Bernard Ramirez Gutierrez

Bernard R. Gutierrez, 64, of San Diego, California, passed away surrounded by all four of his children, fiancée, and family on October 11, 2025. He was born on December 4, 1960, in Whidbey Island, Washington, to Dominador and Constance Gutierrez, the second of seven children.

Bernard was a loving man who lived life with laughter, faith, and an open heart. He loved traveling, especially to the Hawaiian Islands, listening to live music, dancing, enjoying good food, and spending time with his family. His sense of humor and one-liners could light up any room, and he was known for making everyone laugh.

He was devoted to serving the Lord and his family with everything in him. Despite the complexities of life and family, Bernard’s love was steady, forgiving, and full. He cherished every one of his children and grandchildren deeply and prayed that they would always walk in faith and know the Lord as he did.

Bernard is survived by his four loving children: Christine “CJ” (Gutierrez) Hyatt, Christopher M. Gutierrez, Vanessa Leilani G. Gutierrez, and Valerie Malea G. Gutierrez; and by his five beloved grandchildren: Evelyn A. Hyatt, Lea G. Hyatt, Maus “M” Hyatt, Keanu R. Gutierrez, and Hayden C. Gutierrez. He is also survived by his fiancée, Judy Saliwan, and his six siblings.

He was previously married to Bernadine Cruz and to Myra Gojuangco, and he continued to hold love and respect for both. His life was a testament to joy, resilience, and the grace of unconditional love.

Services

• Monday, November 3, 2025: Memorial Service and Rosary, 5:00–9:00 p.m. at Torrey Pines Church, 8320 La Jolla Scenic Drive North, La Jolla, CA 92037. Guests are welcome to bring a small finger food to share.

• Tuesday, November 4, 2025: Urn interment at 1:00 p.m., Glen Abbey Memorial Park, 3838 Bonita Road, Bonita, CA 91902.

Celebration of Life to follow, 3:30–9:00 p.m. at Torrey Pines Church, La Jolla.

Aloha attire is encouraged in honor of Bernard’s love for the islands & culture.

Bernard will be remembered for his laughter, generosity, humility and faith. His family takes comfort in knowing that his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him and in the many memories that will be shared about him. Although Bernard is gone far too soon, he is now resting peacefully in Heaven and reunited with both his parents.