Pam and Paula my favorite twins in the whole wide world!

I am so sorry to read of the passing of your Mother. Of course I was just a child when I knew her but she always seemed larger than life to me. I know she put up with alot of our antics and watched plays we performed. 

All my prayers as you navigate through your grief.

One of the Penn Ave brat pack
Jillann Barnes

So sorry for your loss. I was a Realtor colleague and we did a few transactions together and she was fantastic to work with and such a lovely Lady. Dan Trenary

Pam and Paula, we are so sorry to hear about your mom. I only met Pat once, at a baby shower for Pam I think, but I remember her vibrance! Her obituary supports that she had a zest! 
I hope all your happy memories of her and your families comfort you.  Condolences to the grandchildren too. 
Patty and Bill Marvin
Aunt of Steve Schultz and Pam

I had met Pat at other real estate functions but got to know her better working for Keller Williams Real Estate Group. 

I was so saddened to hear of her passing and send my heartfelt condolences to the rest of the family. She was such a unique, energetic individual.. 

It was an honor to work with her at KWRG!!! 

💔💔💔

With love,  respect, and memories, 
Paul Martin

Pat, I  only met you for the last several years.  I became a member of the committee for planning the 60th North Side Redskins reunion.  It was wonderful connecting or reconnecting with the classmates.

I also attended a couple of Holiday parties at Pine Valley Country Club.  I remember your sense of humor and that you always ordered a Hot Fudge or Chocolate sundae for dessert.

Thank you for the memories.  I know you and Gary have your wings and are together again.

Sending blessings and prayers to your family and friends.

Gayle Figel Klause

To Pam and Paula…I wanted to express my sincere sorrow of your mom passing.  She has meant so much to our family and has helped us both personally and professionally.  My dad would have been lost without her after our mom passed away.  Her friendship meant so very much to dad.  Blessings and love to your family at this time .  Love Dana Rusher…another twin in your life💕

Dear Pam and Paula and family ,Jack and I were very sorry to hear of Pats passing.
Gerry and Pat used to live very near us in Pine Valley before moving to a villa.
Just saw Pat recently at pvcc,she was a lovely ,hardworking,friendly lady.
God bless her 🙏

Dear Pat's family,  we are so sorry to hear of Pat's passing.
She was such a wonderful, caring , loving and not to mention the hardest working person we have know .  God has for sure welcomed her home.
We are so sorry that we will not be able to come to the viewing or the service tomorrow.  You will for sure be in our thoughts and prayers.
Celebrate her life and enjoy all the memories she has given all.

In sympathy
Phil (Skip) and Carol Lydy

Pam and Paula,
My sincere condolences. Your mother  was certainly one to look up to. She impacted so many lives, including my own. May God bless you and your family with the happiest of memories of your mother.
Love,
Tammy (Parker) King

My Aunt Pat and Uncle Gerry are some of the most generous people I have ever known. I will never forget the red petunias she always planted… nothing else in her planters, just red petunias. When we would visit she would have only condiments in her fridge, which was astounding to me as a kid. She ate out almost every meal at Halls! As an adult I understand this fully and I want to be just like my Aunt Pat! I know she’s selling clouds in heaven, and she’s getting the best ones for Jerm and Chris. I love you Aunt Pat ❤️

We loved Pat so much! She and Gerry were wonderful, loving neighbors to my aunt and uncle. They were family to us. Sending love and prayers for Pam and Paula and the whole family.

Lauren, Sophia, and Eric

Oh no, I'm so sad to hear this. I LOVED Pat! She was my realtor and come to find out I went to HS with her daughters! Rest in heaven, Pat! We sure will miss you!

I worked with your mom and dad for many years, I was so sad when they choose another office, but we still kept in contact and remained good friends until the end.   They were good people and I have fond memories of them.  They sure did love their family !!!  Thank you girls for taking such good care of both of them.   Joyce Swartz

Our most sincere sympathy to you, her daughters and grandchildren. I can't begin to express the thanks we have for knowing Pat and Gerry.
One of the best memories is the long cruise on the Queen Elizabeth.
We miss their friendship but will forever cherish the memories we shared with your parents. Pat lived her life according to God's plan.
Much love,
Chuck and Carole Nelson

Twins,

Those who knew your parents loved them.  They sold our properties.  Always giving 110%.  St. John's Lutheran Church, Lake Twp. Is a better place because of the loved they poured into their church.  You know how much they loved you!!! Max and Rose

I will miss our emails, Pat.  You were a wonderful classmate....Redskins to the end.  Rest in peace, reunited with Gerry.  Our  pastor at Crescent Ave Church announced  her passing in church at prayer time.

501.  4848246.  Those numbers will forever be etched in my memory, mostly because of Aunt Pat.  Aunt Pat was, to me, the most no nonsense person in the world. I still remember when they were putting in a spiral staircase on Penn Ave.   They  just had a ladder going from their kitchen to the second floor and  I was scared to go from the kitchen up the ladder. Aunt Pat, in the most stirring tone, told me to just get up that ladder.  You just did not disobey Aunt Pat.  There were times where I felt like Fort Wayne was as much as my hometown as Delaware.  I will always cherish the times when I came back to Fort Wayne every so often when I was working in North Manchester.  They were my parents away from home.  I’m so happy that she had a chance to interact and fall in love with my children.  After uncle Gerry  passed, Aunt Pat was a big part of our lives I’m so happy that my children got to know her.  I love you Aunt Pat and I will miss you.  You will always have a special place in my heart.

OBITUARIO

Patricia "Pat" Lou Lydy

26 septiembre, 1945 – 26 julio, 2025

D.O. McComb & Sons Funeral Homes - Pine Valley

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