Bernard Paul Behrens Jr.

Bernie left this life as we know it on Wednesday, March 7, 2012. Bernie was born July 5, 1944, in San Mateo, CA. He spent early childhood years in the L.A. area, before his family moved to Anaheim, CA in 1957. He graduated from Anaheim high School in 1962, received a Bachelor of Business degree from Cal State Fullerton, and served two years in the Army.

Bernie had suffered the past year with throat cancer and had fought a long and hard battle. He was a brave and courageous man. He kept his dignity to the very last day. Bernie's last tasks were to make sure that his life partner of 42 years, Suzanne Jacobs would be well taken care of and that things would be made easier for her and his demise. His last thoughts were of her.

Bernie had been retired from Orange County Auditor Controller's office, for the last 7 years. He had worked for the county for 35 years as a systems analyst. Since his retirement, Bernie's time was spent "putzing" around the house, keeping things in working order, running errands, taking care of interests on the computer, and making sure that the neighbors and neighborhood were doing good.

Bernie was a quiet, gentlemanly, and polite man, always proper in conduct and appearance. He always thought of the other person's well being and comfort before his own.

Bernie leaves a brother Michael Behrens of Anaheim, brother David Behrens in Missouri, and sister Janet Mills of Washington state. Bernie also leaves his life partner of 42 years Suzanne Jacobs of Santa Ana, his "step" daughter Shelly Chace of Riverside and her 3 daughters, Samantha of Riverside, with soon to be "step" great-granddaughter. Also Hailey Chace of Meniffee, and Rachell Chace of Santa Ana.

Bernie was a man of few words, but his actions of courage, pride, generosity, and dignity spoke more about him than mere words could ever say. He will be missed by friends, neighbors and relatives more than he could ever imagine. His memory will be kept alive by so many who loved and knew him as a quiet, but thoughtful man that he was.