July 12, 1936 – July 16,2018
Where does one start? How to sum up 82 years in 5min. She was born
on July 12, 1936 to Jesus Avalos and Refugio Oseguera De Avalos.
And was the 3rd born of 10 Brothers and Sisters, leaving behind Francisco, Luis, Alicia, Armando and Mario. On January 6th, 1957
She married Victor Ramirez and had 5 children, who are present today. Andrea, Victor, Araceli, Jaime and the oops Richard, 8 Grand Kids and 1great granddaughter, she had such a loving and giving heart she adopted a 9th grandchild, who later also gave her a great grandchild. They were Married for 52yrs and never left each other’s side, till his passing in 2009. She was a very carrying and loving mother. Her Kids and Home came 1st even before her. When she spoke to anyone about her kids Her eyes would light up. On Holidays and her
Birthdays, we would ask what she wanted. The response was always to have all my kids together. Now we feel like a compass who lost its way.
Whenever there were functions. Mom was always surrounded by her kids. These last few days have been like driving in the Fog.
Memorable moments with Ma Lupe:
Andrea:
I'm my mother's first born and had the great privilege of having her with me. We had great times my goal was to make her happy and as comfortable as possible. There was nothing my mother wanted that I didn't get her or do for her I wanted her to be happy. We had some sad
and painful moments when she was recovering from her Shoulder, Toe surgery or just being lonely and sad. I love my mother so much. Just knowing she was happy being with me everything was worthwhile. Cooking, cleaning or just planning what to do next. She used to tell me, your brothers might be coming what are we going to make? We had so many great moments, too many to share in just a few minutes. I feel complete, happy and grateful to have had such a great mom, she full of love for everyone. It was meant for her to be my mother. I will always love my beautiful mom and miss you always. Your unconditional love for our family made lots of great moments which I will hang on to forever. I Love you mom. A lot of good things happened to me while she was me. I was blessed in everything that came our way. She left a very big empty spot in my heart and impossible to forget and fill. She was very lonely and sad every single day since our father passed away, there was not a day that my mother didn't mention my father. Food we made, she would say he loved this, this was his favorite. To me that was the only thing I could not do anything about. Finally, they are together again and continue that great and true love they always had for one another. Thank you all for coming. Rest in peace our beautiful parents
Victor:
When she called me guerito, I would have to listen to her tone of voice and the way she would say it, in order to know if I was in trouble or not. The one the thing I remember she would bring up, was when she was going to spank me, and I ran to avoid it, but little did I know, what she was going to do.
She grabbed a broom handle and thru it to my feet and I think you know what happened, as I was on the ground she walked to me and said “con que corriendo gueito “ pues ahora va ser doble” and it was! I miss Mi Ama immensely just like I miss Mi Apa and I know now that
they’re both together again. They will look over their Chiquillos as she would refer to us, when all 5 of us were just kids. Love you Ama and for always you and my Apa will be with me. Thank you for all that you taught us and for all the Love you gave us. Because of your teachings and love we are the people we are today Tus Chiquillos.. Te Quero mucho Ama descanse en paz!
Araceli:
One day I called Mom and I woke her from her Nap. I told her mmm Ma Lupe eres la princesa de los suenos. From that day she became La Princessa. Well I would caller her 5 or more times a day, just to see what she was doing, or to tell her there was an old Mexican movie on TV, she would say (oh si) those are the good ones. I will put it on right now and she would hang up on me, so I would call her back and say. Holla princesa porque me cuelgas?? She would just laugh. On a trip to the Grand Canyon she was so excited that when we got off the train, she was nowhere to be found. As she had made her way to the South rim. I hadn’t seen her walk that fast in years from being so excited. Princesa thank you for being my mom. I couldn’t have asked for anyone better. I love you with all my heart!
Jaime:
While still living at home, Mom and I we’re having breakfast and just talking. When she said “Mijo como se me antoja un sandia” I said let’s go to the store. She said No from Mexicali. Ok Mom get an overnight bag and let’s go. She said No your Dad’s not home yet. Ma Lupe let’s just leave him a note, letting him know well be back tomorrow and we took off. We got to Mexicali and on the way to the Ranch we stopped
and had some Cold Coco’s, then she picked out her Sandia’s, we headed to my Tia Alicias house and had a grand weekend. Ma Lupe como te estoy extranando. It just feels like a BAD DREAM. My heart feels so very empty without you. What gives me comfort Is knowing you’re in the presence of GOD, y tu y mi Apa estan juntos. Madre te AMO y gracias por todo el AMOR que nos diste, Que DIOS y la Santisma Virgen Maria los bendiga. Este no es un adios es un hasta Pronto.
Richardo:
De tu gordito…. I will miss you so much from now to infinity….Forever in my heart and mind… I still pick up my phone and stare at it waiting for your voice... to say gordito…pero nomas por ahorita….Madre …en tiempo…nos volveremos a ver… para darte un gran habraso y dicirte los quiero mucho a ti y a mi apa… love you madre… que descanses empas.
We want to thank everyone, who took the time from there busy lives to join us, in this time of Enjoy and Sadness. Many of you have asked the Family if we needed anything, our ask is a Prayer for our Mother and Father and there 5 Chiquillos! We also want to take this opportunity to thank our Uncles Luise and Pancho Avalos, for their dedication to our Mom, when we would call and ask how her day was or how she was doing. She would always mention my uncles, and say I spoke to luis and Pancho today with an excitement in her voice. Tios for that we thank you and God Bless you
If any of you would like to say a few words please feel free to come up.
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