol, your wonderful mom, sister, wife, aunt & friend. My thoughts are with you all.

Heaven has welcomed a beautiful angel. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. Carol was and always will be a wonderful soul that inspired all of us to be a better person. It was a great honor to have known her. God bless your family and try and find warmth from each other to help you get through this very difficult time. Remember Carol with smiles and laughter... 
Sherri DiBlasi

We will always have such fond memories of Carol. The one fact that will define Carol in eternity is her love for her children. If you looked up the term "Best Mother", Carol's name and picture would be in the dictionary. Carol, may you rest in peace; and, may you look over your beautiful children from up above. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

There are really no words in the face of such a tremendous loss. Carol was one of the kindest people I ever met. She was a wonderful mother, sister, daughter and cousin - always thinking of others before herself. When I picture her, she is always smiling. I will miss her and remember her with love. My heart goes out to her family. My prayers are with you at this terribly sad time.

My deepest sympathies to the family she was so beautiful and will never be forgotten.
Lisa Vacanti (frangos) Robert Vacanti

Condolences to the Bangert Family on your loss. May you find comfort knowing that God hears your prayers during this difficult time and is there to comfort you (2 Kings 20:5 - "l have heard your prayer.  I have seen your tears. Here I am healing you."). - AR

~ With heart-felt sympathy & sadness
 . . . gale christine waters

I remember her as a baby and growing up into a such beautiful person. Our prayers are with you and your family.

My deepest sympathy go out to the (Beilman) Bangert family and close friends in the loss of your dear beloved one. May the hope found in Gods' word out weigh the grief you feel. (1 Thessalonians 4:13,14)

Arlene, Kathy, Tommy, Maureen, Kenny, Patty, Sherrie & Jimmy, 
Words can not express the sadness I feel after hearing the news about Carol. It has been many years since we were all on Grover Cleveland but the day the Beilman clan moved in will never be forgotten. What wonderful memories we will always have and cherish. My prayers and thoughts are with each of you. I ask our Lord to give you strength and peace at this difficult time. I pray for her husband and children. With love and prayers, Beverly A. Marrs (Aloisio)

I'm so sorry to hear of Mrs. Bangert's passing. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.

Carol was a beautiful person inside and out. Always kind and always happy. God bless her beautiful family.

My deepest sympathy may God be with you David And Family

Sally Nowe

Truly a tragity in Carols passing we hope the Lord helps the family through this hard time. May God bless the entire family.

David, We are so sorry to hear of Carol's passing. She is such a beautiful lady, you and your children are in our prayers. May God Bless you at this difficult time.
Nancy and John

So sorry to learn of Carol's passing. May God surround your family with his rich and sustaining love and peace at this difficult time. Our prayers of support go out to all of you.

My thoughts and prayers to all of you at such a sad and difficult time. I still have a Christmas ornament that Carol gave me when we were kids. This year I will hang it on my tree and say a prayer to Her as she looks down on all of us and especially her beautiful family.. God bless you and hold you tight in the days ahead...Love Kim Ellmann (Klemp)

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Carol A. Bangert

28 January, 1964 – 20 November, 2015

Perna, Dengler, Roberts Funeral Home

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