When I think of Raymond, I remember a quick smile, laugh, and the twinkle in his eyes. He was a voracious reader of all kinds of subjects in books, magazines and news papers and could talk about most anything to most anybody. As was already mentioned, he loved music, dancing, and attending the theater. I thought of him as a Renaissance Man. He shared family stories and listened to ours. When we traveled to Washington D. C. with him and Rob, he walked the Korean War Memorial and spoke about some of his experiences and was very proud of his service in the Navy. Rob took great care of Ray in his later years and they still traveled all over despite him being mobility impaired. That did not stop him from having a great time which was an inspiration for the rest of us. I am thankful that he was as in my life and I will miss him.

Raymond was a man who loved life and lived it to the fullest. He was a man of many interests who was also a man of depth, loyalty and perseverance. He deeply loved Rob, his partner of 44 years, his family and his friends. I first met him over a selection of soda drinks at a Seven/Eleven store during a work break in 1981.  As a younger man he never met a stranger so we struck up a conversation.  At that time of his life’s journey he was very much into country western music, dancing and his red Nisson truck that he called “Rex.” Rob (with whom I worked) Raymond and I had many adventures together. Later on Gail also joined us and for many years we made weekend trips to Houston and Dallas. Later on we traveled to  Mexico, Canada, Lake Tahoe, Fort Lauderdale, Washington DC, Cape Cod and to his family’s home in Massachusetts. We also enjoyed celebrating Thanksgiving and Easter together with Rob’s Mother and Aunt, Katie,Alex, our sons, their wives and growing families as well as other extended family members. Raymond loved good food of all kinds and was  a good cook. He loved entertaining us by telling  and sharing family stories with a great sense of humor. He was much beloved by all of us.  He made a difference in many lives while here on earth and we will all miss him greatly.

To the family of Raymond Tucker, I would like to extend my sincere condolences on the passing of Raymond.   He was a kind, genteel, & thoughtful gentleman with a good sense of humor.   Over the years, we have not had the opportunity to stay close, due to health concerns, family obligations, geographical challenges, and the overall struggles of day-to-day life.   I am aggrieved by this fact.  Prayers have been said for Raymond's passing and for his family, who are struggling to overcome their own grief.   All those who knew him in my circle had genuine, warm thoughts about him.

Raymond and Rob were two of my favorite clients, though “clients” hardly feels like the right word. Over nearly ten years together, they became dear to me. Raymond showed up to every session with his easy charm, quiet humor, and a warmth that made training him a joy. He committed to two 90-minute sessions each week, and those hours were filled with good stories, laughter, and steady effort that inspired me every time. Rob used to tease me about coddling Raymond, and I did, but that care came from deep fondness. My goal was always to help Raymond feel capable and confident in his body, to move with less stress and more freedom, and to preserve the independence he valued. Watching him progress meant the world to me.
Raymond had a knack for making everything feel light. He’d listen attentively, offer that knowing smile, and when I’d say, “Okay, one more,” or joke that he’d “just earned himself a raise,” he’d chuckle and say, “Oh boy!” Those moments revealed who he was – good-natured and always ready for a laugh. He loved Mexican martinis, his Saturday night treat after a good week of exercising. He never missed his Boost after each session, and we’d sometimes joke that if his water bottle only had a splash of tequila, he might push himself even harder. Raymond also enjoyed sharing photos from trips he and Rob took, and it meant so much that he wanted to include me in glimpses of his life outside the gym.
Even as the years passed, Raymond’s sharp mind, gratitude, and cheerful spirit never faded. He showed me that strength isn’t just physical; it’s the grace to keep showing up with warmth and good humor … regardless. That easy laughter and playful attitude were a big part of what made our time together so special.
I’ll always remember Raymond not only for his perseverance but also for the peace and laughter he brought into every session. His presence was comforting, his stories unforgettable, and his spirit truly kind. I trust he’s now at peace in the Lord’s care. RIP💜

In memory of and in gratitude for your honorable military service. May God bless you and welcome you home

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Raymond Francis Tucker

14 julio, 1934 – 9 octubre, 2025

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