Danny B. Smith

On February 20, 2012, a beautiful sunny morning, Danny B. joined his heavenly family. With his loving and caring wife Darlene by his side, he faced cancer the same way he lived life – with courage and grace. No matter how he felt, he always made sure others – family, friends, doctors or nurses – left with smiles on their faces. Born in Konawa, Oklahoma on October 2, 1930, he was proud to be raised in the East Texas town of White Oak where he was a gifted musician and leader of his award-winning high school band. He would use his musical gifts in service to his country during World War II as a leader of the European-based Army band. After the war, his life’s work would focus on three things: family, golf and Members Mutual Insurance. In 1959, Danny started traveling the state of Texas setting up the very first offices for Members Mutual, hiring the first employees and spreading the word about insurance. After 28 years helping build the company, he retired in 1987 and embarked on his second career as an avid golfer and golf club repairman. His gregarious personality and constant presence at Van Zandt Country Club earned him the nickname ‘Uncle Danny’ with members young and old. With his trusty Velvet Touch putter – a one-of-a-kind putter just as unique as he was – he was an accomplished player well into his seventies. While his golf clubs may be silent now, his love and passion for the game successfully passed onto his son. Successful in business and golf, he would say his most important accomplishment was his family. Married for 46 years, Dan and Darlene made Carrollton, TX their home. From there they explored life. In their younger years, they could often be found exploring all parts of ‘old’ Mexico. And later, they would visit historic places like Deadwood, SD, backdrops of Dan’s favorite author, Louis L’amour. Their love grew even stronger in his final months as my mom lovingly and unselfishly dedicated her life to his. A fact he never stopped thanking her for. While he raised and inspired his son to be the best he could be in academics, sports, business and, most importantly, life, he was most proud of his two grandchildren. He constantly nurtured and encouraged Mackenzie’s love of music, and even in his final days, was more concerned for Jake’s broken finger than his own health. There are so many people that cared for ‘Uncle Danny’ in his final days. Emily, his home nurse, whose genuine compassion and support will never be forgotten. Jenna, his physical therapist, who pushed him to stay strong. His neighbor, Bruce Belknap, who was always there when they needed help around the house. Dr. Donald Bernstein, who cared for both my mom and dad, providing emotional as well as physical support. In addition, we’d also like to thank the great doctors, nurses, respiratory therapists and technicians at Baylor Carrollton, Select Specialty Hospital of Carrollton, Zale Lipshy, Signature Pointe by the Lake, and UT Southwestern Simmons Cancer Center. Danny is survived by his wife Joyce Darlene, his son Joe Shelton (whom he always called Bo) and his wife Jessica, grandchildren Mackenzie and Jake, and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents William Shelton and Maude Lillus, sisters Louise and Mildred, brothers Earnest and Roy. Visitation will take place at 10 am on Thursday, February 23 followed by memorial and graveside services at 11:30 am at Rhoton Funeral Home, 1511 South I-35 E., Carrollton, TX 75006. In lieu of flowers, our family asks that you make donations to either the American Heart Association or the American Cancer Association. We’ll see you again soon Dad.