Shirley J. Holmes Grassa

Shirley J. Holmes Grassa on December 10, 2025 of Boston, formerly of the North End, Brookline, East Boston and Somerville, suddenly passed away, surrounded by her loving family.

Shirley was a beloved mother, wife, sister, nana and friend. Her life was defined by kindness, strength and optimism. She was the heart of her family. Known for her generous spirit, her unwavering strength and incredible ability to make everyone feel loved who entered her home. These wonderful traits will truly be missed by all her loved and cherished her.

On any Christmas or Easter at Ma’s, if there were any unexpected guests, she would have a special way of appearing from her room with a gift for that person, so no one was forgotten.

She cherished family holidays, enjoying the company of her children and grandchildren, especially hearing the laughter of loved ones. Her love extended to all animals, in particular, her beloved cat, Gazie Boy. Being around people and enjoying life was paramount, as well as walking, puzzles, coin collection, going to the movies and traveling with her sister, Barbara.

She worked many years at Logan Airport and volunteered holidays at Salvation Army. After retiring, she continued to give to others by working as a live in Care Giver for people with alzheimer’s and dementia.

Her legacy of one unconditional love will continue to shine through her children, grandchildren and all those who’ lives she touched. .

She is the daughter of the late Robert M. Holmes and Emily F. (Perry) Barrett. Wife of John D. Grassa of Norwood. Mother of Frances May and her husband Robert of Neosho, MO, Deborah Rock and her husband Anthony of Hull, Kenneth W. Glew of Hull, Regina Battersby Grassa and her spouse Cora Battersby of the North End, John Grassa of Somerville, Angela Grassa of Lynn, and Michael Grassa and his wife Gina of NH. Sister of Barbara J. Glew of Marshfield, John Barrette of Dorchester and the late Robert M. Holmes. Grandmother of 13 and Great-grandmother of 17. Also survived by many loving nephews and nieces.

The family will receive visitors on Sunday, December 28, 2025 from 4pm to 8pm in the funeral home with a Prayer Service at 6pm. COMPLIMENTARY VALET PARKING ATTENDANTS AT FRONT DOOR.

Donations may be made to: Alzheimer's Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090-