Remembering our friend, Stanley with fondness. His silly jokes, his weird sense of humour, are all treasured memories now. Sleep well dear friend. Hugs to our dear Penny, Gaby, and Nick 🙏🏽.

God is good, we may not say it enough but we love and miss you as we are still here cherishing your memories and legacy of a life lived the way you chose. One love unk. Continue to rest in eternal peace of love and laughter.
See you on the other side some day

I miss you so much babe. Only God knows how much but Rest In Peace. 

You left us suddenly, but your memories live on. Sleep on and take your rest . We miss you  


Our deepest condolences Aunty Penny. I remember since I was a young boy you and Uncle Stanley coming over. We'd listen to him crack jokes and then he would give me those stick-on tattoos I liked. Very good memories. 
Rest in peace Uncle Stanley. 
- Khalil, Alisha and Marya

My deepest condolence to all the family.I first met Stanley in the early 1960's when I became friends with Marie and Jean in Murray street.So many good memories of those days.May he RIP.

I met Stanley about 40 years ago through my brothers, on one of my visits back to Guyana, and we stayed friends over the years. Before I returned to Canada from that trip, he generously went and got the best Guyana rum as a gift for me to take back.  My daughter Jasmine and I had the pleasure of hanging out with him,  Penny, and the kids at their homes in Texas and in Florida, and there was never a dull moment with his corny jokes and dry humour. Like all his friends and relatives remember, Stan made his trademark with his karaoke singing, as well as telling his terrible jokes which we actually loved. He relished in telling stories from days of yore to engender laughter, and it was the lighthearted and funny way in which he told them that is memorable. My daughter Jasmine has fond memories of Stan asking her to sing karaoke with him at their home in Florida, while she was just a wee little lass, and she was so thrilled and totally enjoyed singing with this goof ball. He was a genuine person in the true sense of the word indeed. He never asked much and was always willing to assist in any way he could. When he visited Canada, he would contact my husband and me, and we would get him and take him to places he wanted to go, like his cousin’s bike shop, and some of his favourite W.I. restaurants. He was humble, sincere, and a great family person. He loved Penny, and his children so much and always spoke very fondly of them. I watched the funeral service on Zoom today. It was a blessed event with his loved ones celebrating his life with words of enduring memories. I was touched by Penny’s heartfelt words through her tears for her beloved husband. I saw the pain on Ann Marie’s face as she watched from Guyana, her dear brother on Zoom. Stanley has touched so many people in such positive ways. He has left an indelible mark on so many lives for sure. Penny my dear, may the wonderful memories help ease your loss and bring you solace and peace. Much love, Jenny, Afzal, & family.

Stanley was like a little brother, a little mischievous brother who was always getting into trouble. 
He was funny, he would have laughing .
We played soccer together, first on Gola United then GFC, Georgetown  Football Club .
We had lots of great times together and fun memories.
Stanley was a great guy. He will be missed.

 I’ve been struggling to find the right words for this man. It’s hit me hard as it rightfully should. We did not form a strong relationship until I was much older because of things that happened in the past between my mother and him. He tried many times over the years while I was young to keep contact with me with no success until I was 18 years old. He taught me how to drive and we shared so many laughs during the brief times we spent together. He loved to crack jokes and sang karaoke like a boss! He got to meet his grandsons and loved them with every piece of his heart! He was there on my wedding day to see me walk down the isle and danced the night away with me. He loved his children and his sweet wife Penny more than himself. He was so strong and stubborn and resilient and funny and so much more. I have many regrets about not making more time for him and I’m so so sorry for that. I only hope he knows how much I really love him. Rest easy Dad. You are deeply missed by so many.

It's not easy for me to say Goodbye, I never thought that there would come a time when our story would end, it's really hard to understand why but I guess I'll have to try.
Stanley, I remember all the great times we had, most good some sad but all cherished. Family, Football, Singing sessions with our close family and later Karaoke, parties or just liming and our birds. We also both loved to reminisce about the 'Good old days'.  We understood each other and you said it best when you wrote me once saying "I'm not as hard as I portray on the outside, it's really hard for me to say I love someone to their face, but it's the way I built myself after the life I went through" (end quote).
Stanley, you will live in my heart forever (I know, you'll have Company) and in the hearts you left behind, you may not have said 'I love you' often but your life was full of love for your family and friends. So if we listen to our hearts we will hear your beautiful voice singing to us. So glad we had the times together.
It's not easy for me to say Goodbye Stanley so I'll just sign off as we always did,  "LATER"

Dearest Penny, Gabby, Nick and Giselle
" A loss does not have to be walked through alone...
Know that you are loved by so many..."
With our deepest heartfelt sympathy . We are still in shock.

Suzanne,John,Tyler and Kayley

Uncle Stanley was definitely someone I could say lived life to the fullest and knew how to have a  good time! He had a smile that made his eyes sparkle, a laugh that was infectious and a heart that loved fiercely. He loved his birds, singing and his family... and he loved a good meal at the Mandarin whenever he was in Canada! Uncle Stanley, was and always will be loved by so many. I still can’t believe he earned his wings so suddenly...He will be missed but never forgotten! Sending lots of love to all... from Simone, Jason, Cameron and Nathan xo

My sympathy goes out to the Family .I am deeply saddened by Stanley's passing.,and wish his family all the best in the future.God Bless.

Uncle Stanley would light up every room, warm every heart and bring a smile to everyone's face.  Everything was more fun when he was around.  He will be so missed by so very many people.  We are keeping you in our hearts and thoughts Penny, Gabby, Nicholas and Giselle.  xo
Love from, Tracy, Tom, Ava and Luke

Our heartfelt condolences to Penny and kids, Giselle and Stanley's siblings and their families.  May you find everlasting comfort in the love and wonderful memories Stanley has left with you.
Chubby and Danellie

Stanley and Donna dancing at  our wedding  in Toronto, Sept.1989.

I was saddened to hear the news of my childhood friend, Stanley's passing.  He was one year older than I am; we attended Sacred Heart School in British Guiana, renamed Guyana, after our homeland became independent.  We were team mates and played junior football (soccer) for Gola United then we, the entire Gola United team, were asked to join Georgetown Football Club (GFC),  to start their junior football program. 
Stanley was an excellent footballer! He modeled his game after "Polis", one of our National Team stars. Stanley was proud to be called the "Potagee Polis" and he certainly lived up to comparison of his boyhood idol's fearless playing style. 
I lost touch with Stanley after I moved to Canada in 1969 but last year, sometime after his serious accident, which almost took his life, we did connect through facebook when he called, to update me on his near death experience. 
My favourite memory of Stanley was when we were about 8 and 9   years old respectively... On Main street,  walking home from school, we walked with our arms over each others' shoulders.  This moment stays fresh in my memory. We were good buddies.   May he rest in peace!

My deepest condolences to my Auntie Penny Gabby and Nick sending my love to you all Uncle Stanley will be deeply missed by everyone he touched the lives of many and those that knew him will carry on the memories we have shared until we meet again my dear uncle i love you 💔 Samara 

So sorry for your loss Penny and family.   I  know there is nothing for me to say that will make your loss any easier but know I am sending you my love and support.   I have known Stanley and the extended family as young teenagers since the 60's when we all lived in Murray Street.  Those were great times at Aunty Celes home.   
You are in my thoughts and prayers.  

Hi Penny, I'm sorry I took so long to send condolences to you and family as it was very difficult for me to accept what has happened. Stanley left us so sudden, it's hard to believe. We know our heavenly father knows best. We will surely miss him  just like so many others. RIP my brother, love you. 
Greg, Shobha, Kevin & Chris.

Dear Penny and family,
We were devastated to learn of the passing of our beloved Stanley. Please accept our love and deepest sympathy for your loss.
Stanley was a remarkable, delightful and deeply loving husband, father, son,  brother,  cousin and friend and we will all miss him dearly.
May your memories give you comfort at this time and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Terry and Debbie

Those who make us laugh give us the joy and lasting gifts of life.

Dear Penny and family.  Deepest sympathy for your loss. Stanley has always been able to bring a smile to my face. He was always jovial and cracking one joke or another.  He will surely be missed. God must have need for another angel. 

Hi Penny and Kids, please accept our deepest sympathy. God knows best. My son is gone. Whenever he calls, these are his words "Hi Mom, how are you doing" my response is "Ok" he replys back " Take care, I Love You Mom". I will never hear those words again. Stanley was full of laughter and fun he makes everyone feel good. No more Stanley, I will always love you son, I am going to miss you. Stanley how could you do this to us. You didn't even say goodbye. RIP, pray for us. 
- Love Mom (Aunty Celes)

I've loved this man for as long as I can remember.  He was not only my uncle, but also my godfather. At 37 y/o he's never missed a birthday phone-call (thanks aunty Penny) or any other milestone. He meant so much to me and I absolutely loved him with a huge part of my heart and soul. My favorite story is of him punching my dad back in the day because it literally who he is. He is THAT guy....THAT brother....THAT father....THAT uncle....THAT friend! My heart is shattered and I really will never ever be the same. He was a karaoke master and made the worse jokes and he was highly insulting. I love him for all his imperfections that made him perfect to me. Rest easy Stanislaus aka my favorite uncle. You have taken a piece of me with you....I carry your heart, I carry it in my heart. Sing loud and proud....I'm listening. Ray and Rayne are blessed to have met you. Forever yours....your favorite niece ;-) Aunty Penny, Nick and Gabs...thank you for sharing him with us. Thank you for being his legacy and keeping his memory alive. See you guys soon, sending all my love and strength. -Anjeta, Ray and Rayne. 

We had so many wonderful dinners and karaoke sessions-always plenty of laughter and enjoying those very high notes that only Stanley could hit! We love you Penny, Gabi and Nick. There are very few friends in life that are FOREVER friends - you all are that. Such a blessing to us and we pray that Jesus touches your lives with peace. We are always here for the three of you! <3 <3 <3

The memories from Waterloo Street will last forever .RIP My sweet friend 

My prayers to the family Sorry for your lost RIP

Dear Penny Gaby and Nick,

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I cannot imagine what you are going through. My prayers are with all of you. Rest In Peace Stanley. 

Stanley was such a sweet and calm man.  I remember when he walked into the clinic after being attacked by the hawks at work with blood dripping down his face. We were ready to call 911 and the national guard, freaking out and he was calm and cool like it was no big deal.  I will be praying for you, Nick and Gabi to find peace and to help heal your heart. I love you my friend. 

Aunt Penny, Giselle, Gabby and Nick,  our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you all. May God give you all the strength, courage and  guidance to move forward as you grieve together in family unity. 
Unk, We will miss you. You were and still is an amazing dad, husband, uncle, grandson, cuz, nephew and friend. We love you, we miss you and we pray that you continue to shine that light like you always have. You brighten up lives around you and you uplifted many in need.  Thank you for all the fun times and the joy you brought to our lives. 
Rest in God's eternal  peace, Unk
That farmer had two cows, one named memory and the other name more memory. He sold memory..........looking forward to your answer some day.....family unity and Love. The Campbell......

Dear Penny & family,
"Love knows no boundaries -
Even those that divide
Heaven and earth.
So whenever you feel sad,
Just remember,
Your hearts are connected together."
We are so sorry for your loss.  May the beautiful memories you have of Stanley bring you comfort and solace.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.   May you find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of him. 
With sincere sympathy.

Noel & Julie Camacho

May  Stanley's  light  guide you through... May  God see you throughout.
Love,
The Manning family. 


To Penny and family, I am very sorry for your loss.  Stanley was not only my cousin but he was also my brother. Whenever he would call he will say "Hi Sis where is mom". The kids will always remember him telling the joke of a 'Farmer had two cows...".  Stanley RIP until we meet  again. 
- Adele, Deo & Family

Seeing you with dad a few years ago laughing and enjoying family time in Virginia will be a lasting memory for me. You both looked so happy and fulfilled that day in true Guyanese fashion celebrating a reunion of sorts with great food and family. To say Rest In Peace Uncle Stanley isn’t really saying enough...I think you are smiling on us all and enjoying your rest in laughter, rest in love, rest in a full belly of some home cooking, and endless sun filled days with birds of all colors chirping gleefully....May your soul live on in all of us.  I see you when I see my dad,  I know your spirit lives on in him. ❤️💔❤️

My Condolences to Penny and Family.Stanley aka (Putagee Polis,Shots,) was always a kind hearted person and would always be remembered.May his ATMA rest in PEACE.

Penny and kids I am so sorry for your lost ,but Stanley was not just my cousin he was like a brother to me  , we grew up together very close , we  went to lots of parties and he was always the center of the party  always telling you a joke weather you want to hear it or not . He loved all his family and always call my mother (Celes Camacho) mom . I will sure miss him and will always cherish the last text he send to me on that same day saying stay safe love you . 
RIP Stanley . 

To Penny and family.  Be comforted to know that God is with you during these tough times.  Please hold dear the memories.  Weeping may endure for a  night, but joy comes in the morning.   May  his precious soul rest in peace. Sleep on and take your rest Stanley.  See you on the resurrection  morning. 

I have known Stanley since in the mid 70s. Firstly,  from the Georgetown Football Club,  and later at the Everest Cricket Club. We were the same age. I was born in March 1950.
Stanley will be missed. 

Hi cuz more of a brother I will miss the phone calls  and will cherish all the growing up days  will miss the ending calls with love you Cuz and stay safe RIP Stanley will always love and miss you

We are so sorry got your loss.Penny and children.. Stanley was a good and kind person with a heart of gold.. He had a beautiful voice and I know he loved you and his children dearly..Our thoughts and prayers are with you all... Much love ❤️ Bill and Joanne

Penny, I am so sorry to hear this news! I cannot imagine the pain you and the kids must be feeling after such a sudden loss. Stanley was an amazing man and he will be dearly missed by all those who knew him. Sending thoughts and prayers to you all to find strength at this difficult time. God bless xoxo Christina & Family

My sweet brother Stanley I cannot believe that you’re gone.  If I had only known that you were going to leave so suddenly I would have held on For dear life to our last chat and never let you go.  Our loving bond has  always been special, loving and precious and will never be broken. Although My heart is broken in tiny pieces, I will never stop loving you my darling brother and will forever Hold you in my Heart. I will miss our everyday chats and you always telling me how much you loved me and to stay safe.   You were so loved and will be missed dearly.  Heaven must have been missing in Angel. Rest Peacefully in the Arms of our Heavenly Father.  Until we meet again!

Stanley, you left without warning. Gone so fast. Now all we have are memories of our past. 

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Stanley I. Defreitas

4 agosto, 1950 – 7 julio, 2020

Hodges Funeral Home at Lee Memorial Park

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