Jeffrey David Gans

We are heartbroken to announce the passing of Jeff Gans – a father, son, husband, brother, uncle and friend to any stranger. He passed away March 17, 2024, at the age of 58 in his home after a long, exhausting battle with cancer.

Born to Edward (Ted) and Laraine Gans on September 15, 1965, in Cincinnati, OH Jeff was one of two children with his sister Debbie. Much of his youth and adulthood was spent in Charlotte, NC. His life and legacy exude throughout this community of people who loved him.

Following graduation from South Mecklenburg High School in 1983, Jeff went on to further his education at North Carolina State University where he earned a degree in Business Management in 1988. His love for the school didn’t end here, as his Wolfpack fandom became a core part of who he was as a person. He bled the Red and White and found strength throughout his cancer journey in a forever role model, Jim Valvano. It is no coincidence that he was able to enjoy one last ride with the Wolfpack the week of his passing, taking in each moment of the unprecedented 2024 ACC Championship run. “Don’t Give Up. Don’t Ever Give Up.”

The word “impact” is always thrown around but cannot be understated in Jeff’s case. As a coach, he spent a decade of his time dedicated to shaping Charlotte’s youth. He had a passion for teaching, an unwavering patience, and a unique ability to instill values on and off the field. The impact didn’t stop with the kids he coached, but also the friends that surrounded him. He was the first to check in when times were tough and could brighten any day with his infectious smile. If the smile wasn’t enough, there was always a clever joke to follow. Jeff was fluent in sarcasm, and his unparalleled sense of humor was a constant through his hardest of days.

The true joy of Jeff’s life was his family. He adored his wife Sandra of 32 years and took great pride in his children Allie and Connor. His favorite thing to do was spend time with the family, whether that meant tailgating a Panthers game, hosting a cookout, or simply sitting around the table telling stories. As a husband, his ultimate goal was to be a provider and a confidant. Yet he still doubled as a best friend who kept a smile on Sandra’s face. As a devoted father, he assured his kids always felt his presence, saw him in the crowd, and had a dependable shoulder to lean on. He took no shortcuts in parenting, guiding his kids through life’s obstacles while leaving the door open to be a companion when needed.

Jeff loved a country song, a dive bar, a golf trip with his buddies, a comedy show, and an ice-cold Coors Light. Saturdays were filled with NC State/Ohio State football and Sundays were all about the Panthers. He spent many mornings at the local gym, and staying active was non-negotiable. He loved his dogs: enjoying walks with Sadie, and countless hours of throwing the frisbee with Tuffy. His friends knew him as the planner, scheduling the next grand event to make sure they got together and remained close. His kids’ friends knew him as the cool dad that would always fit right in. We all knew him as the life of the party.

Jeff fought a grueling 8-year battle with cancer. He approached each diagnosis, each surgery, each treatment without a complaint. His strength proved immeasurable and his will showed no bounds. Jeff’s journey has inspired so many, and his story doesn’t stop now. He wished to continue his fight beyond his years, which is why he hoped those wanting to send memorial gifts will consider two organizations: Jimmy V Foundation (www.v.org/) and VIA Health Partners - Hospice (www.viahp.org). Please keep up the fight in Jeff’s honor.

A service to celebrate Jeff’s life will be held on Friday, March 29 at 2:00 PM at Park Road Baptist Church – 3900 Park Road Charlotte, NC 28209. The family will receive friends following the service.

Online condolences may be shared at www.mcewenpinevillechapel.com.