

Born on December 25, 1956, in North Dakota, Mary Jo brought warmth and light into the lives of those who knew her from the very beginning. She spent much of her life in Washington, D.C., a city she deeply loved and where she enjoyed everything it had to offer — from quiet mornings with coffee and The Washington Post to the friendships and community she built throughout the years.
Mary Jo worked as a Senior Case Analyst with the U.S. Parole Commission, where she found not only a meaningful career but lifelong friendships that became family. Though she originally majored in art, her true calling became her work and the people she met along the way. It was there that she met her dear friend, Deirdre McDaniel. What began as a friendship between coworkers quickly became a lifelong bond built on love, loyalty, and years of cherished memories.
She was a simple person who loved being social while still valuing her privacy. Mary Jo was meticulous in every aspect of life, especially when it came to keeping records and staying organized. She had a thoughtful and caring spirit that showed in the little things — especially the handmade birthday cards she lovingly created and personalized for family and close friends. She never missed a birthday and was never late sending a card to someone she loved.
Mary Jo also adored her cat, Sergio, whose companionship brought her great joy. Her favorite color was black, fitting for someone whose style was timeless, classic, and uniquely her own.
Those who knew Mary Jo will remember her as a bright light with a warm, inviting smile and a kind heart that made others feel welcomed and cared for. Her presence brought comfort, laughter, and genuine connection to so many.
She is survived by her loving sister, Ruth Ann Wheeler; her nephews, Max Wheeler and Donavan Wheeler; her nieces, Shena Atkinson and Tara Jo Goheen; her godson, Alexander Kiker; and 10 great-nieces and great-nephews who will continue to carry her memory forward. She was preceded in death by her parents, Robert Williams and Dorothea Williams.
Mary Jo’s final resting place will be at Congressional Cemetery.
Her family asks that all who knew and loved her come together to celebrate her life and share stories and memories of the joy she brought to others. A memorial service will be held on May 30, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. at Craig Memorial Community Church.
Mary Jo’s memory will live on in the hearts of her family, friends, colleagues, and all who were fortunate enough to know and love her.
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