hey you, happy birthday. sorry im late but you know what they say, its never to late for anything, you know what i mean. Jon, thanks for bringing me blessed year. Im very grateful that i have you as my guide
and as well as maricela. dont think that we forgot about you. me and maricela actually celebrated your birthday together. i miss you and so does everybody. I guess ill see you in heaven 143 sQ. til then please watch over us. jon, be good, remember that god is watching you. ha ha ha. miss you and love you.

hey baby boy,
 I missed you for christmas. So did you guys throw a big party for Jesus or what, No strippers, right? J/K. Thanks for guiding me and everyone for another new year. It's definitely not the same without you here. You're sweet mom sent me an email christmas card. That was so cute. I'm hoping to vist you next spring, for spring break. You know i read emmy's email and she reminded me of the day we went to midget town... That's freaking funny. When you and bill thought you guys were getting chased by a midget on a golf cart. oh man. Hey what about that time you got in a fight in front of jiffy lube and knocked out that dumb nerd. that was so brave of you and very smart. Now i know to clock out before I punch anybody so I can't get in trouble.  =) Hey you know what, some guy from your school came by jiffy lube and you had a class with him and brian. Weird, huh? Hi from virginia and we were just talking about you for a while. He said he remembers you as the captain of the division. and how you always stood up in front the instructor.. I miss you. and so does maricela. WE ALL DO. I wish there was a crazy arrangement with where we could see you every once in a while. that'd be nice. you've been gone too long. We need people like you in this world. sometimes, I start to question God but i figured i'll never know til I get there. Well i love you and see you later. Happy New Year.....

Hey Jon~  So I was reading my last message to you and I have to confess...I didn't end up getting that tattoo for you.  Surprise Surprise huh!!!  I know you probably didn't expect me to anyways.  I'm just deathly afraid of needles.  You know that!!!  Anyways...I just got an email from your mom today telling me that you're a new uncle!!!!  Congratulations.  I know that you'll give Macy guidance from up above and be a wonderful guardian angel to her!!!  I miss you so much.  I started thinking the other day about how long you've been in heaven now...its been way too long.  You need to come back!!!  I need you to cheer me up on my off days.  I'm getting ready to send in my pharmacy applications.  I'm pretty nervous about it.  I try to remember you're comforting voice when you tell me not to worry, but I just can't help it.  You need to pull some strings up there with the big guy and tell him that Emmy needs some serious help!!!  Work something out for me would ya!!!!!:)  I really miss the conversations I had with you Jon.  You really need to visit my dreams again soon.  The other day I started thinking about the time you snuck into ""midget town""!!!  Who ever knew there was such a thing, but apparently you and Jimmy managed to work your way in just fine.  I don't know how that popped into my head, but it made me laugh!!!!  I think that Michal and I might go to California this year for spring break.  I'm excited about it. Speaking of Michal she's coming to see me on Friday!!!!!!  Help her get here safely!!  I'm so excited to see her.  It's been since June!!!  We'll make sure to have lots of fun for you.  We just won't be able to drunk dial you this time.  Well I should probably sum this up now....but I just wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year.  My New Year won't be as great this year without you to kiss.  Last year was sooooo much fun!!!  I'll never forget it!!!!  Take care up there and never ever forget how much I love you and miss you!!!!!!!!!!!! 
~all of my love~  Emmy

Hey Jon Jon,
I miss you alot. i'm sorry I haven't written you a letter, but god knows i think of u daily. So how's heaven? Plenty of chicks? Handsome as you I'm sure you don't have a problem getting them all. I've been so busy. Things in my life are kind of getting crazy. I'm just trying to maintain. I haven't talk to Jimmy in a while, actually since he left Jiffy Lube. Him and marty are moving in together now. I guess Jimmy's old roommate is bailing out on them. Please watch over them, for only you guys up there can help them in any obsticles that go their way. God, I miss you.... I see you everyday.. Everytime I have a problem, I think of you. Cuz somehow you always manage to handle things very well. And with school starting, I need thoughts of you to motivate me.. Sometimes, I think about the moments we all spent together. Those memories are so classic. Do you remember when you were pushing Michal on the cart...and Michal fell. That was too hilarious. By the way, tell Michal I said hello and I miss her and to call me.562-927-2724. Anyways, Pleae watch over me as well as everyone else. i know you're that angel on my shoulder when I need a good sense of direction.. I love you and please feel free to visit me in my dreams. I'd like to see you, bring memories back..I LOVE YOU.  Susan

Family and Friends,
I have had the pleasure of growing up with Jon since day one of my life. I feel as though God has truely blessed me with an amazing extended family.  Corey, Jon, Blake, Apryl, and myself, grew up together and ruled the neighborhood as kids. I consider each one of these individuals to be a brother and sister to me, and I thank God for the amazing childhood we all had. Jon has helped me through so many different obstacles throuhgout my life, from helping me with boys, to protecting me from the vicous dogs on my paper route everyday, to teaching me the true meaning of an ""Indian Burn"". Jon was an amazing and determined person. I couldn't think of a single person who knew Jon and didn't fall in  love with him! He could always make you laugh and touch your heart with his care-free soul. I am proud of Jon each and every day for the things he accomplished in his life. I hope he will protect me and everyone else, the way he did throughout my childhood and highschool. It pierces my soul to know that such a beautiful person like Jon is no longer with us physically, the world definitely needs more people like Jon! Everyday I think about you Jon, as well as Mike, Sally, Luke,and Matt. You will always live on in my heart and soul Jonny! I will forever miss you and love you!
Love Always, 
your little sis, Colleen

Hi Har,
It's August 7th now.  I was thinking about a lot of things today.  Mostly, about you. I talked to Emmy a little while ago.  We always end up talking about you, Mr. Popular.   I always think it is going to get a little easier- but it doesn't.  I see your mom or talk to her everyday.  I think it is helping both of us.  She makes me happy.  I just wanted to say i really miss you and I am super excited to see you again.  Be good and keep us safe.  We miss you Darling.
My Love,
HARRY

I unfortuantly found the news months too late, but I remember having much fun with Jon Mailander. He was THVS and I was LHS, so even through high school rivalry, we came friends through mutual friends.  He was kind, knew how to have fun, charismatic, and full of potential. I give his family my deapist condolences and may his memory last forever.

Jon~ So much time has passed and still till this day I can't believe it. Everyday I see your face in the pictures that I have, I have the one of you in your sombero and your aviators, that was the 4th of July, that you were going out front and trying to pick up the ladies, and of course you conquered your task! You brought all of us together when you came back to visit, like it was in school. Everyone misses you here and we all can't wait to see you again. You always made me smile about how you were always so determined to conquer your dreams. I will never forget when me and Jared went out to cali and we all went to the beach, You in your flip flops, shorts with your surfboard in hand, Country boy met the ocean ha ha. I will talk to you later, I will never forget you! With Love Linds

Jon~  I still can't believe that you are gone.  I miss you so much.  Its so different not being able to call you every weekend.  I really miss your advice and kind words.  I'm going to Cancun this weekend.  I'm going to scuba dive like you told me to.  Also I'm still going to bring back a picture of an alligator to settle our argument once and for all.  Don't worry, I'll bring it to you so you can see.  I'm going to see Michal tomorrow.  I'm so exicted to see her.  She's bringing some pictures of you from California.  She's making me get a tattoo too.  You know how scared I am of needles so you better be with me.  You told me that you'd take me to get my first tattoo and promised that it didn't hurt.  I'm keeping you to that promise.  If it hurts we're going to have a little talk about that the next time I see you.  Well I just wanted to tell you that I miss you and love you.  Please don't ever forget me because I'll never forget you.  I look forward to seeing you again!!!!
I'll love you always,
Emmy

Hi Love,
I think of you everyday.  I wonder every moment how you are doing.  I sure do miss you.  I am working at the gas booth. I know you are laughing as I tell you and are thinking, why would i still wanna work at jiffy lube again. I don't know I guess I am a lifer! just kidding I won't be there much longer.  I spoke with Jimmy the other day he is doing well. I guess Bill got a girl pregnant and married her- you know the girl from crispy kreme, yeah her:)  Isn't that unbelievable!  Eubanks  came over last night, he wants to hang out sometime.  I miss you soooo much! just come back to me please.  I need to see your face or do your your hair (let it grow a little, not so ""high n' tight"" it easier to do that way) I am wearing your shirt right now, the porn star one i love it.  Will you please just visit me sometime in my dreams or right now would be fabulous!  I honestly love you and never want to let you go and please do let me go.  You are my love and my best friend forever.  Keep all of us safe.
Love you Baby Boy,
Harry

Hi Little Johnny, it's me Mom, I miss you everyday and every second. This is the only way I know how to talk to you beside going to the cememtary. I wish you would talk to me or am I asking to soon?  The days are not getting better so you need to help me and your friends,Michal just called me and she still doesn't have her paper done,please talk to her! I am going to get the tatoo!  You need to be there, you would laugh at me!  I miss you and I Love You!

Harry,
I am still thinking of you everyday. Emmy sent me a picture of us three at Jim's house last summer.  She wrote me a very nice letter.  She said she sent that same picture with you on your way.  Now we all three have it.  I realized the other day that you probably were the most important person in my life.  I stuck it out in Cali when you told me to. If I didn't my life would be so much different right now and I am glad you were a huge part of it.  I am leaving this winter for London to live and go to school.  When I get homesick you have to help me again.  I got a tatoo for you.  You are going to love it!! It is the west coast choppers cross, and it says Harry Long Beach. Winston, Mark and Taylor got one too.  The boys got Nebraska N's with your initials and Tay has a West Coast Choppers cross with your initials also. I am never ever going to stop thinking about you, I hope you know that!  It doesn't seem to be getting any easier, but you do make me smile. You'll always be my angel.
love you,
Harry

Mike, Sally, Luke and Family,
  Jon was a very outgoing and loveable person to be around at TVHS!  Jon will be truely missed! My prayers will be with your family always and forever. God Bless
Crystal Boersma

Dear Sally, Mike, Matt,and Luke:
I was going to write you all earlier, but I just wasn't strong enough.  I want to tell you all that I have thought of your family everyday since March 1st.
Your son/brother made a big impact in my life, too big to be expressed in words.  You are an incredibley strong family.  God would not let this happen if you weren't strong enough.  Jon was the one guy that walked in a room and my eyes would light up.  Now when I think of him my heart lights up.  I just wanted to Thank You for having such a great person come into all of our lives.  We are all deeply touched by him and will continue to be when we think of him.  If you don't mind  would love to stop by sometime and see you all.  I will definately come to California to see you Luke.  You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Once again, Thank You so much for bringing Harry into my life.
All My Love to you,
Michal

To Jon's Family,
I cannot begin to know the depth of your sorrow and I pray God will strengthen you, guide you, and show you the reason for His decision.  My husband and I will continue to keep you in our prayers.

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Jonathan Mailander

28 febrero, 1983 – 1 marzo, 2003

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