I'm so terribly saddened to learn of Bobby's passing. I was a student of his at Austin Community College in the mid-1990s. As a self-taught bass player from the age of 12, and without any prior instruction, he had his work cut out for him and lots to "unteach" me. I still remember walking into our first lesson together and after a brief introduction, he asked me to play a little bit for him. I took my trusty Dunlop heavy-gauge pick out of my pocket and started playing some random things I'd written. He listened for a few minutes then very calmly, and matter of factly, reached over and grabbed my pick, handed to me, and said, "You can leave this at home from here on out." He knew right away that he was going to have to break me down and build me back up. Bobby was one of the best teachers I ever had. He was friendly, patient, encouraging, and inspiring. He was always looking for ways to help me grow as a player and composer. Over several years, I took many private lessons from him, several semesters of Jazz Improvisation (something I knew NOTHING about) and a Music Composition course. Musically, I learned and grew more in these three years than at any other time in my life. He was also integral in helping me put together an audition performance and recording that ultimately got me into the Sound Recording Technology program and SWT. I always enjoyed talking with him before or after classes about our love of The Beatles, Elvis Costello, etc. He recommended so many artists and recordings to me during that time that still shape my tastes to this very day. In fact, one of the first albums he told me to get was Weather Report's 8:30. I did and although I listened to it several times, it didn't resonate with me. Last weekend, I was digging through record crates at an antique store and I saw a near mint copy for only $4. I immediately thought of Bobby and I decided to purchase it and give it another try. I put it on this AM and halfway through side 3 realized what I was missing. An absolutely brilliant live recording of and incredibly talented band arguably at their peak. I felt a strong urge to look Bobby up and tell him that although it may have taken me 20 years... I finally connected with that album and appreciate the recommendation. Now, I'll always wish I'd done so a few years earlier. God bless you, and your family, my friend, and mentor.

Heartbroken to learn about your passing my sweet friend.  You were a sensitive, kind and loving man, dedicated father and passionate musician.  I am grateful for having known you.  Bobby, always smiling....that is how I'will remember you.  Rest in peace next to your beloved Ben!   Teresa

I am unfortunately very late in hearing the sad news of Bob's passing. Although he was a couple of years younger, we hung out quite a bit during the '80-'81 school year at Crockett High School. I remember his sense of humor. I remember rooming with him during the 1981 school trip to Europe. I remember his love of the Beatles and his overwhelming sadness upon learning of the death of John Lennon. I share a similar sadness now to learn of his passing. May he rest in peace and may his family be comforted by memories reflecting the best of who he was and the joy he brought to countless others during his lifetime.

Our hearts empathize with the pain of the loss of Bobby.  Find comfort in knowing that he is with God making music for the angels.  Our prayers are with the family for God's will for them as they put their lives back together.  God Bless all of you.

Bobbeee. Over a year of our lives, always an intense connection we had, from the moment we met. Comforting each other, sharing tremendous joy and sadness, loving and disappointing each other...laughing-- so much laughing. Your playful soulful nature changed me forever. I see you. I love you. I miss cooking for you, making you mad, making you do that deep delicious genuine chuckle. Every day you kept me amused and grounded. I am so lucky to have spent so much time with such a unique, rarely  talented spirit.  I am so grateful we spent your last days together in a place close to your heart, honoring Ben.  We were frIends not to be unbroken. The world is a quieter place.

For all of the Belleman's tribe. A heart felt sympathy goes out to all of you. There are no words for a situation like this but sometimes a 'hug' says it all.
Ron Flory and Family

Dear Kathy and family,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.  May you find peace and comfort in your time of need.  
Christi McAllister

Alice, I am so very sorry that you have lost your dear son....My love and sympathy to you and your family.
Mallie Coker, former Rocking Chairette

We didn't realize until a few weeks ago that when we moved up to Austin from Corpus Christi in the 90's, we were probably at the same venues as Bob. My husband invited Jacob & Bobby to go to Austin Park & Pizza with he and son Ryan (Boyscout outing) recently. When my husband returned home, he said, "We had a blast!" Then my husband began to tell me about Bobby and where he went to school and about his music background. We followed the Ian Moore band, Junior Brown, and Beto Y Los Fairlanes and many more.  The God-cidences were uncanny. My husband & I believe that we were in the same places probably watching these bands all the while Bobby was probably on stage in front of us. 
My husband said, "Bob's volunteering and filling in for Mr. Ruiz at the Lago Vista High School." This  information explained my son's story a few weeks ago after returning from hanging out with Jacob at his dad's house. Ryan came inside and said, "Mom, Mr. Belleman's was asking me if I have been practicing my baritone?" I said, "Music people know if you have or haven't son." Ryan said, "He also says that the entire band needs to practice more if we want to be GREAT!" I smiled with a sigh of relief knowing that this is a man who cares for our LVHS band and its students enough to say what he really means. I told my son, "If Jacobs dad is telling ya'll that you need to practice, then YOU DO! He wouldn't tell you that if he didn't truly care about your band." I remember telling my husband, "I like this guy." 
We only moved to LV at the beginning of our son's 9th grade year. He made friends with Jacob Bellemans. They are both Sophomores this year. One day, Ryan was at Bobby's house with Jacob and he came home saying that Mr. Belleman's is a really good musician. Ryan was trying to play Bobby's Bass and later Bobby told my husband that he feels that Ryan is a natural and he would love to teach him how to play the Bass. Ryan & Mike were looking forward to that prospect.  
I know that Bobby will be keeping an eye open from heaven as Jacob continues to grow with his musical talent. Wow! Jacob and his friends started a band and opened for the 1st LVHS Performing Arts Talent Show this year. Jacob's drumming was outstanding! They sounded fantastic! I know Jacob's parents had to have been so proud of him. We have to think that God needed Bobby in heaven. Maybe the angels are off beat and need some tutoring. There is no understanding why he was taken right now at this time in his life unless he was needed in heaven. He had so many blessings happening in his life at this time. It was a blessing to have him as a Lago Vista Band Parent. Bobby, your funeral was by far the most amazing coming together of family and friends that my husband and I have ever seen in our entire lives. The love was strong and your relatives stories and your friends singing and playing of instruments was just.. I have no more words...God bless Bobby Bellemans. May he be joined in heaven with his father, his son, and all loved ones who have passed before him. We will miss you sir. It was a pleasure to meet you.

Mary Alice, there are no words so I will just say I am so sorry for your loss and for your pain.
Love to you and your family

Celebrating the life of this good man, your brother Bobby, with you today Kathy. And praying that you and your family will wrap yourselves in the warmth of your memories and the comfort of God's love.

Much love to his friends and family.  I hadn't seen Bob in decades although I have searched for him a few times.

He and I played in a band together in our high school days, and even then his musical prowess was readily apparent.  In spite of his musical superiority, he was nothing but kind and generous and supportive and he played a huge role in my early musical endeavors.

Despite my not having seen him since the 80's, I know for sure he will be sorely missed by many as I know his kind, generous and loving nature never changed.

May he rest in peace.

The service was lovely. The thought that resonated was "What will people remember about you?" Bob was certainly a gentle spirit and passionate musician. My most lasting memory from over 30 years is of Bob introducing me to Heath and Skor candy bars. I had never had one and discovered a new life-long favorite! When sending my daughter a text to say I would be late for pick up, she asked whose funeral? I replied, "The college friend who introduced me to Heath bars." Her reply, "Good. I'm glad you are going. That is a good candy bar." Bob is fondly remembered! Prayers to you for sweet memories and many smiles and you recall your lives with Bob. Liz K. Austin

So sorry to hear about Bobby.  When he was at SWT (now TX State Univ) he was in my top jazz ensemble in the 1980's, playing bass.  It was a good band but Bobby was the "true pro" in the group.  Great attitude, great player and good guy.  His music career just grew from there.  A terrible loss.
Doug Skinner
Retired Professor Emeritus of Music

Distance and life events kept me from knowing Bobby, my first cousin.  But these memorials demonstrate it has been my loss. He and my son would have been fast friends with their interest in guitars. Funny how that interest runs in the family separated by huge distances. I am so sorry for my Bellemans family and my aunt Alice. Play on Bobby.

Although I did not know Bobby well, our sympathies are with Alice and the entire Bellemans family for the loss of Bobby. I would love to hear some of his musical performances. He was obviously very talented and a good man and Father.

Kathy and Jim, we are soooo sorry for the passing of your brother!  Love and prayers to you both.

Hello Babe ~ My Captain, My King.  In the February 13th gratitude journal entry I wrote, "I am so happy and grateful now that I am with this amazing man who loves me so much and who inspires me to be the most warm and loving partner a person could ever want."  What do I write now?  You are gone and I am left with sadness because the next chapter of our lives together will never be realized.  I love you I want you I miss you.  If I can express any type of gratitude in the wake of your sudden departure it is this:  I am so happy and grateful now that I have been loved and appreciated by someone who has renewed my faith in love.  xoxo, SKG

I'm very sorry to hear the news of his passing, you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Don Boyd

I didn't know Bobby personally however I feel like I knew him through your stories, Kathy. We are so sorry for you and your family's lose. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Prayers, Love and Hugs to you all.

May the Hearer of Prayers send comfort. Psalms 65 : 2.

So sorry to hear, hugs and love sent to the family.
Monique Devuyst & Dolf (Vollezele) and their family : Petra, Danny, Robin & Wout

My sincere condolences to the Belleman family. I know Bobby was a good man and a great father. He will be missed.

Just learned Bobby was a friend of our son, John.  They played in several bands together. Crockett HS and later as college students.  John was saddened to hear of his passing.
Chris & Allen McKean

I became friends with Bobby in 2010, when we began performing together in the orchestra pit for Texas State University theater shows.  Such amazing talent.  During that time, I was also fortunate to have met Benjamin and Jacob, and it was a beautiful thing to sense how proud he was of his sons.  

Bobby, my friend - you're greatly missed.  Much love to you and your family.

I remember Bob in the band at Crockett H.S.  We were in band together.  He was very nice and funny.  My condolences to the family;  I am very sorry for your loss.

My condolences to the family on the sudden loss of your loved one. Prayers to all the family.

Bob brought Jacob to our office and you could tell how proud he was of him. My sincere condolences to Jacob, and to Bob's family and many friends.

Bob was the best. He will be deeply missed

I will always remember my adorable cousin Bobby. Playing together on the farm, in St.Paul. He always lit up a room, or a barn, and certainly the heavenly skies. Thanks for the memories. Peace and prayers to you all.

For what is it to die, but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?   Kalil Gibran

My sincere condolence to Jacob, to Bob's family and many friends.

SO sorry to hear, hugs and love sent to the family.


denise matthys- waynesville, NC

I'm sorry for your loss. Keeping in mind the scriptural hope of everlasting life can help sustain you.
John 17:3

I loved you before you were born and will love you til we meet again.

I was a classmate of Bob's at SWT back in the day.  He played trombone with me in the marching and concert bands and was a great jazz and orchestral bass player as well.  I will always remember that smile - every time he saw me, no matter where the smile and "hey man, how's it going?"  I pass along my sincere condolences to the family and my prayers that the Spirit of Comfort and Hope will be with all of you in this time of loss.

Bob was an incredible sweet caring person. I will miss him dearly. God Bless Bob & his family.

I'm so sorry to hear about Bob. He was a long time childhood friend of my brother Dirk and we loved him as a member of our family. He was an awesome and talented musician and his love for life was undeniable. May you rest in peace my friend, you were and still are loved.


Just know my thoughts are with the Bellemans Family.

Bob,
You were the brother I never had and I love you! We had periods of time where we did not see or talk but as true friendship goes we picked up like the distance was never there. I miss you and will never forget the giving caring soul you were. Thank you for sharing your music and encouraging me to play! I will never forget the best advice you bestowed to me...never try to go back in time, when you make a mistake move forward and learn from it.

Thinking of all of you. I have such fond memories of my cuz, Bobby. Always adorable and smiling. We had lots of fun way back. I had a secret crush on him, but knew I couldn't because he was my cousin. Peace be with you all. Karen Oliphant Capo

I love you Uncle Bobby and will greatly miss our chats and your smile.

God bless you Bobby for sharing your love of music with people while you were on earth. Our son Ryan McCracken had some interesting conversations with you while hanging out with you and your son Jacob. He admired you and will continue to practice harder in band. Thank you for caring for our students in the Lago Vista Band. We wish that you didn't have to go yet, but we understand that we all have different destinies. We know that God blessed you as you were welcomed into the heavens. Teach the angels how to play every instrument and then some. Vicki, Mike, Rene, and Ryan McCracken

Our sincere condolences to the Bellemans family in your loss.  Your family has influenced ours in many ways.  I hope your faith will carry you through this difficult time.  With love - Cathy, Alex and Ben Schryer

What a wonderful tribute to Bobby!  He obviously touched many lives with his kind personality and his gift for music.  We are so very very sorry for your loss!

Mike and Lou Paulson

My sympathy to all of Bobby's family and close friends.  I have a sweet memory of my "little cousin" visiting my house while his parents were house-hunting in Texas. Every time my mom turned on the vacuum cleaner, I got to scoop him up and cuddle him to assure him the vacuum wouldn't hurt him. He ears were very sensitive even as a toddler! No wonder you excelled in music - sweet cousin.

my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Laura, Jacob, and family, 
I am still wrapping my mind around this. 
I can't tell you how sad I am about this loss.
Please, please tell us if we can do anything at all.
Thinking of you all,
Julie & Daniel Carter
Lago Vista, TX

I only knew Bob for a short time, I knew him long enough to know what a kind an caring person he was. I will miss him dearly. I'm so glad that God placed him in my life. I'm glad to know tha you are with our Father in heaven. Rest In Peace Bob.

With great sadness we extend our deepest sympathy to the entire Belleman family .
Bobby was a close friend of our son Richard. Bobby served with dignity as pall bearer at our son Richard's funeral.
Please know our sorrow for your loss and that you are in our prayers.  
  
Val & Mike Strubel

My deepest, sincerest sympathy to those that Bob left behind. I worked with Bob as a Title Examiner, and from the earliest he began at the title plant, he began talking to me, about our sharing a loss of our son(s).  I having lost my only son and he having lost Benjamin.  Bob sorely missed Benjamin and spoke to me about that, often.  He was also proud of the fact that he taught my nephew, Troy, to play the bass guitar.  He went to school with Troy and since Troy was and is very active and interested in the Austin music scene, Bob would speak to me, about him, as well.

Bob's passing is a tragedy for all of us, remaining here; but his spirit and influence on so many will remain, forever.  His love for his family and friends will be carried on in the many hearts that he touched.

May God's love and grace be upon all family and friends as they deal with losing Bob.

I did not have the privilege of knowing Bobby personally, but I knew him through his sister, Kathy.  She always spoke of him with highest regards, including his musical accomplishments, and in loving terms.  My thoughts, prayers, and deepest condolences are being extended to his family at this incredibly difficult time of loss - Pam

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.  I worked with Bob and from our many conversations over the years, I can tell you that I have never met a kinder, more gentle soul, than Bob.  He will be dearly missed at Independence Title.  May he rest in peace and may God wrap His loving arms around you all.

OBITUARIO

Robert "Bobby" Karl Bellemans

28 noviembre, 1964 – 21 febrero, 2015

Cook-Walden Funeral Home

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