Ann Mastro

Ann Mastro passed away on January 7, 2014. Beloved wife of the late Robert. Loving mother of Monica and Roxanne. Cherished sister of Agnes and the late Andrew.Arrangements under the direction of Frederick Funeral Home, 192- 15 Northern Boulevard,Flushing, New York 11358. Ann's Family will be receiving visitors at Frederick Funeral Home on Friday, January 10, 2014 from 2-5 and 7-9pm. Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, January 11, 2014 at 9:15am Holy Family RC Church, Flushing, New York. Interment to follow St. John's Cemetery, Middle Village, New York.

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When I was faced with the task of doing this eulogy for mom, I became stuck. It took me a while to realize why. While my dad was quiet and reserved, and so required a voice on his behalf, mom was just the opposite. Anyone who ever knew Ann, from her family, friends, or mere acquaintances, knew she was never at a loss for words or sharing her view on things. Growing up my sister and I had the most wonderful childhood which was made possible by multiple family members including my wonderful dad, our generous, caring Aunt Aggie, and Grandpa. But mom was the true glue that held things together. She was the heart & soul of the household. Through the years Monica and I had many friends come and go. We discovered they weren’t just there to see us, but as the years passed many became attached to mom and looked upon her as a “second” mother. Mom was tough, she was opinionated, and straightforward. But she was exceedingly loving, kind, sympathetic, and our protector, our refuge. Mom was also the entertainer of the family and family and friends miss her stories, both old and new, already.

But as we say goodbye today, to our wonderful mother, sister, and friend, it would be a shame to dwell on the brief ending of her life, rather than on the rich experiences which we were all lucky enough to share in. She had a wonderful life with a loving husband, children, siblings, and friends, who were more like extended family.

How can you sum up someone’s life and how you feel about them in just a few words? You can’t. And for those of us that had the privilege to know Ann, I suppose no words are necessary. But if I had to sum up Mom, if I was forced to define her by one major idea, that would actually be easy. My mom was one of the most unselfish people we have ever known. Mom ALWAYS put her children before herself. That is who she was even up to the last minutes of her life. Goodbye mommy, for now … raise heck, be content, and know we continue to love you and miss you terribly until we all reunite again.