Robert Thomas Brandt

The world lost one of the good guys on December 10, 2020.

Bob Brandt was born in Erie, PA, on May 4, 1935 to Chuck and Gladys Brandt. He attended Pennsylvania State University, where he met his soulmate and his life's love, Pat. After graduation, Bob attended Officer Candidate School and became an Ensign in the United States Navy. He spent his career aboard Diesel Submarines (no small feat for a 6’ 2” man), as well on Sub Tenders, and eventually to command the Guided Missile School at Dam Neck. He retired as a Captain after 28 years of service to the country. The Navy took the Brandt family to Hawaii, Guam, San Diego, CA; Charleston, SC; Virginia Beach, VA; Newport, RI; and Groton, CT.

And while he was always proud of his duty to his country, which he passed to his family, that service is indeed equal to his other great accomplishment; being a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and role model. You see, Bob and Pat shared one of those rare love stories that just don’t come around every day. They were best friends, soul mates, and lovers. They shared their love with their two children, Eric and Lynn, and set the example for a loving and supportive marriage and relationship.

When Eric married Cristina and Lynn married Terry, the two couples benefited from Bob and Pat’s marriage as a role model. Eric and Cristina’s children, Samantha and Hayden, and Lynn and Terry’s children, Kate and Rob, have now grown up in a home that was influenced by the example set by Bob and Pat. And so, if you were to ask me, I would have to tell you that Bob’s greatest accomplishment was that he and Pat set into motion a guideline, or as he would call it, ’a gauge’, for what it takes for a happy, respectful, and fulfilled marriage and family.

Bob was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. He loved a good joke, made the world’s best margaritas, enjoyed Penn State football, tennis, and golf. Bob and Pat loved to travel, especially with their Navy friends. He loved his dogs and was surely met at the Pearly Gates by several wagging tales.

Alzheimer’s slowly took Bob from his family and his death this week released him from this dreadful disease. But, while the disease may have taken his life, it never could tarnish the luster of life truly well lived.

Every day of his life, our dad was an example of how men of great character live their life. His greatest legacy is that his grandchildren and their children benefited him as a role model, and for that, he left this world a better place.

We don’t have words to express our gratitude to the loving staff at Bradley Creek Health Center, Carolina Bay, and Hospice who cared for our dad and mom with respect, dignity, and love during this challenging journey.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Alzheimer Association (ALZ.org) or to Lower Cape Fear LifeCare.