OBITUARY
Norbert Karl Becker
9 October, 1944 – 24 March, 2021
Born in Ripin, Germany and immigrated to Canada in Dec. 1951 with his parents Lucie (nee Wolff) and Karl. Norm never forgot how his life started out. He always liked to have lots of packages to open at Christmas time, perhaps because his first Christmas present in Canada was a plastic cup. He learned English quickly, mostly in self-defense. Norm attended Patterson High School, followed by the University of Windsor, graduating with the Engineering Class of 1967 and earning his Ph.D. in 1970. He almost failed his first year because he was very busy learning to play Bridge, meeting girls, and tasting the fine Canadian beer.
His life changed when he met Mary Ellen (nee Jurgeleit) from Detroit and within 2 weeks of meeting, they knew their future was a life together. They married in May 1967 and were truly blessed with daughter Laura in 1973 and son Kurt in 1974. Norm loved them dearly and the arrival of his granddaughter Elsa in 2005 gave him one more blessing to love.
Norm is survived by his beloved wife Mary Ellen, sister-in-law Ericka Weisberg (Steve), daughter Laura (Shawn), son Kurt, granddaughter Elsa, cousin Marga (nee Somschor) Pattison & husband Clif, and their son Christopher (Mary), boys Owen & Eric. Also, by longtime family friend Elfriede Kreschner Andries.
Norm loved being an Engineer. His hobby was Engineering, his interest was Engineering, his life was Engineering. Sometimes his wife reminded him that he had a wife and 2 children. Norm was certified to practice in Ontario, Manitoba, Newfoundland, Alberta and Saskatchewan. He worked throughout Canada as well as projects in Egypt, Nigeria, Yemen, Peru and China.
He was Deputy Manager, MM Dillon Ltd.; Vice President Operations, Collavino Inc.; Founder of Becker Engineering Group; and President of N.K. Becker Inc. Norm was honored with numerous awards from his Profession, his University, his Province and his Community. He was deeply passionate about helping immigrants, single parent families and feeding the less fortunate.
A celebration of his very incredible life will happen once the pandemic allows it. If you wish, donations may be made to Peace Lutheran Church (Food Bank), 1985 Rossini Blvd., Windsor N8W 4P6.
Norm thanks you.
An Article from Windsor Engineering (pg. 16 & 17): DONAR IMPACT
THE HUMANITARIAN ENGINEER MEET DR. NORM BECKER
Norm Becker’s contribution to the engineering profession is incomparable. Dr. Nihar Biswas, UWindsor environmental engineering professor, says that not only did Becker mentor him, he’s inspired hundreds of UWindsor engineering students.
“Norm is a true role model who instills confidence and integrity in our students and, while succeeding in the engineering profession, has given back so much to the community,” Dr. Biswas says about the University of Windsor alumnus who’s spent his 51-year career working on complex engineering projects across North America, the Middle East, Africa, South America, the Caribbean and China.
Although Dr. Becker P.Eng. BASc ’67, PhD ’70 has worked all over the globe, he always maintained a close relationship with UWindsor. He even brought — and sometimes paid the cost out of his own pocket — engineering students with him on his pro bono projects across the country and in rural China.
For more than three years, Becker recruited engineers, students and trades people to design and plan water filtration systems for villages in the Chinese province of Shandong. While there, Becker and his team of volunteers took time to rebuild a fire-damaged medical clinic that sat unused for more than a year.
“Every school-aged child in the village inspected our work daily and charmed us with their smiles,” says Becker. “I think a few of them may aspire to become engineers themselves.”
Over the last 18 years, he has mentored more than 50 UWindsor undergraduate students. The UWindsor adjunct professor of civil and environmental engineering and founder and president of The Becker engineering Group of consulting companies has hired Windsor undergraduate and graduate students since 1970.
“It hasn’t been a one-way street,” says Becker. “They have been generous in sharing their experiences with me, as well.”
Becker even funded the Faculty of Engineering’s annual Cameron MacInnis Memorial Award, the annual Tom Akeley Memorial Award and, most recently after visiting campus in 2017, the Class of 1967 Civil Engineering Scholarship in partnership with his classmates. He was recognized as an Outstanding Philanthropist in 2010 by the Association of Fundraising Professionals and in 2011 received UWindsor’s Clark Award, which recognizes individuals who have increased the profile and reputation of the university.
Although he often traveled the globe to help the less fortunate, much of his pro bono work has taken place in the city he’s called home since he and his parents landed here in 1951 as refugee immigrants from East Germany.
Becker and the member companies of his engineering group have sponsored more than 25 local pro bono projects, including restoration of the All Saints’ Anglican Church and an historic Harrow cemetery; construction of the Turkey Creek Pedestrian Bridge and the Const. John Atkinson Memorial Bridge; design and installation of the Underground Railroad National Historic Site monument, a Field of Dreams monument for the Windsor and Essex County Cancer Centre Foundation, and a monument in tribute to members of the community who provide moral and financial support to the victims of Alzheimer’s Disease and their families.
Dr. Paul Henshaw, head of the university’s Civil and environmental Engineering Department, says he has always admired Becker’s versatility as an engineer.
“From water treatment systems in China, to accident investigation in North America, to designing — and building without the use of heavy machinery — a pedestrian bridge in LaSalle, he has shown how the engineering process can be successfully applied in a number of situations,” says Dr. Henshaw. “His pro bono work also demonstrates the often unseen work of engineers in benefiting the public. He exemplifies the two pillars upon which successful engineering is based: skill and ethics.”
Using his profession to help others is paramount to the engineering professor. During Becker’s time as a councilor with Professional Engineers Ontario, he developed a comprehensive pro bono action plan focused on mobilizing licensed Professional Engineers in Ontario to become more pro-active in donating their professional services to help charities, service clubs and non-profit organizations implement community projects.
In addition, Becker has completed more than 1,000 forensic engineer investigations into major building, infrastructure and industrial losses resulting from explosions, fires, floods, earthquakes, tornadoes and other disasters. He has even given expert evidence at more than 50 trials, inquests, tribunals, and hearings.
But Becker says he isn’t a “self-made man.”
“I have been married to Mary Ellen for 51 blissful years. Both she and our two children rolled up their own sleeves and worked on many of my pro bono projects, including those we completed in rural China, which enriched our lives and reduced our waistlines. My personal and professional life have been closely intertwined.” WE
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ADD A MEMORYNeil MacEwan
9 April 2021
Hello to Norbert’s family
I had the pleasure of teaching Norbert math in high school
He was outstanding then, and seeing his bio, he had a very
impressive engineering career
Losing a beloved one is not a pleasant experience,
and as a Christian myself, comfort is available via Jesus.....and I will continue to pray for you that you will be able to work through your grief knowing
TRUTH.......which will be a source of comfort
We all look forward to seeing our loved ones again,, and judging by what’s happening in the world these days, HIS return is so much closer
God’s blessings on all of you, as you deal with your sorrow
Neil MacEwan
Greg Banks
7 April 2021
I've worked with Norm on many occasions over the last 15 years. He was an original, a real character and a true professional.
Dan Piescic
3 April 2021
My sincere condolences to Norm's family and friends. Norm was an incredibly intelligent, talented and articulate Engineer. I had the pleasure of working for Norm years ago and he was a great mentor and roll model. May he rest in peace.
norma and bill smith
2 April 2021
Norma and I were deeply saddened to hear of Norms passing. He was a kind and generous person with a great sense of humour. It was always a pleasure to be in his and Mary Ellens company. How fortunate we were to have known him. Sincere condolences to Mary Ellen and her family. May he rest in peace.
Julie Gauthier
1 April 2021
To the Becker family.
We were so sorry to hear of Norm's passing. He was a good friend to our father Louis Scodeller as we have many fond memories of the visits and friendship between the two of them....even when our father was in an assisted living home. He respected Louis' Italian heritage and would bring salami and cheese so they could lunch together there.
Norm was a good man who lived his life in service to this world....a great legacy that you can be proud of.
Julie Gauthier (Scodeller)
Orf and Cathy Scodeller
James Norton
1 April 2021
Dear Norm - the expert I turned to for "all things concrete". I first met you back in the early 1980's when I just started practicing law. I got your name from W. Donald Lilly Q.C. who you had known before. I had some case about concrete underground garages which were a huge problem in the day. From that time forward, we aged together and I retained you as soon as I got any file involving concrete issues so the other side could not. In fact, even though you have been telling me you were winding down, we just completed our work together in February - a successful result due to you. I am going to miss you Norm. I always enjoyed working together and your knowledge was entrancing. I have lost a friend. James
Rupp Carriveau
1 April 2021
Dr. Becker came to my class in 1st Year to give a guest lecture about Engineering as a career. He set many influential benchmarks for me that day so long ago - incredible for one lecture to be so impactful. That's the kind of man he was. I later reconnected with him as a Faculty Member when he visited us for his Class of 67 Reunion. He and his classmates were such a warm, benevolent, and inspiring group - UWin is so lucky to have them in the Family. Your work lives on Dr. Becker.
Colleen Callegari
31 March 2021
Wonderful professional, sorry to hear of his passing. Provided our company with many opportunities and his expertise in engineering.
Always a great pleasure to work with him.
Colleen Callegari (Late John Callegari)
formerly Callegari Construction.
Julian Lunardi
31 March 2021
I will never forget Norm. He gave me my first job after graduating. He truly was a person who thought outside the box. I was always impressed with his ideas and projects. I remember him saying as he pointed to his head “All the tools I need to do my job are in here”.
My deepest condolences go out to his family.
Tami Vickerd
31 March 2021
So sad to hear of Mr. Becker's passing. I was so fortunate to have worked for him as my first job out of college. He was the kindest most encouraging man. He made sure to take great care of his employee's. I learned so much working there and will never forget his kindness. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. 🙏
Nancy Morand
31 March 2021
What a wonderful man. When I was working as the heritage planner for the City of Windsor in the late 1990s - Norm was always there to help with pro bono engineering expertise for our heritage projects. He was so helpful, and so kind. It was a pleasure to have known him. Rest In Peace Norm. You were loved and respected. Cheers. Nancy Morand
Peter Hrastovec
31 March 2021
Norm was the epitome of a true professional, the "go-to" person who could solve a problem with a working and lasting solution. If you followed his advice, you would never go wrong. He was a great community-minded person who carried on the charitable work of the late Leon Paroian and others with a great sense of purpose and commitment. He was a mentor to young people and advanced the cause of sound engineering practice and continuing education as the mainstay for professional excellence. He was a giant and will remain in our hearts always. Rest, Norm, for we will all carry on in your memory to be the best that we can be. You led the way!
David Lawn
31 March 2021
Deeply saddened to hear of Norm's passing. He was indeed an engineers' engineer. He was as passionate about his work as he was for his family and the community (his extended family). Thank you Norm for all you did in such a short time!
Most heartfelt and sincere condolences to the Becker family. R.I.P. Norm.
Andrew Tepperman
31 March 2021
I was sad to hear about the passing of Norm. I and our company will always remember his planning, methodical approaches and love for what he did. He has left a legacy that many of us who worked with him will never forget.
Maggie Schiller Durocher
31 March 2021
Mary Ellen, Laura and Kurt and Family
I am so sad to hear of Norm's/your Dad's passing.
I enjoyed all my year's working with him and so many memories like all of our company events, the cottage, our Xmas parties at your house and too many fun times at the office.
He will surely be missed.
Maggie
Flavio Forest
31 March 2021
I was very fortunate to have started my engineering career at N.K. Becker & Associates where Norm played such a significant role as a mentor and a role model to me. I will always cherish the many fond memories of the personal friendship he shared and growth he inspired. He was one of those unique individuals who has left a lasting impression on me, our profession and the many communities he's supported. I extend my sincere condolences to Norm's family.
Darcie Patrick
31 March 2021
Dear Mrs. Becker and Family, I wish to offer my deepest condolences on the passing of Mr. Becker. I had the pleasure of meeting you both when I worked at the Royal Bank many, many years ago. Mr. Becker was one of those clients you never forget. He was such a modest, kind, humble man. The epitome of a true gentlemen. He certainly led a full and remarkable life. May you hold dear all of your beautiful memories of your husband and father. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Darcie Patrick
Joan Jolin
31 March 2021
I met Norm Becker at All Saints' Anglican Church when he offered to restore its Rose Window. I didn't like him - at first. He put three designs for the window along a pew and asked us to chose the one we preferred. I immediately chose the design which came to be known as 'The Circle of Light'. The rest of the committee agreed with me. The design was by Norm's daughter, Laura. Norm was, as they say, 'tickled pink'. I grew to care deeply for Norm. His caring overcame what seemed at first to be arrogance. People mattered to him and he gave back. He also helped restore the monuments in St. John Anglican Church cemetery after vandals destroyed some of them. On one of his trips to China he purchased red jade stud earrings for me at my request. Every time I wear them I think of him. As his obituary says he loved and adored his wife and children. Ultimately, as a writer, I wrote a piece about him and the window entitled, 'A Circle of Light'. The light is lit 24/7 and shines in the direction of St. Leonard's House, a resident for former federal male inmates, telling them there is hope!
Norm Becker will remain for me one of the finest men I've ever met.
Kevin Miller
31 March 2021
I had the privilege to know Norm throughout my working career at the Town and through his dedication to help at St. Mark's by the Lake Church. His knowledge and passion of engineering was only surpassed by his desire to help others. May he rest in peace.
Kevin
Peppino&Siobhan Cence
30 March 2021
We just heard of Norm's passing today. We are so very saddened by this. He was a dear friend to us. Mary Ellen please accept our sincerest condolences. Love, Peppino and Siobhan
Don Allen
30 March 2021
So sorry to hear that Norm passed. He was a great guy ! And I enjoyed his company Don Allen
Gisele Seguin
29 March 2021
Norm was an exceptional Humanitarian. What a loss.
Gisele Seguin
Andrew Dowie
29 March 2021
I saw Norm as a hero and legend eternal. Larger than life in person but modest about his dozens, if not hundreds of accomplishments as a civil engineer in Canada and abroad. Norm believed strongly in the human potential for changing the world for the better. Personally, Norm never missed a chance to support me every step of the way and expected nothing in return. Norm's loss to the engineering profession and to his humanitarian endeavours will be deeply felt and impossible to replace. Mary Ellen, Kurt and Laura, please accept my sincere condolences.
Bob Lanza
28 March 2021
My memories of Norm go back to when we were worked at the same construction company in 1975. He had extraordinary knowledge and insight on engineering and construction matters so, in my mind, I made him my unofficial mentor forever. Over the years, I called in Norm whenever I had a difficult engineering-construction problem.
For the past 20 years, Norm involved me in his investigative projects and we spoke almost daily. I have lost my mentor and my best friend.
Nihar Biswas
28 March 2021
I met Dr. Norm Becker about 35 years ago. He was a true friend to me and a huge supporter of the Civil and Environmental Engineering department and the Faculty of Engineering of the University of Windsor. He took special interest in mentoring our students and was always there to help. He was a true giver. We lost a special human being who will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jim Breschuk
28 March 2021
I had the great pleasure of not only being taught and mentored by Norm , but able to work alongside him and call him my friend. His unconditional support of our profession , community groups ,and the university will not be surpassed anytime soon . My sincerest sympathies go out to his family .
A great loss to the Engineering profession and our community.
Kathleen Coleman (née Lanza)
27 March 2021
The world became less colourful with the passing of Norm. The impact he made with his contributions to his profession, to his personal projects (Chinese villages) and to the people he cared about will be felt for eternity. His wry sense of humor and his particular detail to using the correct words will be missed. My deepest sympathies to his family.
Carolynne Mastellotto
26 March 2021
It was my privileged to know Mr. Becker through his work when St. Mark’s by the Lake was undertaking an expansion. His guidance and generosity was so freely given. Norm had special talents and shared them in many countries. My sympathies to his family. He will be missed.