Richard was born in Fairbault, MN to Jackie and Merwyn "Bud" Zabel. Richard married his highschool girlfriend Patty Abel and they had their first son, Mike, in 1969, second son Robert in 1970, and third son Joseph in 1972. After a few years Richard and Patty had gotten a divorce. His second wife Barb encouraged Dick to go to treatment in 1979, and they divorced shortly after.
On New Years Eve in 1981, he met the love of his life, Janie, at Fridley Alano Club. Their first date was March 4th, and they were married May 7th of 1982. After almost a year together, on March 19, 1983 the two welcomed a new member to the family, Richard E. Zabel Jr. This January Dick celebrated his 45th year of sobriety - an accomplishment we were all so proud of.
Richard was a loving father and husband. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, camping, photography, boxing, kickboxing, Karate (he was an accomplished black belt), music, and talking. In 2008 he was diagnosed with Dementia, and the last four years were spent being in the long goodbye. He was often visited by family, and passed peacefully late in the evening. He had a hard time talking, but was able to clearly say to his wife that he loved her too just before he passed. He is at peace now.
He is preceded in passing by his parents, Merwyn "Bud" and Jackie; sister, Nancy (Bill); father-in-law, Robert Stachowski; sister-in-law, Sandy Brown Stachowski; beloved cat, Boo.
Richard is survived by his beloved wife of 41 years, Janie; children, Michael (Amy), Robert (Louann), Joe (Missy), and Rick; grandchildren, Chase (Alicia), Jordan, Devin; great-grandchildren, Maddie, Emelia, Charlee, and Max; sisters, Karen (Donny) and Carol (Gary); special friend, Maggie Pentz; beloved cats, Digger and Cuddles; and many other family members and friends.
Richard's service will take place on Saturday, March 9, 2024 at Gearhart Funeral Home, 11275 Foley Blvd NW, Coon Rapids. Visitation at 2 pm and service at 3 pm. A Celebration of Richard's Life will take place June 22nd, 2024 with more details forthcoming.
In lieu of flowers, memorials are preferred to the family.
