6...

""Always something there to remind me...You will always be a part of me""

The lyrics of that song are so true. As we approach tomorrow - August 7th - for the 6th year, that same dark cloud rolls in to cover my heart. Memories of joy and sorrow creep into my mind. I feel the joyful anticipation I felt as we waited with Brad and Karen, for the arrival of our first grandchild. I hear the sound of the phone - the sound of Annie's voice. And - I feel the devastating horror of losing our Jay. I relive the drive through the night, from Texas to Denver - hoping beyond hope that someone has made a terrible mistake. This can't possibly be happening - that the same day Jay came into our lives would be the day we would lose him. But it was true.

And still, as that dark cloud creeps in it also brings good memories of happier times. I am thankful for that. The first ray of sunshine broke through as we welcomed the arrival of our grand daughter Kasen, only 3 days after Jay left us. As Kasen talks about Uncle Jay, in Heaven, I think - Yes, Jay WILL always be a part of all of us.

Tomorrow we will say a silent Happy 41st Brithday Jay, and we will remember the joy that he brought into our lives.

Love Always...Mom & Dad; Brad, Karen, Kasen & Holden

1825 days...
We don't remember Jay once a year, but each  day - a plane going over;  a motorcycle; a dog like Banshee or Riley  reminds us how much Jay loved his dogs, & the hours he spent training them.  We watch Kasen & Holden & think how they would have loved their Uncle Jay.
Today Jay would have been 40.  Five years ago we called to wish him a happy birthday - to have a wonderful day - that we loved him & would talk to him later.  Later never happened.  Waiting for the  arrival of our grand daughter Kasen, we instead heard Annie's voice.  The memories of those hours & days arise, sometimes at unexpected moments. The shock & pain has lessened over 1825 days but still remains.  
Many times we find ourselves saying ""Jay would have liked that"" or ""Just wish Jay was here to share this moment with us"".  He brought such joy into all our lives & we miss him - each day. 
Forever loved; Forever missed 
Mom & Dad
Brad & Karen, Kasen & Holden

I was reorganizing some drawers today and came upon Jay's Memorial program. I thought five years would make it less painful as I opened it and gazed upon the picture of him on what I remember as his wedding day to his sweet Annie. My tears surprise me, but they shouldn't. He meant a lot to me and Hannah. And he even made a strong impression on my husband who quickly called him friend in the short time that he knew him. I'm so glad we will see him again in heaven someday. Blessings to his family.

FOUR YEARS.....TIME...
As time draws closer to August 7th, memories and emotions flood back.  I think of past birthdays and that we should be celebrating your 39th birthday today.  I look at your photo and time seems to stand still.  But time does heal, and now, I smile before the tears, as I see your smiling face.  I take time to 'hear' your voice, and the sound of your laughter, and to remember what a special person you were.  We had so many hopes and dreams and wishes for you that will never be.  It is still hard to believe, and accept, that we will never physically have time with you again.  We wish Brad and Karen's Kasen, 4 on August 10th; and baby Holden, born on June 25th; could have time to know their Uncle Jay.
We have learned how precious time is and how we should value each new day.  We hold tight to our memories, and to God's promise that we will be reunited.  For now - you are forever 35 in our eyes, and forever loved in our hearts and time will never change that.
Words are inadequate to express how much we miss you.  
Love always, Mom and Dad
                       Brad & Karen, Kasen & Holden

I never knew Jay but learned of his passing in the course of my work in aviation safety research.  His family and friends have my sincerest condolences.

THREE YEARS..
We look out the window --
The world seems unchanging.
The sun and moon play their roles,
Seasons come and go,
Days, months, and years flow by.
Inside, our world is forever changed.
Tho we appear the same,
We are no longer complete.
A vital part of us is missing --
That can never be replaced.
One voice unheard...
One smile unseen...
One light no longer shines...
Except in our minds and hearts,
Where we will -- forever unchanging --
Hold our love, and memories of Jay.
Love Always, Mom and Dad
                       Brad, Karen and Kasen

TWO YEARS....
It is still hard to accept that Jay's years were so few.  In a small way, it is comforting to know that he lived life to the fullest.  Jay saw each new day as an opportunity and he did so much in his short life.  We miss Jay calling to say ""I've been thinking..."" and waiting to hear what his next adventure would be.
Jay valued family and friends above all else and greeted all with a smile that would warm any heart.  He left us all with a greater desire to value each day; to treasure what is truly important in life; and to remember ""It is not the years of our life, but the life in our years that counts"".
Jay will be forever loved, forever treasured, and forever missed by all who knew him.
Happy Birthday Jay, Love Always,
Mom & Dad
Brad, Karen & Kasen
and Annie

I was saddened to hear of Jay's passing.  My condolences to the family.  Cam

I met Jay at Crossroads in 1992 just before I was married myself.  He and I were less than a year apart in age and though our association at that time was short, we got along well.  Interestingly though, I also wound up working with him again at both ExpressVu and EchoStar in Cheyenne.  Since then we have taken the time to chat at NAB in Las Vegas every year.  He is one of the few people that I look forward to seeing there each year.  Despite our rather distant relationship, his passing struck me more heavily than I would have expected and I felt compelled to write something.  My deepest condolences to all of Jay's people, but especially his parents.  No one should ever have to bury a child.  Rest in peace Jay.  You will be truly, truly missed.  God Bless.

To Annie,the Schneider's, and the Greeley's
There are a lot of people in this world that Jay touched with his kindness and sincerity.I was one of them. I have lots of fond memories of Jay and his delicious chocolate cookies.My wife Louise and myself lived accross the hall from Jay when he was working @ Crossroads in Burlington.I helped Jay move several times in his beautiful white and blue Jimmy. If there was a race, involving any type of motorized vehicle, Jay was one of the first guys I would call to accomany me.We attended many race car events in around Ontario and New York State.
I know that Jay found solice and true happiness with Annie,his soul mate.
Our thoughts and prayers are forever with you.
We will never forget him.

On behalf of myself and everyone here at Sencore I would like to extend our condolences for your loss.
As an equipment provider to Echostar I had the opportunity to work with Jay several times over the last few years and was shocked and saddened to learn of his passing.
Jay and I shared the love of many things including hunting and I was looking forward to spending time with him this fall pheasant hunting in South Dakota, please know he will be missed and remembered by those at Sencore he worked with.
May God keep his light on you as you navigate your way thought this time of sadness.
David Jockheck
Sencore Electronics.

So sorry to hear of Jay. What words can convey the sadness we feel for you all. If I try real hard, I can feel a little envy for where he is but sorrow conflicts with that right now. Only Jesus can help us and you deal with this sudden graduation of Jay. Please lean hard on the friends God has groomed for just such a time as this.  Love because of Him...   Jim Juan and family.

I am barely able to believe that Jay has indeed been taken away from us so soon. He was always so full of life and even in these times of sorrow, I have so many great memories that I can't help to look back on and laugh, if that is the right word. Jay you will be missed by all, so much so that words cannot describe.
God Bless you Annie, Doug and Heather.
Troy Brock

I have lived next door to Jay for 7 years.I was very saddened to hear of his accident.He was a great neighbor and a great person.I will miss visiting with him over the fence and talking with him in his garage.My boy Mason would yell at Jay when he saw him and say "" Hi Bob "" when he was little which would make Jay laugh.We never could figure out why he called Jay "" Bob ""
 I will miss Jay deeply and my thoughts and prayers go out to Annie,Jay's parents,and all of his family and friends.
          Kerry and Ella Hoberg
              Devon and Mason

I got to know Jay through working with him at Echostar. He was really a wonderful person to work with. He touched so many lives. We will all miss him greatly.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. 
We wish you and your family all the peace and comfort that only God can give us.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,

While I only met Jay briefly I could see his joy and spirit in the way he conducted himself at work and the reaction he received from co-workers here in Gilbert AZ. He road his bike from Cheyenne to the Gilbert Uplink and was a genuinely nice person. 
My sympathies go to those who loved Jay; family, friends and co-workers.
In the quiet moments when the hurt is hard to bear 
May the love of family and friends become your shelter 
And memories of Jay bring smiles along with tears.

We miss Jay very much and look forward to the day when we are again together in heaven.  The day his smiling face graces our presence again, is a day that each of us are looking forward to.
Love,  Jeff, Vickie, and Joseph McSchooler

REMEMBERING YOU JAY....
     Aug. 7, 1970 - Aug. 7, 2005
""As you hold me close in memory,
    Even though we are apart,
  My spirit will live on,
    There within your heart...
      I am with you always
When you lean on trusted friends
   And their caring hugs enfold you
  Within their loving arms,
   I'll be there to hold you...
      I am with you always
And beyond the far horizon
    When we'll finally be together,
  Where love will be eternal
    And life will last forever...
      I am with you always""
               -Author Unknown
ONE YEAR:
Sometimes it doesn't feel real
Sometimes the reality seems
    too hard to bear
Sometimes it feels like an eternity
Sometimes like a moment in time
Memories of that moment bring pain
Memories of you, Jay, bring joy.
We feel your spirit with us
       BUT...
We long to hear your voice
We long to feel your touch
To be folded in your arms
To see your smile
To hear your laughter
To share your life
To wish you Happy Birthday
To tell you how proud we are of you
To tell you how much we love you...
We miss you so much...
Love Always, Mom and Dad,
             Brad, Karen and Kasen
             and Annie

Our condolences to you and your family.  Your son Jay lived a wonderful life and he was a very special young man.  Our deepest sympathies to all of you.

We were deaply saddened on hearing of the loss of Jay. He was a good friend and work companion while at Crossroads. May the comfort and grace of almighty God and the ministry of His angels lift you up and sustain you all in this your hour of need.
Blessings, 
Dennis & Sandy Curley

Dear Doug, Heather, Annie, Brad and Karen,
We were so very saddenned to hear of Jay's accident. As long as we can remember Jay was always happy, upbeat and personable. One of the most memorable things about him was the twinkle in his eyes when he smiled. 
There are no words to express our deep sorrow for your sudden loss, but we look forward to seeing you when you get home.
In this difficult time may the Lord bless you with His peace and His presence.

Jay, I will truly miss you. Godspeed my friend...
Annie..I can not think of any words that would express the sorrow that I am feeling for you and all..you will always be in my heart and mind...

Jay was a wonderful person and he touched so many lives. We all loved Jay and he will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. 
I wish you and your family  the peace and comfort that only God can give.. 
With Heartfelt Sympathy, 
Danna Wyatt
EchoStar

Dear Schneiders,
I remember visiting you Heather in the hosptial when Jay was born. Leslie was wishing she had some glads in bloom for you. Jay had always been a joy wherever he went. We are all so fortunate to have known him and been a part of his life. Now he will be using his musical talents (playing & singing) with the angels. Our hearts are so full of sorrow for you and your familes. Gods riches blessings for you as you get through these days of grief.

OBITUARIO

Jay Douglas Schneider

7 agosto, 1970 – 7 agosto, 2005

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